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 Posted: Fri Jan 13, 2006 7:21 pm
i need some help, i'm always mad, or depressed, unlike how i used to be jolly, and cracking jokes. but now its different. i like the way i am now, i'm a much better fighter, and protector, but sometimes it just gets too much.
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Posted: Sat Jan 14, 2006 8:23 am
what you described is kind of what I have. Except I dont enjoy it. I had this boyfriend and we broke up and now everytime something doesnt go good between us I constantly think about it and get depressed. So if there is a reason this has happened to you, I think meds would be a good idea. If it has just happened over time it might just be hormones or something. Hope I helped.
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Posted: Sat Jan 14, 2006 10:59 am
It's likely that this is just the normal changes you have with growing up and going through puberty. Try to stick it out and see how it goes unless it gets really bad. You cna always talk to your friends about it and see how things are going with them and if then can relate.
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Posted: Sat Jan 14, 2006 11:00 am
Sometimes it's just age, unless there is something upsetting you that you're not talking about.
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Posted: Sat Jan 14, 2006 11:57 am
Does your family have a history of depression? If yes, see a doctor. It might help to get some medication.
If not, don't worry about it. It's probably just a phase. Do your best to be happy, eat healthy foods, work out, and just remind yourself that you'll get over this as you grow up.
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Posted: Sat Jan 14, 2006 12:03 pm
Kukushka Does your family have a history of depression? If yes, see a doctor. It might help to get some medication. If not, don't worry about it. It's probably just a phase. Do your best to be happy, eat healthy foods, work out, and just remind yourself that you'll get over this as you grow up. Agreed. 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Jan 14, 2006 12:21 pm
i do work out, and i i like this feeling becuase it helps me in my sports and when i'm with my friends. see what our fun is beating the s**t out of each other, its kinda a guy thing but its awsome, but this anger kinda gives me a sence of power, a sence of strength. and no my family does not have a history of depression, and i ain't taking no meds, not now, not ever.
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Posted: Sat Jan 14, 2006 6:47 pm
Well, take a deep breath. Understandable, I've known a lot of guys who went through an angry/fighting all the time phase, but it's something you need to start controlling now. Just talking it out or writing, even talking to an adult about anger management might be helpful.
Anger can be healthy, but I've noticed in all your posts you tend to move towards violent means, maybe you should take a deep breath and explore non-violent solutions before someone gets seriously hurt.
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Posted: Sat Jan 14, 2006 7:45 pm
and its not like we're always fighting and its not like i go looking for fights, and i ain't a bully either. but if someone was being an a** to me they'd be done. and me and my friends we fight but its all in good fun and nothing serious. But i can't let up, if i did i'd be a sitting duck.
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Posted: Sat Jan 14, 2006 10:59 pm
Well, jusitfying it, if it makes you feel better, then ok. I'm just saying you might need to cooloff from being so violent before someone (including yourself) gets seriously hurt. My husband went through that period in his life where he was young and breaking up fights and defending people. It took him a case where LEGAL action was involved where he realized yes, it's nice to be breaking up fights and fighting for people, but he kept putting himself in the position.
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Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2006 7:44 am
aye. that'd be the fault in my actions, and i'll keep that in mind.
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Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 9:11 pm
Nikolita Kukushka Does your family have a history of depression? If yes, see a doctor. It might help to get some medication. If not, don't worry about it. It's probably just a phase. Do your best to be happy, eat healthy foods, work out, and just remind yourself that you'll get over this as you grow up. Agreed. 3nodding 2nd to that!
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