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aloeveriea

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 3:52 pm


this SHOULD go in the wow relationships thread but i am not planning on going in a relationship with him, so it's not really a wow relationship problem.

alright, so, i have this person my age falling for me. okay, i don't like him like that.
i just see him as a close friend.
every time he sees me online, he always talk to me and invite me into groups.
he even talked about love and internet relationships with me and added me on facebook.
then he called me hot and ever since he saw what i look like, he's been talking to me more than ever.

the way i met him was through my alliance character.
he has a horde death knight and he was attacking auberdine while i was in it.
(thank god my pvp was off because he was a higher level than me, ohoho.)
we followed eachother around and did that /hug and /wave emotes at eachother every now and then.
and every time he'd die, i'd joke around and use the /cry emote.
okay, he wanted to talk with me, so he made an alliance character on the same server.

so we started talking and then all the love and e-relationship talk started happening.
then the adding me on facebook and calling me hot stuff happened.
and now i don't know what to do.
i don't want to hurt him because he's a good friend of mine.
and i don't want to lose him as a friend.
i'm not even sure IF he actually is in love with me but he sure acts like he is.
PostPosted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 5:51 pm


All I can offer for help is to discreetly let him off easily. Tell him when you guys start having one of those e-relationship conversations that you haven't been looking for someone and most likely wouldn't look for quite a while.

If that doesn't work I apologize sweatdrop

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aloeveriea

Shy Bunny

PostPosted: Mon Aug 16, 2010 7:32 pm


little miss cujo
All I can offer for help is to discreetly let him off easily. Tell him when you guys start having one of those e-relationship conversations that you haven't been looking for someone and most likely wouldn't look for quite a while.

If that doesn't work I apologize sweatdrop

thank you. i hope this helps.

i do blame myself for this.
the way i treated him probably led him to believe i loved him. sweatdrop
i treat him so nicely and i'm too sweet to him.
thats how i am with all my friends. ; w;
PostPosted: Thu Aug 19, 2010 8:06 pm


say pls
little miss cujo
All I can offer for help is to discreetly let him off easily. Tell him when you guys start having one of those e-relationship conversations that you haven't been looking for someone and most likely wouldn't look for quite a while.

If that doesn't work I apologize sweatdrop

thank you. i hope this helps.

i do blame myself for this.
the way i treated him probably led him to believe i loved him. sweatdrop
i treat him so nicely and i'm too sweet to him.
thats how i am with all my friends. ; w;


Nah, don't blame yourself. It happens to the best of us.

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 20, 2010 12:35 am


It's easy to lead someone on accidently by being nice.
Happens to me sometimes.
The only thing you can do is be polite, let him down easy and hope that he doesn't take it the wrong way.
You can only do so much, the rest is up to him.

Just tell him long distance relationships aren't something you want to get into.
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