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 Posted: Fri Jul 23, 2010 10:48 am
Well ok, some of you might've seen some of my posts before about this guy well...
I told my friend Danny that maybe we shouldn't be friends...even though I still want us to be friends....but like some reasons that I said it are because:
Well one which he pointed out earlier last night is that we can't have a normal conversation anymore without one of us getting upset/mad or hiding something.
I'm almost always the one getting mad or upset or not telling him something. Even though we promised to tell each other everything I end up saying "never mind..." or "forget it" alot. Its just because some of those things are pointless trivial things that don't really matter and other times I don't want to tell him what's wrong because I hate being a downer and I feel like all I do is talk to him about sad crap. I have depression, I try to be happy all the time. I really try. And also I'm too much to deal with. He has crap going on in his life and all I do is add on to it with coming to him with my problems.
And that is pretty much what I said last night in a text.
Now I also asked Mori if I should do it before I sent all that and she said that me and him should have a break from our friendship for a while. Why? Well she said: "Danny's turned into an a*****e. Simple as that. Do you think I like seeing my best friend upset over him? No. He's turned into an arrogant little p***k who drinks."
But like she doesn't know him like I do...I've known him for almost 5 years...he's like my best guy friend...
and so after I sent him the text his reply was:
"........ Well..... I still wanna be your friend.... I dont put up with you..... I.... Forget it..."
And then I sent him another text telling him to go on and stuff and how I still wanna be his friend Im just tired of hurting him...
His reply to that:
"No matter what I say wont change anything youve heard it all before so whatever"
And then I sent him another text but he never replied...this all went on around 4/5 in the morning so I dunno whether he just fell asleep or didn't answer...
I'm afraid that he might hate me now...or that he might not even care...or want to be friends anymore...I love him...he's like a big brother to me...I feel like I just screwed up majorly...
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Posted: Sat Jul 24, 2010 1:11 pm
If you want to be friends, and you do, you have to be honest and direct with him. You might feel like a burden for talking about your personal problems, but sometimes knowing those things are hidden from you by someone you love is a much heavier burden to carry. Talk to him, be honest, tell him how you feel and let him know how much he means to you.
Also, you see those things are causing your fights. He cares about you and he wants to listen to you, don't push him away. You're losing so much by doing this.
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