I have met a wonderful amazing girl, and we are in puppy love with each other. We have similar histories, similar interests in music and movies and fashion, we both want to travel a lot, and it just really seems like we could make this work out in a long run.
But, we'd have to hide ourselves for the next 8 years.
Allow me to explain; She is going to college on an ROTC scholarship. She was signing some paperwork last week, and she had to sign a "homosexuality clause". It stated that she never tried to be in a homosexual relationship, or even have homosexual thoughts or desires. Also, if the miliary program were to find out she so much as kissed a girl, she'd get kicked out. She would lose her scholarship for the 4 years of college, and the job she would have for the 4 years following her graduation from college.
... We thought at first, when we were just talking about a future together and her being in the military, that it was okay for gays to be in the military force as long as they werne't being like illegal. But her clause said that if they find out in any way, she's out of the program and everything.
Yes, it really sucks; but we're both willing to just deal with it. If the government doesn't want to accept our love and punish her for it, then that's fine; I'm small enough to hide in a lil' box! xd She said that as soon as those 8 years are up, she'd rip off her army uniform and reveal rainboooows!!!! 4laugh I just wish that I could, like, send her cute love pictures that she can put up in her dorm room, and pictures of me... buuuut nooooo then she would get kicked out.
So, I was wondering, because I know there are super nice people in this guild; if someone could do some research on this; and find out if it really truly is this strict?! I don't know how I'd be able to live in the same house as her and go grocery shopping with her, when we're both out of college and she has the military job, if NO ONE can find out about meee....but I have 4 years till we graduate so eh. anyways. i was wondering, yeah, if someone could help me figure out this weird law!?
But, we'd have to hide ourselves for the next 8 years.
Allow me to explain; She is going to college on an ROTC scholarship. She was signing some paperwork last week, and she had to sign a "homosexuality clause". It stated that she never tried to be in a homosexual relationship, or even have homosexual thoughts or desires. Also, if the miliary program were to find out she so much as kissed a girl, she'd get kicked out. She would lose her scholarship for the 4 years of college, and the job she would have for the 4 years following her graduation from college.
... We thought at first, when we were just talking about a future together and her being in the military, that it was okay for gays to be in the military force as long as they werne't being like illegal. But her clause said that if they find out in any way, she's out of the program and everything.
Yes, it really sucks; but we're both willing to just deal with it. If the government doesn't want to accept our love and punish her for it, then that's fine; I'm small enough to hide in a lil' box! xd She said that as soon as those 8 years are up, she'd rip off her army uniform and reveal rainboooows!!!! 4laugh I just wish that I could, like, send her cute love pictures that she can put up in her dorm room, and pictures of me... buuuut nooooo then she would get kicked out.
So, I was wondering, because I know there are super nice people in this guild; if someone could do some research on this; and find out if it really truly is this strict?! I don't know how I'd be able to live in the same house as her and go grocery shopping with her, when we're both out of college and she has the military job, if NO ONE can find out about meee....but I have 4 years till we graduate so eh. anyways. i was wondering, yeah, if someone could help me figure out this weird law!?
