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Blondiey26

PostPosted: Sat Aug 28, 2010 7:28 pm


i dont know who i like more...theres this guy james and a guy joey...joey goes to my high school and james doesnt....but i go to his school's games....and james likes me back...and i dont think joey does....i know this is prolly a stupid thing, but i dont know what to do...
PostPosted: Sun Aug 29, 2010 8:29 am


this may not be the advice you wanna hear but:

If you're in high school: dont date.
it's better to wait until you get into college and so on where people tend to be more responsible

sorry about that but trust me it's the best advice any of us can give...

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PostPosted: Sun Sep 12, 2010 9:53 pm


I suppose his has a point. I didn't do much dating if any at all while in grade school. I'm in college now, but I'm dating a high school girl xd
Anyways if you decided to ignore his advice and date anyways then I suggest that you ask both of the guys how they feel about you. If one of them likes you and you like him back then go with him, of course if they both like you then that can be complicated.
PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 2:31 pm


I wouldn't exactly say "don't date." I mean, the whole point of dating is to find the person you want to spend your entire life with. It helps you gain new experiences and plus, it's pretty fun. c: You don't even have to be in a serious relationship to go out on dates.

I agree with Lust Inc. You should talk to both of them and see how they feel about you. Then go from there. c:

Hope things work out for you!

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 11, 2010 5:58 pm



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Try getting to know the two of them first. If you found out one of them likes you, then go and try dating. Experience is the best teacher for you to learn the reality of life. Just be wise.

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 11, 2010 6:01 pm


Aw Heck
this may not be the advice you wanna hear but:

If you're in high school: dont date.
it's better to wait until you get into college and so on where people tend to be more responsible

sorry about that but trust me it's the best advice any of us can give...

That right there is some gawd awful advice...

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inu_fan77777

PostPosted: Sun Nov 14, 2010 12:54 pm


If you had to choose you should go with James
PostPosted: Wed Jan 05, 2011 9:58 pm


wait till you graduate high school and date in college because if something messes up in college...boyfriend..depression... you will atleast have a highschool degree and get a decent job ok

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 30, 2011 6:30 pm


It all depends the more you hang out with a person the more you get to know someone. Dont go blurting out your feelings to the guys you like just yet. The fact you are considering waiting to tell james because you arent sure if joey likes you means you probably like Joey more. Wait a while to see if Joey has feelings for you.
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