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Lieutenant Katherine

PostPosted: Thu Nov 18, 2010 7:14 pm


I figure i should post my story..I changed names around for the sake of it... It happened once, years and years ago. I was at my best friend Lou's house waiting in the living room for Lou because we were going to go to the park to watch the football game together, and meet my older brother at the game. Lou had been my friend since I was four, and we did everything together; homework, jump rope, we even went to watch the games at the high school with his older brother. Wyatt. Oh I despise that name.
He was sixteen, I was around 12 or 13 and Lou was around 10 or so, and he locked Jake in the bathroom, and came after me. He had been creepy before; always trying to reach up my skirt and things like that but this time he attacked me, and sent me home like it was all fine.
It wasn't; I got tired and crankier easier and nauseous in the morning. I stopped eating, because I though I was getting fat from eating so much and stopped. And when I found out I was going to have a child, I panicked and told my friends who turned against me, all except Lou, who stuck with me, as I recall.
If my brother had known, if I had told him Wyatt was doing this, he would have punched his lights out; my brother hated Wyatt alot.
And all I can say is that it happened so quickly, the rest was a blur. I still have nightmares about that day. I remember Lou asking me at school if I why I didn't go to the game, and I yelling at him and sending him away because I had thought he told his brother to do it.
I am 27 now and my son is 15. Lou's brother is dead now... guess he attacked one to many woman, but its good Lou isn't like that, and all is fine now... I do not know why I shared this, because few including Lou have ever heard it.
I feel much shame for letting Wyatt do that, but I didn't know; I was to polite to punch a man. I regret now not telling my brother so he could show him a lesson, even if it was uncivil. Of course telling an adult would have been better, but I didn't have the heart to, and had the baby which didnt look like him, so nobody knew whose it was.
PostPosted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 11:19 am


Did you ever have a rape kit done?
And were police ever contacted? I'm sure your parents must've been very suspsicous of you becoming pregnant all of a sudden.

How have you been doing since the incident?
My daughter is a rape child as well, but I've been seeing a therapist since my 30th or so week of pregnancy up until a few months ago. surprised

Since you're older, I can imagine it really must've been hard for you.

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Lieutenant Katherine

PostPosted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 4:11 pm


R a a w i y a
Did you ever have a rape kit done?
And were police ever contacted? I'm sure your parents must've been very suspsicous of you becoming pregnant all of a sudden.

How have you been doing since the incident?
My daughter is a rape child as well, but I've been seeing a therapist since my 30th or so week of pregnancy up until a few months ago. surprised

Since you're older, I can imagine it really must've been hard for you.

No, But what exactly is a rape kit? I have never heard of them. My parents were, but I didn't want to get Lou's family in trouble, so I told them I was attacked by a stranger, which I regret now.
Since the incident.. well, I've had some emotional problems but have tried to block it from my mind which is difficult when I constantly have nightmares about it... even to this day.
I do see a therapist, once and a while when I have time, but I dunno, It just doesn't seem to help me
PostPosted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 5:05 pm


Lieutenant Katherine

No, But what exactly is a rape kit? I have never heard of them. My parents were, but I didn't want to get Lou's family in trouble, so I told them I was attacked by a stranger, which I regret now.
Since the incident.. well, I've had some emotional problems but have tried to block it from my mind which is difficult when I constantly have nightmares about it... even to this day.
I do see a therapist, once and a while when I have time, but I dunno, It just doesn't seem to help me

You told them you were attacked by a stranger and they did not call police..?
My mother had called the police in a heartbeat when I told her I was pregnant.

A rape kit is a sexual offense evidence kit that police use when dealing with cases of rape. Usually, these are done within hours of the attack to get the most evidence. It's literally a kit, in which contains swabs, (to swab the victim's genitals, mouth, a**s, cheek, and lips for search of sperm or bodily fluids), a bunch of forms for the victim to sign, and paperwork for the police to add to evidence.

Rape kits are usually supposed to be done if you decide to take someone to court for rape charges. By the time my mom had called police was months after the actually assault, however, they only collected evidence, and though I was already pregnant I had to go through a few blood tests to prove that the child was, in fact, his.

As for your therapist...
Have you tried looking for a new one? Usually, your first therapist isn't going to be the one who actually helps you.

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 7:20 pm


He deserved to die...
PostPosted: Sat Nov 20, 2010 10:07 am


That sounds terrible. I'm sorry that happened. I hope you and your son are doing well.

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 11:26 pm


I am so sorry to hear that.... you are a strong women.
PostPosted: Fri Nov 26, 2010 4:29 pm


I am very sorry to hear that. I hope you child is ok. Someone VERY close to me (I can't say who) had a similiar experiance. But guess who raped her? Her step-dad. It's a sick world. He said if she told he would kill her mother and her little brother,which was his own child. This should NOT happen to anyone. may God bless you.

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Lieutenant Katherine

PostPosted: Sun Nov 28, 2010 6:29 pm


R a a w i y a

You told them you were attacked by a stranger and they did not call police..?
My mother had called the police in a heartbeat when I told her I was pregnant.

A rape kit is a sexual offense evidence kit that police use when dealing with cases of rape. Usually, these are done within hours of the attack to get the most evidence. It's literally a kit, in which contains swabs, (to swab the victim's genitals, mouth, a**s, cheek, and lips for search of sperm or bodily fluids), a bunch of forms for the victim to sign, and paperwork for the police to add to evidence.

Rape kits are usually supposed to be done if you decide to take someone to court for rape charges. By the time my mom had called police was months after the actually assault, however, they only collected evidence, and though I was already pregnant I had to go through a few blood tests to prove that the child was, in fact, his.

As for your therapist...
Have you tried looking for a new one? Usually, your first therapist isn't going to be the one who actually helps you.


They did call the police and reported a strange man, but they didnt find him since I had lied about it. Well, we were poor so we probably couldnt have done a rape kit, considering I dont even think they had those or at least i had never heard of them.
I have looked around for therapists, but none of them seem like they would be good for me to talk to.
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