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 Posted: Wed Nov 24, 2010 3:11 pm
 oliver-Yeah so I hooked up with a coworker earlier today.
It was kinda weird/awkward, but kinda hot too.
Nothing below the belt, although he hella wanted to. xD
I figure I'll just use him for getting high and drunk, since he can buy me alcohol.
I NOW WONDER WHAT SHIFTS WITH HIM WILL BE LIKE.
Discuss: coworker foolin'.
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Posted: Wed Nov 24, 2010 9:46 pm
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lol really?
Also message:
Zah says: "No, can't say I've ever done that, I actually take my jobs seriously and am not brain-dead retarded."
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Posted: Wed Nov 24, 2010 9:48 pm
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Posted: Wed Nov 24, 2010 9:58 pm
wait wtf, don't you have a boyfriend with whom you are madly in love?
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Posted: Wed Nov 24, 2010 10:27 pm
Sonnenblume wait wtf, don't you have a boyfriend with whom you are madly in love? i think she made a post about having an open relationship now. but uhhh, why are you so classy? neutral
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Posted: Wed Nov 24, 2010 10:58 pm
my best friend has had two work hook-ups.
both ended badly.
good luck!
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Posted: Wed Nov 24, 2010 11:24 pm
Alexandrasaurus Sonnenblume wait wtf, don't you have a boyfriend with whom you are madly in love? i think she made a post about having an open relationship now. but uhhh, why are you so classy? neutral oh. i'm not around much, my b. what exactly is entailed in an open relationship? is that just like.. a ******** buddy or is it more intimate like friends- with benefits? or.. idgi. not following. not mopping what you're spilling.
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Posted: Thu Nov 25, 2010 1:40 am
It just sounds like a sugar-daddy-type situation; get with a guy, let him get attached even though you tell him you're in an open relationship, and ******** it up for him at the end of it. 'Classy' is, indeed, a good word for this. But if you can somehow make it work, then hooray!
Which actually brings me to this question: omg, does anyone think of intimacy as a one-person-deal anymore? :C Seems like everyone I know isn't really into dating, but 'hooking up' with people on the fly. Is sexual compatibility really a bigger thing than emotional compatibility these days? WHAT I NOT GETTING?
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Posted: Thu Nov 25, 2010 7:51 am
lol cait i feel the same way about intimacy.
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Posted: Thu Nov 25, 2010 9:46 am
Sonnenblume Alexandrasaurus Sonnenblume wait wtf, don't you have a boyfriend with whom you are madly in love? i think she made a post about having an open relationship now. but uhhh, why are you so classy? neutral oh. i'm not around much, my b. what exactly is entailed in an open relationship? is that just like.. a ******** buddy or is it more intimate like friends- with benefits? or.. idgi. not following. not mopping what you're spilling.
Pretty sure it turns into an open relationship when one of the people involved decides that the other isn't putting out enough, so it becomes an "open relationship" so that one person can go do anyone they want without it being considered cheating. At least that's my understanding. :3 So I guess having an open relationship is like having several ******** buddies? This is the epitome of class.
Also omg Cait I love you. I am a firm believer in the fact that sex should be one of the last things on your mind when you start dating someone.
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Posted: Thu Nov 25, 2010 10:50 am
Wow the judgement reeking from this thread is pretty awful.
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Posted: Thu Nov 25, 2010 11:13 am
NECCA, IF YOU AND YOUR BF ARE HAPPY I SUPPORT WHATEVER DECISION YOU GUYS MAKE.
I mean I could personally never do it but if you wanna that's fine I don't know why it's such a huge deal to everyone else, they're not dating you.
you little harlot you
I just find it weird that when necca fools around with a guy and shes in an open relationship oh god it;s the end of the world
but say it's morde (sorry im just using you as an example, i have nothing against you either) hooking up with guys and having random sexcapades, it's like OHH GIRL YEAH GIRL -highfives-
I dunno seems a bit strange to judge someone for similar actions and congratulate another person?
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Posted: Thu Nov 25, 2010 11:30 am
I understand Morde's position more than I understand this one. X3 Morde and I have actually discussed it quite a bit. But that also doesn't make her exempt from my observation.
Seriously: sexual compatibility vs. emotional compatibility? wat
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Posted: Thu Nov 25, 2010 11:33 am
Okay if I was Necca and I came back and looked at these replies I would feel pretty shitty.
Just cause you don't agree with what she's doing doesn't mean you have to make her feel like crap about it sweatdrop
I just don't see how it's fair that you know Morde's side of things so that makes it okay, but you don't know Necca's situation so it just makes it easier to judge her on it even if you dont' agree with it.
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Posted: Thu Nov 25, 2010 11:42 am
I wasn't trying to make her feel like crap. ._. I was agreeing with most other folks in the thread. I don't see how this is relationally beneficial for her and Drew. And it isn't nice to 'use' people ever unless you're both using each other and you're straightforward about it.
HOW DO I RELATIONSHIPS? :C
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