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My ex boyfriend's new girlfriend's sister is in my program. And good friends with one of the girls I hang out with. Ya lucky me. Can I say that slutyness runs in that family? Or is that wrong? Cause her sister stole my ex, cheated on him, but they're back together. And she had an affair with a guy who had a girlfriend. stressed

but that's off topic! The problem is that girl wants to hook me up with a guy at her work. He use to be a vet in the philipeans but he moved to Montreal and all he could get was a job at a research lab.

Here's my issue, blind dates are aawwkkwaarrdd.
And Im pationate about nutrition and usually don't get along with vets who believe the crap they're fed about raw diets being bad.
I can't know that he's like that without meeting him but really what are the odds?

Should I let her do this? It's not like guys are lining up to date me...

Garfield! Only opposite! XD

do it, its only one date.

blind dates are kind of fun because you never know what will happen. one of the most boring and rude guys i ever met was on ablind date, but it works out really well for soem people, my parents met on a blind date and it worked out for them

I dunno if I can doo this. The girl gave him my phone number. (never agreed to that!) and he text me, and asked if he could call me. I said I'd be more comfortable texting for now cause I was pretty shy. He agreed and we texted for a day, and then he started asking if I'd go on a date with him, and I said I prefered just hanging out as friends no pressure and then he asked me if we could hang out then, and I said, I guess, in a group and then he said, "good, so you're okay with it, when are you free?" and now I feel like I'm being pushed. And last night my dream was me just constantly saying I can't do this, I can't do this.

I know I haven't met him, and I haven't given him a chance, but... he's never been on skis, he doesn't bike, he's never been kayaking or hiking. He wants to learn but I don't have the patience to teach. I know that sounds mean but... skiing takes a lot of time to get good at, and mountain biking takes a lot of guts. Now this might sound shallow but I'm tired of dating non skiers, it's my biggest passion and I never have anyone to ski with. I let it go with Marc cause he did everything else and had the guts to do anything. Heck on new years morning we climbed a mountain just for the hell of it. And I know he would have been decent at mountain biking cause he has guts to try anything dangerous and get back up when he's hurt.

And all this thinking about dating this guy made me miss Marc all over again. I don't think I'm ready to date. I just want to go out, do the things I love to do and flirt with guys.