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 Posted: Sat Oct 02, 2010 5:28 pm
Hi I'm Christina I'm now eighteen and pardon me if this gets rambley....
So it was two years back I was obivously sixteen at the time and my boyfriend and I were studying when he suddenly put down his stuff and kissed me at first it was pretty good but then he started to kiss my neck I told him that I wasn't ready but he simply slapped me across the face and forced me to take off my shirt. He seemed angry with me for some reason. I never understood what that reason was....He continued to undress me and forced me to give him a blow job. Okay so I have an identical twin sister so When he forced me to lay down and I screamed she heard me and ran into the room slowly telling my boyfriend at the time to get out. He locked us in from the inside and forced my sister to sit and watch of course I was crying but then he *coughs* penetrated me to the point where I bleed and he continued to slap me and hit me I had bruises all over so in the end he had ejaculated inside of me and he forced me to do things to my sister I regret deeply. So the next morning he had unlocked the door and left and my sister and I were in bed naked. So I got pregnant and now I have a beautiful 2 year old girl named Josie, but that morning my boyfriend left and he wouldn't call me or anything, adn now when Josie grows up adn wonders where her daddy is I don't know what to say and I feel like It's my fault, because I didn't call the police afraid he was going to come back .
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Posted: Sat Oct 02, 2010 6:07 pm
Tell the police. They probably won't be able to arrest him or anything since there is no evidence that it was actually rape at this point. But they can at least document it. And that can help strengthen another woman's case if he ever tries to do the same thing again. You can also get a protective order if you want.
As for what to tell your child, tell her that her father was a bad guy, or a rapist, or an ex, or whatever you think she can understand and handle at the time that she asks. It's not like single parents are terribly rare, so it's nothing to feel weird about.
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Posted: Sat Oct 02, 2010 6:16 pm
LorienLlewellyn Tell the police. They probably won't be able to arrest him or anything since there is no evidence that it was actually rape at this point. But they can at least document it. And that can help strengthen another woman's case if he ever tries to do the same thing again. You can also get a protective order if you want. As for what to tell your child, tell her that her father was a bad guy, or a rapist, or an ex, or whatever you think she can understand and handle at the time that she asks. It's not like single parents are terribly rare, so it's nothing to feel weird about. I greatly appreciate the help and I would like to thank you. (Sorry if that sounded corny)
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Posted: Sun Oct 03, 2010 2:55 pm
LorienLlewellyn Tell the police. They probably won't be able to arrest him or anything since there is no evidence that it was actually rape at this point. But they can at least document it. And that can help strengthen another woman's case if he ever tries to do the same thing again. You can also get a protective order if you want. As for what to tell your child, tell her that her father was a bad guy, or a rapist, or an ex, or whatever you think she can understand and handle at the time that she asks. It's not like single parents are terribly rare, so it's nothing to feel weird about. I second this. If your daughter ever does ask about her father, I agree with Lorien - tell her what you think she can handle at the time she asks. I don't see anything wrong with lying if she's young when she asks, and then you can tell her the truth when she's older and can better understand it. If she asks why you chose to keep her instead of aborting her or giving her up for adoption, you could tell her why and that might help sooth any hurt feelings that arise from being told she's the result of a rape.
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Posted: Mon Oct 04, 2010 10:25 pm
Your were brave to keep the child. But no one would have blamed you either if you wouldn't have. Hearing stories like this is so unreal and hurts to hear. But some guys just have WAY too much testosterone and their judgment gets really screwed up. In nature, animals act almost the same way when their 'levels' are high. Did your sister ever try to say something about the incident?
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