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 Posted: Mon Jan 23, 2006 11:36 am
There's this guy that likes me... but he's a non-christian and I told him I couldnt date him... but I kinda like him too... It's been bugging me for a couple weeks now and Id really like to know what other people think about it... Please help me!!
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Posted: Mon Jan 23, 2006 4:32 pm
Midnight_Crush There's this guy that likes me... but he's a non-christian and I told him I couldnt date him... but I kinda like him too... It's been bugging me for a couple weeks now and Id really like to know what other people think about it... Please help me!! God does tell us not to yoke ourselves with unbeliever's.... Though I believe there are times that God brings people together for his purpose and reasons. I would pray to God about this one and see where he wants you to go. *hugs* God always has the right answer wink
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Posted: Mon Jan 23, 2006 7:05 pm
thanx smile ive prayed but its so hard to tell... thanx for your advice xd
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Posted: Wed Jan 25, 2006 5:18 am
I think it's ok as long as he does not dis Christianity. And maybe this is a chance for you to be able to change someone to become Christian.
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Posted: Wed Jan 25, 2006 8:41 am
idk what he really thinks of christianity... he use to not want to hear any of it... but if i bring it up now he seems ok with it... he's coming to youth in a couple weeks so im looking forward to that... i havent seen him in a while so it'll give me the chance to see if he's still the guy i think he is, if you know what i mean...
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Posted: Sun Jan 29, 2006 7:42 pm
Christ tells us to be equally yoked with other believers, as Danielle said. The first thing I look for in a guy is his relationship with Chirst. You shouldn't date unless you'd consider marrying the guy, and the Bible tells us that the head of the family - the man - should be the most spiritually mature. So, when the right guy comes along, he'll also be a great example to strengthen your walk with Christ.
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Posted: Mon Jan 30, 2006 7:41 pm
yeahh i guess youre rightt... it's just hard lol
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Posted: Sun Feb 12, 2006 5:38 pm
Mystery Lady09 I think it's ok as long as he does not dis Christianity. And maybe this is a chance for you to be able to change someone to become Christian.
Also, notice the examples of men of God who got into relationships with non-believers: Samson, ended with his eyes out, and Solomon, ended worshipping idols. Remember that God does not forbid us to do anything good: He just wants to preserve us to give us better things. Pray, read the Bible, and make your mind on not dating him. Talk with your pastors if needed: They might give you useful advice on the matter. God bless you.
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Posted: Mon Feb 13, 2006 12:26 pm
Senator_of_GD Mystery Lady09 I think it's ok as long as he does not dis Christianity. And maybe this is a chance for you to be able to change someone to become Christian.
Also, notice the examples of men of God who got into relationships with non-believers: Samson, ended with his eyes out, and Solomon, ended worshipping idols. Remember that God does not forbid us to do anything good: He just wants to preserve us to give us better things. Pray, read the Bible, and make your mind on not dating him. Talk with your pastors if needed: They might give you useful advice on the matter. God bless you. yeahh i guess... i saw him on friday and it made me really start liking him... alot.... he's soo much fun to hangout with... he told me that he's started to go to church again.... i havent completely decided if thats true or not but he seems to be really making an effort... anyway ill keep everyone up-dated on this... i have no intentions of dating him right now because of a lot of things that are going on... i really want to figure out if he's really who i think he is... i knoww for a fact that you cant live a lie forever so ill be able to tell in a couple of months... at least i hope so... please keep me and my family in your prays... we're in some real need of it right now... thanxx for all the advice !! smile
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Posted: Tue Feb 14, 2006 3:51 pm
i dont really believe in dating until you are mature and stuff. i think its ok to date him aslong as he doesnt alter what you believe in. he needs to be ok that you believe what you believe and rub off on him, just dont let him rub off on you. but pray about it and see if its something God wants.
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Posted: Wed Feb 15, 2006 1:00 pm
peeguin07 i dont really believe in dating until you are mature and stuff. i think its ok to date him aslong as he doesnt alter what you believe in. he needs to be ok that you believe what you believe and rub off on him, just dont let him rub off on you. but pray about it and see if its something God wants. i dont think maturity is a problem in this situation... Im having a hard time figure out what to do because of something my bro did when he was 15... i cant really say everything that happened but it had something do with the whole dating a non-christian thing... the only difference between my bro and me is that im stronger in my faith then he is... idk ive been praying but the answer still hasnt completely come... I guess ill just have to wait and see...
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Posted: Mon Feb 27, 2006 3:01 pm
of course it is ok to date a non-christian. I do. And you never know, he might just turn christian for you. Then how good would you feel! biggrin heart
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Posted: Tue Feb 28, 2006 11:20 am
date yes marie is another thing
you dont want to worry about not seeing him in heaven or do u ????
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 3:34 pm
bunniegurl123 of course it is ok to date a non-christian. I do. And you never know, he might just turn christian for you. Then how good would you feel! biggrin heart I dont want him to 'turn christian FOR me' that has to be a choice that he makes for himself not for me...
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Posted: Wed Mar 01, 2006 3:37 pm
xoxoYOUR_GIRLxoxo date yes marie is another thing you dont want to worry about not seeing him in heaven or do u ???? I already worry about not seeing him in heaven... just like I would with any of my non-christian friends... My question really doesnt matter much anymore... he's back together with one of his old girlfriends anyways...
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