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PostPosted: Fri Jul 23, 2010 7:58 pm


Its less likely for a partner to cheat on one another if they're married? Now a days???

People cheat who have been together for years. If they don't want to be together what makes a paper mean there going to not cheat. If you have to force a relationship to work then is it really worth it? Sure is a contract with God but now a days to me anything can happen. I guess I'm a bit of a pessimist.
PostPosted: Fri Jul 23, 2010 8:03 pm


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No, it is not less likely for two romantic partners to cheat on each other once they're married. Marriage has nothing to do with faithfulness. It is, however, less likely for other people to try and pursue a person once they are married.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 23, 2010 8:05 pm


A person's less likely to cheat if they place a lot of value on monogamy regardless of whether or not they're married.
PostPosted: Fri Jul 23, 2010 8:05 pm


Marriage cows mean nothing now-a-days. It really hurts me... My sister had cheated and both of my brother have! I am the only one of my siblings that has not cheated and I never will. Those vows mean so much to me. And when I do marry my fiance they will bind me more then I feel now... It is so sad.

I just notcied I said "marriage cows" XD But I'm not changing it because I laughed.

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 23, 2010 8:09 pm


Renkon Root
This pickled vegetable...

No, it is not less likely for two romantic partners to cheat on each other once they're married. Marriage has nothing to do with faithfulness. It is, however, less likely for other people to try and pursue a person once they are married.

... could kick your a** !!


That's not entirely true. Some women see it as even more of a challenge... Stupid mthfckbtwhrcthrtslts..... And same for men... Stupid mthfckbtwhrcthrtslts....
PostPosted: Fri Jul 23, 2010 8:18 pm


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This pickled vegetable...

No, it is not less likely for two romantic partners to cheat on each other once they're married. Marriage has nothing to do with faithfulness. It is, however, less likely for other people to try and pursue a person once they are married.

... could kick your a** !!


That's not entirely true. Some women see it as even more of a challenge... Stupid mthfckbtwhrcthrtslts..... And same for men... Stupid mthfckbtwhrcthrtslts....
This pickled vegetable...

Well, I have no firsthand knowledge of that.

Speaking from experience most all of my friends are of the opinion that they would pursue a partner even if they were already in a relationship with someone else, even if they were engaged. However, as soon as that person got married, or as soon a my friends see a wedding band on their finger they'll back the ******** off and go away.

... could kick your a** !!

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PostPosted: Fri Jul 23, 2010 10:30 pm


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This pickled vegetable...

No, it is not less likely for two romantic partners to cheat on each other once they're married. Marriage has nothing to do with faithfulness. It is, however, less likely for other people to try and pursue a person once they are married.

... could kick your a** !!


That's not entirely true. Some women see it as even more of a challenge... Stupid mthfckbtwhrcthrtslts..... And same for men... Stupid mthfckbtwhrcthrtslts....
This pickled vegetable...

Well, I have no firsthand knowledge of that.

Speaking from experience most all of my friends are of the opinion that they would pursue a partner even if they were already in a relationship with someone else, even if they were engaged. However, as soon as that person got married, or as soon a my friends see a wedding band on their finger they'll back the ******** off and go away.

... could kick your a** !!


as a Poly and a Slut, i can speak for people like myself. and i admit that i don't see a difference with whether my intended target is married or not. if i lik ethem, and i don't care about heir spouse, i would flirt, and perhaps even go after them. if they fell for me, then i have the fun game of metaphorical chess to play, which makes it all the more interesting and exciting.

also, i have had a cheating problem in the past, which i could only remedy by accepting myself as a Poly and promising to be completely upfront about it. i know that to cheat has only ever caused pain, so the only thing to do about it is to be true to oneself and never get into a relationship without being honest about th ekind of person you are.
PostPosted: Sat Jul 24, 2010 11:50 am


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This pickled vegetable...

No, it is not less likely for two romantic partners to cheat on each other once they're married. Marriage has nothing to do with faithfulness. It is, however, less likely for other people to try and pursue a person once they are married.

... could kick your a** !!


That's not entirely true. Some women see it as even more of a challenge... Stupid mthfckbtwhrcthrtslts..... And same for men... Stupid mthfckbtwhrcthrtslts....
This pickled vegetable...

Well, I have no firsthand knowledge of that.

Speaking from experience most all of my friends are of the opinion that they would pursue a partner even if they were already in a relationship with someone else, even if they were engaged. However, as soon as that person got married, or as soon a my friends see a wedding band on their finger they'll back the ******** off and go away.

... could kick your a** !!


as a Poly and a Slut, i can speak for people like myself. and i admit that i don't see a difference with whether my intended target is married or not. if i lik ethem, and i don't care about heir spouse, i would flirt, and perhaps even go after them. if they fell for me, then i have the fun game of metaphorical chess to play, which makes it all the more interesting and exciting.

also, i have had a cheating problem in the past, which i could only remedy by accepting myself as a Poly and promising to be completely upfront about it. i know that to cheat has only ever caused pain, so the only thing to do about it is to be true to oneself and never get into a relationship without being honest about th ekind of person you are.


I'm also thinking of couples in which one or both partners is bi and occasionally will find a partner of the same gender to take care of any homosexual tendencies, if that makes sense. Most common scenario, I think, is where the wife is bi and occasionally sleeps with women outside of her marriage. Of course if she shares it's a different story but there you have it.

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