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 Posted: Tue Sep 07, 2010 3:30 pm
everyone seems to want me to just.. forget all about him. just let go, like the pain isn't real, doesn't matter..
it's been two days, ******** i don't want to go party it out.
no i don't want to be set up on a blind date, gross.
i just want to cry in my room and have a few weeks to be vulnerable before i close myself off again.
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Posted: Tue Sep 07, 2010 3:40 pm
I wholly sympathize, but living in reality doesn't allow us to do that so much. You need to engage with life, and tackle this head on. Grieve, but don't let it consume and control you.
It's been two days. You're allowed you close yourself off for awhile, but there's no way you can stay like that. You know this, and I know this. Take your time but know that while you're stuck in this dark place, the world keeps spinning faster than you and I can keep up.
You need to pull yourself back up. And I know you can. <3 I believe you can do so much more than you even know. You just need to believe that this, like all things, will pass. I adore you, lady.
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Posted: Tue Sep 07, 2010 5:09 pm
Yes, I agree. Only time can heal the wounds. It is nice to be distracted by FRIENDS, but it seemed like as soon as I got home, I would just go right back to feeling lonely and sad, even if I had just spent the whole night out.
I hope you feel better soon though, <3
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Posted: Tue Sep 07, 2010 5:26 pm
I personally believe that you're allowed to mope for a little while. Especially after just two days. Unfortunately, you can't lock yourself away forever.
It does get better, though. You just have to give yourself time, but you also need to try and distract yourself in little ways.
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Posted: Tue Sep 07, 2010 7:42 pm
Streetlight Fights Yes, I agree. Only time can heal the wounds. It is nice to be distracted by FRIENDS, but it seemed like as soon as I got home, I would just go right back to feeling lonely and sad, even if I had just spent the whole night out. I hope you feel better soon though, <3
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Posted: Wed Sep 08, 2010 5:00 pm
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 6:32 am
It's great to be closed off and everything, but don't shut down completely you might miss someone special.
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Posted: Tue Sep 14, 2010 5:49 pm
Sors
It's great to be closed off and everything, but don't shut down completely you might miss someone
OR SOMETHING special.
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Posted: Tue Sep 14, 2010 7:05 pm
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Posted: Tue Sep 14, 2010 7:15 pm
Yeah, and he will be for awhile. However, you can't pollute your mind with the idea that it's temporary and he's going to 'come out of it' at some point, realize what he's left behind. Generally, that won't happen. Don't hold out, and help yourself to reconstruct your life without him.
Grieve, rebuild and move on. That's all I can really say, because I'm going through the same thing right now. Don't think you're alone in this. <3 I've got your back, and I've got his, too. I know you can do this, Tiff.
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Posted: Wed Sep 15, 2010 9:42 am
Not to be a d**k but in my case it's not over and we will get back together so I'm not just like pining over something that is "obviously" over with no head on reality.
no im just an idiot.
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