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So, what'll it be? (please read post first)
  I'm a girl who likes her words.
  I'm a girl who likes her pictures/videos.
  I'm a guy who likes his words.
  I'm a guy who likes his pictures/videos.
  I'm intersexed (gender in between) (please describe your stand on things)
  I'm transsexual (mind doens't match birth gender at all) (please describe your stand on things)
  I'm a special case... (We want your story too!)
  I'm a poll whore who likes their gold...
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Kahri

PostPosted: Mon Jan 23, 2006 7:30 pm


Boys and girls, we're different. Yes, there are definite similarities, but you cannot deny the evidence of the large differences that exist between males and females (generally) physiologically, mentally, emotionally.

I bring this up to call attention to something I've noticed. The market for literary porn is disproportionately female. Girls like words.

I've asked female friends about this; they agree. Words are definately good, oftimes much better than pictures.

I've asked my male friends about this too. They like pictures. "We're very visual learners" they are fond of saying.

This amazed me. How is it that the word "shivered" can be just as yummy to females as visual illustrations of soft curves are for males?

I was wondering if your gender identity and [removed](what gender you feel that your mind/soul is and how you act genderwise) affected your taste in porn/erotica. Do you think that sexual orientation has anything to do with it? Do you find that you fit my generalization? Why or why not?

NOTE: Let's please, please keep this clean. All I intend here is an intellectual discussion. No graphic descriptions please. I'm an ED junkie. Post away, in the name of science!
PostPosted: Mon Jan 23, 2006 7:42 pm


Personally I'm more mentally male (I'm a female). Littereally. For me it can be words and pictures, maybe both together would be good for me. lol

All I know is that most of my friends are both as well, with anything. Though, when my les freidn reads it: she cringes XD.

ToeboysGurl


Huay

PostPosted: Mon Jan 23, 2006 8:21 pm


hmmm i don't know i like both just as much cause as they say a picture is worth a thousand words so as long as the picture is good im happy and a good story is really great ^^.

Oh i am male don't know what i am right now razz at least straight probably bi and got split personalities.
PostPosted: Mon Jan 23, 2006 8:32 pm


Huay
hmmm i don't know i like both just as much cause as they say a picture is worth a thousand words so as long as the picture is good im happy and a good story is really great ^^.

Oh i am male don't know what i am right now razz at least straight probably bi and got split personalities.
Hmm, that's interesting. Do you know if any of your personalities are female?

Kahri


Dark Eagle Babe

PostPosted: Mon Jan 23, 2006 11:55 pm



I have to say, in ''the beginning'' looking at pictures and watching video's did work on me, but not anymore. It's just gotten old, I guess.

However, a very good description always works. And it has always worked better than visual
PostPosted: Tue Jan 24, 2006 1:16 am


Your poll was very hard, I was sitting here for about five minutes (over dramatizes the time) trying to decide which option to pic for the guys ^_^. Id honestly and truthfully have to say that im a mood man wink . Majority id say that I do like the visual candy whee , however a good story will really get my juices flowing xd . Again it just truly depends on my mood.

Awhile back I was reading stories on nifty that were really tasty, but then I got wrapped up in life, visual candy and just plain stuff that my literacy bug dies a quick and painless death. I might go back, but it just truly depends sweatdrop . Sorry that im not giving you a straight answer lol (laughing at bad joke of mine), but I just don't think I could give you a direct one sweatdrop .

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WiccanJoe

PostPosted: Tue Jan 24, 2006 6:22 am


TaroPsyche
...Awhile back I was reading stories on nifty that were really tasty...


Nifty rocks. heart

Personally, I like the written word more.

<<< ish male.

I like to be able to picture the scenes and situations in my own ways. It allows me the opportunity to be able to incorporate my own fantasies within the context of the story. It helps that I'm easily impressed by good writing. I love to read. heart heart
PostPosted: Tue Jan 24, 2006 2:27 pm


I prefer either, I act more like a guy because I grew up in a family of boys mostly older than me.

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existentialGuy
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 26, 2006 11:46 pm


Poll whore ALL the way!
PostPosted: Mon Jan 30, 2006 7:23 pm


I may be an oddball among males but god a good story is better then any pics or vids in the world just makes you feel attachted to the story not just a veiwer of it

Akilah666


WiccanJoe

PostPosted: Mon Jan 30, 2006 8:06 pm


Akilah666
I may be an oddball among males but god a good story is better then any pics or vids in the world just makes you feel attachted to the story not just a veiwer of it
3nodding heart
PostPosted: Mon Jan 30, 2006 8:47 pm


I'm female..Sometimes I like the visual but not as much as I like the ..literary better..keeps my mind working with the ' images' I'm forming in my mind...and get me..well..let's juss say..excited.

DeaTh_WiLL_CoNQuER


Akilah666

PostPosted: Tue Jan 31, 2006 8:15 pm


WiccanJoe
Akilah666
I may be an oddball among males but god a good story is better then any pics or vids in the world just makes you feel attachted to the story not just a veiwer of it
3nodding heart


Hehehehe
PostPosted: Wed Feb 01, 2006 11:18 am


I prefer words biggrin Though pictures are good sometimes too...

oh and I'm female.

nijokeem


xAsh-chanx

PostPosted: Sat Feb 04, 2006 7:20 pm


DeaTh_WiLL_CoNQuER
I'm female..Sometimes I like the visual but not as much as I like the ..literary better..keeps my mind working with the ' images' I'm forming in my mind...and get me..well..let's juss say..excited.


I agree 3nodding sweatdrop
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