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X_Raindrops0nRoses_X

PostPosted: Sat Dec 11, 2010 6:43 pm


i want them to know im bi because i hate that all my guy friends can go on and on about a girl i like and i cant say anything at all! and the friends that are girls--well im not sure,i stay away from them now...
how would i tell my friends man? i told one,kinda,it was on accident...it harshes my mellow! my mellow has been harshed!
*sobs hopelessly* DX DX
have yall come out to yalls friends???????
PostPosted: Sun Dec 12, 2010 1:40 am


Just tell them, and if they have a problem look at them and say "Tough."

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X_Raindrops0nRoses_X

PostPosted: Sun Dec 12, 2010 3:40 pm


nice advice man,i would probably take that under consideration! only problem is i have to wait until i grow a backbone and some self confidence...
PostPosted: Sun Dec 12, 2010 4:55 pm


Well... you and I have the same problem then -__-

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X_Raindrops0nRoses_X

PostPosted: Sun Dec 12, 2010 5:17 pm


so basically we are both spineless people who have friends who can go on about people they like and we cant,dude! you were gonna make me put my neck on the chop block when you havnt told your friends either!...*mumble mumble*
Heavy_m3tal_hippy
Well... you and I have the same problem then -__-
PostPosted: Mon Dec 13, 2010 8:02 am


All my friends know. Hell my friends knew beofre my family. Look your true friends won't abandon you when you come out. Trust me I know this. It's not easy to see so called friends leave if they don't accept you, but trust me your don't want to hang with people that won't love you and accept you for who you are. I've been through this. I hid myself from my friends for a long time and when I finally came out they were happy. There were only one or two people that didn't accept me. Trust me hon I know how hard it is to get up some self confidence.

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PostPosted: Mon Dec 13, 2010 10:00 pm


i told my friends, and they are totally okay with it, and most of my friends are bi or gay anway, and my closest friends are straight (weird) but all of them treat me the same as before they knew. Don't worry about it, if they don't stick by you, they aren't good friends.
PostPosted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 2:15 pm


omigosh! i totaly told them! only it started by us just picking around that i was a lesbian, and then some words were spoken and so...at lunch i told them...my friend said her mom was right cus her mum called me a lesbian alot...but im not a lesbian im bi woot! im always right! sorta,so happy ending for me ^^
mostly anyway

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 15, 2010 8:41 am


good for you my frend i told my frend's i was bi and my bffl was like "OMG I KNEW IT " it was funny and i come from a church famly and can't tell them i have talked to my mom and you know asked her what she wold do if i was bi and she sed she wold kill me so havent told my famly yet so haha i dont know .
PostPosted: Wed Dec 15, 2010 6:50 pm


dude i come from a church family too..and my two guy friends i told were like i thought so and the other one was like epic and pointed out pretty people 0.0
but other people in my family are lesbian so maybe my parents wont care...
hatebubbles359
good for you my frend i told my frend's i was bi and my bffl was like "OMG I KNEW IT " it was funny and i come from a church famly and can't tell them i have talked to my mom and you know asked her what she wold do if i was bi and she sed she wold kill me so havent told my famly yet so haha i dont know .

X_Raindrops0nRoses_X


Sugah_Wolfeh

PostPosted: Fri Dec 17, 2010 7:25 am


I just found out I was bi like in June and alotta my friends seem homophobic, and I've only told a couple of them. I really wanna tell all of them since I gotta girlfriend
PostPosted: Fri Dec 17, 2010 10:27 am


I didn't really come out. I was at school and was walking around with my then boyfriend. and I walked him to class, and gave him a quick little kiss. so thats how my friends found out. i just recently figured out that im actually transgender after someone i know was talking about it. so i did some reasearch and found that i identify most as transgender. any way. most of my friends are fine with me being bi. i've only told three of my friends that im transgender and two are perfectly fine with it. im not entirely sure about the third friend i told

hawkmaster91


X_Raindrops0nRoses_X

PostPosted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 10:44 am


wow...dude if their all you loser blah blah blah just say something totaly stoner/hippie and stuff...its funy if anything
hawkmaster91
I didn't really come out. I was at school and was walking around with my then boyfriend. and I walked him to class, and gave him a quick little kiss. so thats how my friends found out. i just recently figured out that im actually transgender after someone i know was talking about it. so i did some reasearch and found that i identify most as transgender. any way. most of my friends are fine with me being bi. i've only told three of my friends that im transgender and two are perfectly fine with it. im not entirely sure about the third friend i told
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