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Posted: Fri Aug 20, 2010 6:45 pm
I've been thinking. (When am I not? xD)
About everything so far... The pregnancy, the rape, and the parenting...
A couple of questions for you to make you think; What kind of relationship did you have with your rapist/molester? Do you miss it? How do you think your relationship would have been if they had not raped/molested you? How often do you think about them? What changed in your life after the rape? Do you have any STD's? Pregnancy?
Questions for those who were not raped; Have you known anyone who was? What relationship did you have with that person? When did you find out they were raped/molested? How did you feel after you heard about them? Do you treat them differently now that you know they were attacked? How do you feel about rape/molestation in general?
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Posted: Fri Aug 20, 2010 6:48 pm
What kind of relationship did you have with your rapist/molester? He was a friend of my friend... and he eventually became my friend too.
Do you miss it? Yes. Of course I do... I miss the person he used to be to me.. I miss the friend he was to me.
How do you think your relationship would have been if they had not raped/molested you? I honestly don't know. I think I may have dated him... and I may have had sex with him if he turned out to be the kind of guy I actually found myself in love with.
How often do you think about them? Everyday. I can't help it.
What changed in your life after the rape? I have a 5 month old daughter now. She was a major change in my life.
Do you have any STD's? Pregnancy? Pregnancy. But, I carried it to term. Gave birth to a wonderful little girl.
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Posted: Fri Aug 20, 2010 8:05 pm
What kind of relationship did you have with your rapist/molester? He was my cousin.
Do you miss it? A little.
How do you think your relationship would have been if they had not raped/molested you? I think we were would've been in a better family relationship.
How often do you think about them? Not that often, I try not dwell on it anymore...
What changed in your life after the rape? Everything. I can't explain it.
Do you have any STD's? Pregnancy? Nope.
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Posted: Sat Aug 21, 2010 3:08 pm
Have you ever known anyone who was? yup
What relationship did you have with that person? one's my mom and the other is my friend
When did you find out they were raped/molested? from mom a few years back, from my friend last week
How did you feel after you heard about them? I was saddened.
Do you treat them differently now that you know they were attacked? heck no!
How do you feel about rape/molestation in general? I am sorry for anyone who has gone through it. It's nasty and shouldn't be done.
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