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 Posted: Sat Sep 04, 2010 7:58 pm
This was going to be a rant about how I had to bunk off from ghosthunting because of intestinal problems, but after I wrote it all out I realized that I just needed to write it all out and it wasn't a big deal.
So.
Anyway.
There's this guy in my dorm, and he is adorable. Last night five or six of us watched a ******** FOUR HOUR FILM, and I stuck it out because I was sitting next to him on the couch, and by the end of the film we were like, smooshed up against each other.
So, movie ends, his friend sits next to him and somehow (I really don't remember) we both end up cuddled up against him. I had my head tucked under his chin, and my hand on his chest, and he was leaning his head on top of mine.
So we spend like an hour like that, until the guy who's dorm it was was like, "I'm going to sleep, you guys can sleep on the couch if you want."
And we seriously consider it. We even like adjust so we're all basically laying down. But then his friend is like, "I have to go back to my dorm," so we walk him alllll the way across campus, and then on the walk back the silence gets more and more awkward until right outside our dorm he's like:
"Hey. I know we cuddled tonight and everything. But I really don't think it should go any further than that. And. I've never done this before, and this happened kind of fast, and I just want to be your friend. Okay?"
And I was like. "FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF." But IRL I said all chirpy, "Oh yeah, that's fine!"
So. Yes. WHAT. He let me cuddle up on him, and basically grope him, and then it's all, "I JUST WANT TO BE FRIENDS." what. Ideas, opinions, etc?
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Posted: Sat Sep 04, 2010 8:39 pm
That's really lame, but before I can offer advice, do you present yourself as a girl or a guy in real life? And say you present yourself as a guy, do you let them know you are in the middle of transitioning?
If the transitioning was out in the open, that might be why he isn't into it. It's quite scary or taboo still for many people, so maybe he was okay with cuddling you right now, but didn't want to have a relationship not knowing what would happen with your gender change and such.
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Posted: Sat Sep 04, 2010 9:35 pm
Most likely he really feels that way but didn't say anything while you were doing it because he was enjoying it. Sounds like he simply means what he said and no hard feelings, he just didn't want to say it as it happened cause it was nice.
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Posted: Sun Sep 05, 2010 1:18 am
Edge Zero Most likely he really feels that way but didn't say anything while you were doing it because he was enjoying it. Sounds like he simply means what he said and no hard feelings, he just didn't want to say it as it happened cause it was nice. I agree with this. It happens, prolly nothing more to it.
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Posted: Sun Sep 05, 2010 8:00 am
Maybe he had to drop a deuce and was trying to get out of there quickly.
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Posted: Sun Sep 05, 2010 7:19 pm
Streetlight Fights That's really lame, but before I can offer advice, do you present yourself as a girl or a guy in real life? And say you present yourself as a guy, do you let them know you are in the middle of transitioning? If the transitioning was out in the open, that might be why he isn't into it. It's quite scary or taboo still for many people, so maybe he was okay with cuddling you right now, but didn't want to have a relationship not knowing what would happen with your gender change and such. I present as a girl IRL right now, because I haven't got the resources to do otherwise. Edge and Scott: thanks guys. Xippy: TROLOLOLOLOL. That was me last night, actually, bunking off ghosthunting.
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Posted: Sun Sep 05, 2010 8:52 pm
So .... I don't get it. Are you gay?
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Posted: Sun Sep 05, 2010 11:11 pm
attraction is attraction, cloneski.
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