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 Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 8:58 am
What do you notice first about her?
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Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 12:59 pm
What do I notice first? Usually tits. It's often the biggest thing right in front of your face that you can notice without having to talk. What do I find most attractive? Usually her character. What kind of person she is, what kind of person she was, etc. I often like to hear stories about her being/acting strange. It makes a good stepping stone for breaking the ice and flirting. Another thing is her laugh. How often she does it, how she sounds when doing it, what she tends to laugh at.
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Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 4:27 pm
usually Chins and Necks catch my attention first, unless she wears cloths that accentuate her T&A, which many on campus do...
but yeh, i have a thing for exposed Throats, and for Neck-Jewelry. whee
i'm also a total sucker for Cute, Submissive girls.... sweatdrop i know it's frowned upon publically, and encouraged by media society, but i admit (Proudly even) that i am a Predator.
this is part of why i like Fat Girls so much! whee heart they try extra hard to be girly, and by girly i mean societally stigmatized "girly", meaning submissive and cute. and their general low self-esteem increases their submissive nature. mrgreen
also, as far as the Sex goes, it's true when they say there's More to Love. ^///^ it's so perfect....
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Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 4:39 pm
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Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 4:46 pm
What I notice first is what any guy will notice first, and that's her appearance. How she presents herself, what she wears, how much she wears (both clothing and make up wise, can't have to much). Also the basic shape of her body, I can't stand a girl who's ridiculously thin.
Now when it comes to what I like about a girl it's easily her personality and mental state. I hate girls that try to be media perfect. If they have mental tweaks it's even better. But she needs to be her self, not what others expect of them.
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Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 4:59 pm
Corian Wornen What I notice first is what any guy will notice first, and that's her appearance. How she presents herself, what she wears, how much she wears (both clothing and make up wise, can't have to much). Also the basic shape of her body, I can't stand a girl who's ridiculously thin. Now when it comes to what I like about a girl it's easily her personality and mental state. I hate girls that try to be media perfect. If they have mental tweaks it's even better. But she needs to be her self, not what others expect of them. ... pointing out something. this is neither true nor helpfull. socially standardized generalizations about what a given classification of person (be it based on race, gender, religion, wealth, sexuality, anything) only make life harder for anyone who is different than the societally "correct" standard. i find it ironic that you say that you want someone who is so not the societal norm, and not being what others expect of her... when your post is reinforcing the idea that any member of a general classification all think alike. i also am a little entertained by the fact that all of your desires are cliche statements that even the very society i am talking about uses all over the place and trie sto standardize (another irony). the only real point i am making here is that i want to point it out while i have the opportunity, and consequences be damned! xd i spread awareness like rats spread the Black Plague! =w= anywho, carry on. ^.^ heart
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Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 5:01 pm
Personally, I do like females who can present themselves in a dignified manner. I hate how the modern media turns females into objects.
I also like females that can be themselves and not be some media archetype.
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Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 5:08 pm
What I notice first...hmm I'd have to say appearance wise I notice the girls face first. If her face is ugly I'm sorry but it just would be really talking to them or even dating them. But after the whole first appearance thing I like a girl based on how well I know her.
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Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 7:03 pm
I really don't give a damn about outward appearances. Ideally, she would have at least a D cup, but it honestly doesn't matter. All I want is a girl who knows about 4chan and video games and appreciates /d/ and likes electronica and knows who And One are and whom I can listen to "Damaged People" by Depeche Mode with.
And I notice the tits first. YEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAHHHH MAN
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Posted: Thu Sep 30, 2010 7:05 pm
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Posted: Fri Oct 01, 2010 11:17 pm
Chieftain Twilight Corian Wornen What I notice first is what any guy will notice first, and that's her appearance. How she presents herself, what she wears, how much she wears (both clothing and make up wise, can't have to much). Also the basic shape of her body, I can't stand a girl who's ridiculously thin. Now when it comes to what I like about a girl it's easily her personality and mental state. I hate girls that try to be media perfect. If they have mental tweaks it's even better. But she needs to be her self, not what others expect of them. ... pointing out something. this is neither true nor helpfull. socially standardized generalizations about what a given classification of person (be it based on race, gender, religion, wealth, sexuality, anything) only make life harder for anyone who is different than the societally "correct" standard. i find it ironic that you say that you want someone who is so not the societal norm, and not being what others expect of her... when your post is reinforcing the idea that any member of a general classification all think alike. i also am a little entertained by the fact that all of your desires are cliche statements that even the very society i am talking about uses all over the place and trie sto standardize (another irony). the only real point i am making here is that i want to point it out while i have the opportunity, and consequences be damned! xd i spread awareness like rats spread the Black Plague! =w= anywho, carry on. ^.^ heart All he said is that it was what any guy would notice first. Unless you're blind or choose to always look the other way when you're talking to a girl, their appearance is going to be the first thing you notice. Also online relationships don't count because until you meet in person, there's no way to tell whether you're really talking to a girl or not. OP asked 2 questions: What do you find most attractive What do you notice first They are 2 different questions that had 2 different answers so I don't really see what your point here is.
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Posted: Fri Oct 01, 2010 11:21 pm
maui boy no ka oi Chieftain Twilight Corian Wornen What I notice first is what any guy will notice first, and that's her appearance. How she presents herself, what she wears, how much she wears (both clothing and make up wise, can't have to much). Also the basic shape of her body, I can't stand a girl who's ridiculously thin. Now when it comes to what I like about a girl it's easily her personality and mental state. I hate girls that try to be media perfect. If they have mental tweaks it's even better. But she needs to be her self, not what others expect of them. ... pointing out something. this is neither true nor helpfull. socially standardized generalizations about what a given classification of person (be it based on race, gender, religion, wealth, sexuality, anything) only make life harder for anyone who is different than the societally "correct" standard. i find it ironic that you say that you want someone who is so not the societal norm, and not being what others expect of her... when your post is reinforcing the idea that any member of a general classification all think alike. i also am a little entertained by the fact that all of your desires are cliche statements that even the very society i am talking about uses all over the place and trie sto standardize (another irony). the only real point i am making here is that i want to point it out while i have the opportunity, and consequences be damned! xd i spread awareness like rats spread the Black Plague! =w= anywho, carry on. ^.^ heart All he said is that it was what any guy would notice first. Unless you're blind or choose to always look the other way when you're talking to a girl, their appearance is going to be the first thing you notice. Also online relationships don't count because until you meet in person, there's no way to tell whether you're really talking to a girl or not. OP asked 2 questions: What do you find most attractive What do you notice first They are 2 different questions that had 2 different answers so I don't really see what your point here is. if that's so, then it's still a vague opening answer. my point was to showcase something i saw. others can take it how they will.
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Posted: Fri Oct 01, 2010 11:38 pm
the whole face area is pretty great
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Posted: Sat Oct 02, 2010 12:37 am
Chieftain Twilight maui boy no ka oi Chieftain Twilight Corian Wornen What I notice first is what any guy will notice first, and that's her appearance. How she presents herself, what she wears, how much she wears (both clothing and make up wise, can't have to much). Also the basic shape of her body, I can't stand a girl who's ridiculously thin. Now when it comes to what I like about a girl it's easily her personality and mental state. I hate girls that try to be media perfect. If they have mental tweaks it's even better. But she needs to be her self, not what others expect of them. ... pointing out something. this is neither true nor helpfull. socially standardized generalizations about what a given classification of person (be it based on race, gender, religion, wealth, sexuality, anything) only make life harder for anyone who is different than the societally "correct" standard. i find it ironic that you say that you want someone who is so not the societal norm, and not being what others expect of her... when your post is reinforcing the idea that any member of a general classification all think alike. i also am a little entertained by the fact that all of your desires are cliche statements that even the very society i am talking about uses all over the place and trie sto standardize (another irony). the only real point i am making here is that i want to point it out while i have the opportunity, and consequences be damned! xd i spread awareness like rats spread the Black Plague! =w= anywho, carry on. ^.^ heart All he said is that it was what any guy would notice first. Unless you're blind or choose to always look the other way when you're talking to a girl, their appearance is going to be the first thing you notice. Also online relationships don't count because until you meet in person, there's no way to tell whether you're really talking to a girl or not. OP asked 2 questions: What do you find most attractive What do you notice first They are 2 different questions that had 2 different answers so I don't really see what your point here is. if that's so, then it's still a vague opening answer. my point was to showcase something i saw. others can take it how they will. It's vague because it's a simple idea. When you see someone, what is the first thing you notice? Their appearance. Whether it be how they dress, what they look like, their ethnicity, etc. You are not automatically going to know what kind of person they are just by looking at them. Doing so is called prejudice. As for your initial response to him, I don't see how stating that appearance as the first thing anyone notices is stating or even implying that he is "reinforcing an idea that a member of a general classification think alike". The average person (person not just guy) who isn't blind and has a memory span of more than a few weeks will notice appearance first. And after all he did specifically state a distinction between what he notices first and what he likes most about a girl. Also looking back on all previous posts, there is only one (even vaguer post) that mentions nothing about outward appearance but I attribute that to laziness and thus should be counted as an outlier statistically.
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Posted: Sat Oct 02, 2010 1:24 am
maui boy no ka oi Chieftain Twilight maui boy no ka oi Chieftain Twilight Corian Wornen What I notice first is what any guy will notice first, and that's her appearance. How she presents herself, what she wears, how much she wears (both clothing and make up wise, can't have to much). Also the basic shape of her body, I can't stand a girl who's ridiculously thin. Now when it comes to what I like about a girl it's easily her personality and mental state. I hate girls that try to be media perfect. If they have mental tweaks it's even better. But she needs to be her self, not what others expect of them. ... pointing out something. this is neither true nor helpfull. socially standardized generalizations about what a given classification of person (be it based on race, gender, religion, wealth, sexuality, anything) only make life harder for anyone who is different than the societally "correct" standard. i find it ironic that you say that you want someone who is so not the societal norm, and not being what others expect of her... when your post is reinforcing the idea that any member of a general classification all think alike. i also am a little entertained by the fact that all of your desires are cliche statements that even the very society i am talking about uses all over the place and trie sto standardize (another irony). the only real point i am making here is that i want to point it out while i have the opportunity, and consequences be damned! xd i spread awareness like rats spread the Black Plague! =w= anywho, carry on. ^.^ heart All he said is that it was what any guy would notice first. Unless you're blind or choose to always look the other way when you're talking to a girl, their appearance is going to be the first thing you notice. Also online relationships don't count because until you meet in person, there's no way to tell whether you're really talking to a girl or not. OP asked 2 questions: What do you find most attractive What do you notice first They are 2 different questions that had 2 different answers so I don't really see what your point here is. if that's so, then it's still a vague opening answer. my point was to showcase something i saw. others can take it how they will. It's vague because it's a simple idea. When you see someone, what is the first thing you notice? Their appearance. Whether it be how they dress, what they look like, their ethnicity, etc. You are not automatically going to know what kind of person they are just by looking at them. Doing so is called prejudice. As for your initial response to him, I don't see how stating that appearance as the first thing anyone notices is stating or even implying that he is "reinforcing an idea that a member of a general classification think alike". The average person (person not just guy) who isn't blind and has a memory span of more than a few weeks will notice appearance first. And after all he did specifically state a distinction between what he notices first and what he likes most about a girl. Also looking back on all previous posts, there is only one (even vaguer post) that mentions nothing about outward appearance but I attribute that to laziness and thus should be counted as an outlier statistically. you realy arn't gettng it at all? confused i thought i was being clear as day. look, i bolded it. it's not the appearance thing i'm talking about, it's that he said it's what "any guy would notice first". to say things like that reinforces teh idea that you can lump people into classifications based on race or gender or sexuality or religion, and say they all think or act alike. and then i went on to point out hypocracies or inconsistencies that i noticed. i saw a chance to use an example to enlighten people to this kinda thing. it's not that i have a problem with his answer, it's that i want people to be more aware of what they say and mean, and what gets said and done around them.
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