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 Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 8:34 am
well theres this guy that i think i like
and well
i think its been 3 years?
anywho
i was planning to make a confession
i need advice on how to do it
and er...is it better this way rather than staring at him everytime i saw him
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 9:15 am
I think the best way to tell him is to pretty much just come right out and say it. Beating around the bush doesn't get you anywhere; neither will not telling him at all.
Maybe you could just start talking to him next time you see him and then tell him. Or, if that makes you too uncomfortable, you could talk to him on Myspace or Facebook [if you both have a Myspace and/or Facebook account, that is].
Also, I think it is better if you tell him. It won't do you any good if he doesn't know; besides, he might like you, too. ;]
I hope I was able to be of assistance. I'm not a girl [obviously], therefore I don't know how much help I can be. Because I'm not gay either. Lol. But I know that's what I do if I like a girl: Just get it out in the open. ;] Good luck whatever you do!
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 9:18 am
Well, if you're friends then that shouldn't be a problem. Next time when you guys have some privacy, just tell him. It shouldn't be too awkward.
Now if you've never talked to the guy, I think there is probably some small talk required first.
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Posted: Sat Nov 20, 2010 4:22 am
thats another problem
1st of all
in 1st year we used to chat alot
then after a year
we stopped talking(cause we were in separate peer groups)
and this time
whenever i tried chatting with him
he doesnt reply(most of the time)
and well i cant talk to him in school cause
well everytime i get close to a guy friend
people around us will say that we're together
i dont want that to happen yet with him
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Posted: Sun Nov 21, 2010 6:44 am
It doesn't matter what other people think of you. If you haven't talked to him in awhile, try to strike up a conversation and gauge where he is at. Maybe ask him if he's interested in anyone. Just be confident with yourself. And if he's not interested, remember that it's not the end of the world, there are other people out there.
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Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2010 6:43 am
i hate my lack of confidence
is there any tips in becoming a confident person
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Posted: Mon Nov 22, 2010 10:55 am
Even if you don't have any confidence, do it anyway! Whether that's a new hobby, asking some one out, or trying new food. The more you do something, the more confidence you'll build.
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Posted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 12:04 am
Amensu Saje I think the best way to tell him is to pretty much just come right out and say it. Beating around the bush doesn't get you anywhere; neither will not telling him at all.
Maybe you could just start talking to him next time you see him and then tell him. Or, if that makes you too uncomfortable, you could talk to him on Myspace or Facebook [if you both have a Myspace and/or Facebook account, that is].
Also, I think it is better if you tell him. It won't do you any good if he doesn't know; besides, he might like you, too. ;]
I hope I was able to be of assistance. I'm not a girl [obviously], therefore I don't know how much help I can be. Because I'm not gay either. Lol. But I know that's what I do if I like a girl: Just get it out in the open. ;] Good luck whatever you do! Too many people think that way (MANY of my friends included). All that does is make you look awkward and a bit sad to an extent. Ultimately, all it ends up doing is scaring them off unless they are just that awkward a person (I have a couple friends like that) that would go for that kind of stuff. I mean just imagine: some girl you don't even know just comes up to you and confesses some kind of deep everlasting love for you. Sure you might think it cute if you were watching this happen to someone else, but when it happens to you, it gets a little creepy. I find the best thing to do is just flirt with them a bit and then gradually get into it. I believe there's a sticky in this subforum about how to flirt.
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Posted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 6:24 am
actually he knows who i am
we're currently classmates in the afternoon
we just dont talk *hayz...
although i plan to confess him in the form of poem
what do you think?
i just hope i got enough guts to send him that poem
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Posted: Thu Dec 09, 2010 6:51 am
darn
our christmas exchanging cards isnt going to continue
now i have to deliver it tom him by hand
i dont know if i could do it
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Posted: Thu Dec 09, 2010 10:23 am
I used to be very shy. my fear of actually asking the girl out that I was interested in ended up making me seem like a creap.
I would stare at her, try not to be noticed doing it, I found out her last name and stuff about her from friends of mine who knew her, and I finally gave her a valentine's day card with a confession that I was infatuated with her on my B-day (which is 2 days after v-day).
I had of course went out of my way to hand it to her privately, and told her not to read it till she got home, and to not tell anyone. she went ahead and gathered her friends and opened it right there, and they all laughed at me. it was humiliating.
and then all I get out of it is her bitching at me about how creapy I am, and how she has a boyfriend (who I never knew about, so it's not I did anything wrong). stressed
excuse me, I'm getting caught up in a bad memory. sweatdrop
my point is, shyness causes disasters. you have to suck it up and tell him. try to time it carefully, and have some kinda awkward hypothetical discussion. it's cute, and leads to answers, and is a great way to channel uncontrolable shyness.
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Posted: Thu Dec 09, 2010 11:26 am
yuintakie_yuki actually he knows who i am we're currently classmates in the afternoon we just dont talk *hayz... although i plan to confess him in the form of poem what do you think? i just hope i got enough guts to send him that poem Having someone in your class doesn't constitute knowing them. How do you think the aforementioned friends met the people in the first place? It wasn't at no ice cream social if that's what you were thinking.
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Posted: Sat Dec 11, 2010 1:50 am
i finally gave it to him
actually i hid it under his desk when no one was looking
have no idea if he had already read it
he just said thanks to me w/o me noticing if he read the whole letter o.O
gonna try and ask him
oh yeah currently he doesnt have any girlfriends
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Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 12:29 pm
i confessed to this guy two years ago in the form of a letter. he began avoiding me. thus, i believe you should tell him straight up.
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