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kai-blend


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PostPosted: Thu Aug 12, 2010 2:18 pm


Soo, i'm in this "relationship" With this guy..whom i haven't meet
.-. and don't get me wrong i love him to death..but i feel as if somethings there. So i joined a guild which is a rp (master, slave rp) and i actually thought i was falling for my so called "master" o-o what the hell is wrong with me??
PostPosted: Fri Aug 13, 2010 2:02 am


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Soo, i'm in this "relationship" With this guy..whom i haven't meet
.-. and don't get me wrong i love him to death..but i feel as if somethings there. So i joined a guild which is a rp (master, slave rp) and i actually thought i was falling for my so called "master" o-o what the **** is wrong with me??


three things i'd like to cover:

1st: if you know this guy via the internet, something is always there,
2nd Master/slave RPs are never a good idea, as is seen why
3rd: from the sounds of it, you're desperate for a com[panion, so i'll get to business:

it sounds to me like you simply dont wanna feel alone or unloved, which, trust me, loneliness can feel the exact same as feeling unloved.

my advice is kinda iffy but i'd say power down the computer, go out to a public hang-out place, and try to meet someone new, not necessarily a boy or girl in particular, but meet a new person, you've got nothing to lose except boredom/loneliness, which is what i highly feel is the issue here

I was a loner a few years ago, and from my experience in countering it: loneliness makes you attach yourself fast to almost anything or anyone, if you go out and find someone knew, try not to let this happen, hard as it may be, but instead kinda ease into knowing them, patience = better results

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 15, 2010 4:18 pm


x- ii H E A R T L E S S
Soo, i'm in this "relationship" With this guy..whom i haven't meet
.-. and don't get me wrong i love him to death..but i feel as if somethings there. So i joined a guild which is a rp (master, slave rp) and i actually thought i was falling for my so called "master" o-o what the hell is wrong with me??

I know how it feels to be in a relationship with a guy you've never met. unbelievably, i dated my bf for 8 months before we met in person. we have a terrible long-distance relationship. but i do agree with "Aw Heck" in needing to find an actual person.
PostPosted: Thu Nov 11, 2010 5:42 pm



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You are amazing in the sense, that you can actually love someone you are not even sure what really looks like. Anyway, I want to ask you first, how's your life outside the net? I'm talking about -irl-.

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