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Well, the amount of advice is really going to depend on how mature you are, what your parents are going to allow you to do, how far you're willing to go, and things like that. I'm sure your parents aren't going to let you date or be with someone that is that old when you're only thirteen because it just doesn't usually happen. So, if you do want to be with them on that slim chance that you do then you're most likely going to have to do it in secret. If you don't feel that you're mature enough to be with them, then don't be with them. Just tell the person that you're not interested or that you're too young, whatever you want to tell them.

It could depend on your attire too. People usually look at people with interesting clothes on because it brings it to their attention. If you don't want to get their attention then maybe you should get different clothes?

You may or may not want to take it as a compliment because there's going to be a day when you're a lot older and it's not going to happen anymore.

If you're well developed they might be attracted to that. Don't attract guys attension by staring at them or anything. Don't wear anything that might give guys the wrong idea. Don't let them do anything to you that you find uncomfortable.

It's not that you're dressed inappropriately, it's that the guys can see your skin. You wouldn't imagine what guys can get off to sometimes or be attracted too. They say Ray Charles used to tell if a person was beautiful by their wrist (or maybe they just did that for the movie?).

Mreow, dress in clothes that are slightly too big for you, then always keep a safety pin or something sharp so that if they try anything, you can get them with it, and then you will have evidence for cops. Mreow, a can of mace wouldn't hurt you much either.

I would suggest finding a guy closer to your age, simply because the expectations of what the two of you want from a relationship may be different if he's even three years older than you. In your 20s that won't be an issue, but right now it is. One thing I would strongly suggest is, never take the attention of men for granted. Your ultimate goal is to find that great guy, right? If you don't give guys a chance, (within reason,) you will be missing out on very good opportunities. The flip side of that is you need to learn to spot scum and to avoid them at all costs. Also, never assume that just because your looks attract attention to you that you're somehow better than everybody else. That is a common mistake pretty girls make, and it costs them dearly, especially later on in life when their looks fade. Your looks will attract people to you, but it will be the quality of your personality that'll keep them hooked. Hope this helps.

Yeah, it could be that you just look older than your true age, and are more well-developed, which is why these guys are coming after you.

Another tip, is if you're 13, I wouldn't recommend having any websites that dispose of any personal information, especially your photo. That led a lot of guys to my sister, though she was 15 at the time. neutral

Even if you were to date one of these older guys, it would be illegal, especially if it led to anything. Might want to check your state's laws with that.