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hey, this is my first issue to be posted here sweatdrop ok, my ex broke up with me about 3 months age, bbut we remained friend, but now I think she still has feelings for me or started to have feelings again.. I'm not sure I'd feel the same way if she did still like me because now I like her best friend (also the best friend I have) sweatdrop
edit: sorry about all the typos, its really late here sweatdrop

I agree with Kage. You already know what it's like to be with this girl, and you enjoyed it once. Try and work out whatever it was that caused you to break up and fix it. If it's just completely irrepairable, then date the other girl. Best of luck to you and whoever you choose.

Thaddeus agrees with Soleq. If it didn't work out before, do you really think it'll work out now? Yet, you might want to ask her if she has feelings for you just to be sure.
If I were you, I'd try things with this other girl.

Still, I'd try it with the new girl. If you're really that into a girl, you find things to talk about. Even if it's so insignificant as "I like grass," you find stuff to talk about.

yeah its hard for life to return to normal
after your breakup and are still friends
I went through the same thing (still am)

apparently theres about three broad choices you have right now

1. Go back out with her again
like some people have said
you know what its like to go out with her
and maybe you could make things work this time arround

2. Give her some time and hope she gets over you
maybe that problem that caused you to break up in the first place
is still there and its not quite something you can solve
just hope that she gets over you and finds someone else yet still stays your best friend

and last of all

3. Find another girl
usually I dont support doing this option quickly
because I think people should go out because they truely like/love eachother

My girlfriend just broke up with me, so I'm kinda on the same boat here. It sucks how the person you like now is also your ex's best friend... it'll be a pretty bad blow to her if you do go out with the best friend.

However, love is selfish. You can't be too considerate or else it'll end up going nowhere. I guess the question at hand is... how much you still care about your ex as a friend compared to how much you like her friend. Weigh them, and hopefully you'll find the answer there.

i guess it just all depends on why she broke up with you. if it was for a supid reason then i don't think she deserves a second chance, unless your feelings are really that strong for her, but if not then try asking her friend out (i know that sounds really bad, but u two have broken up) sweatdrop

Maybe your ex has feelings for you again because she knows that you have a thing for your now best friend? People are like that. When there's competition, the thing being competed over (in this case, your affections) seems more valuable. I'm not saying that your ex is that kind of person but it could be a possibility.

Again, she dumped you once.. who knows, maybe she'll dump you again if you go back to her. I've attempted to patch things up with an ex and I ended up dumping them again because the initial problem was still there.

I'm not saying that you should go with your best friend (best friend relationships are tricky too), but dating an ex is risky business. Just warning ya. rolleyes