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MearaT

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 09, 2010 3:08 pm


NORMALLY I avoid the words 'boy troubles.' I'm seventeen, I can usually handle it. But this... IS GETTING TO BE A PROBLEM.

I've known this guy for six/seven years. He really likes me. He brings me fruit.

BUT... fact is, he gets mad when I don't react the way he wants me to. I'm a blunt person, and I'll tell him when he's getting on my nerves. He gets mad at me if ANY of my guy friends call my house for ANY REASON. He spreads nasty rumors about me if we fight. He is also NOT MY BOYFRIEND. I have TOLD him that I am NOT OKAY with the way he wants to control my life. He has repeatedly told me that his future plans are to somehow make me his girlfriend.

Basically, it's gotten to the point where I'm trying to be free of him. But he just keeps coming back. I have no idea what to do now.

Any help from people a lot better at this than I evidently am?
PostPosted: Mon Aug 09, 2010 3:35 pm


Tell someone of greater authority. I don't know how you are. Try a teacher/counselor/parent/pastor/adult friend?
He's at the abusing point. Tell him that. Don't give in to him.

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MearaT

Rainbow Raider

PostPosted: Tue Aug 10, 2010 3:54 pm


Thanks... I'm on my last year of high school.. Unfortunately, my mom has been veeery passive about this. I just wish I knew how to get him to understand I mean it when I say 'back... off.' O.o
PostPosted: Wed Aug 11, 2010 12:16 pm


Tell the cops, then when the cops talk to him it should scare him out of his wits.
Then he should leave you alone, you could also get a restraining order if you want.

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MearaT

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 11, 2010 12:46 pm


Owo I really hope it doesn't come to that.
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