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 Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2006 8:10 pm
So um.. i lost my baby on December 22nd, 2005... I had a miscarriage and i didnt even know i was pregnant.. i was just wondering if ne one else in here had one.. and does the feeling of emptiness ever go away?
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Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2006 8:41 pm
I'm really sorry for your loss. heart I've never had one myself, but we're here if you need to talk, or if you just need support.
Counselling or therapy might be something to look into later if you're having trouble coping with the miscarriage. I also believe you need medical attention if you've had a miscarriage, from what I remember other people saying.
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Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2006 8:47 pm
First off, I'm very sorry for your loss. I can only imagine how hard that must be for you. I second the notion of counseling and there are even support groups online. I recommend this one: http://www.silentgrief.com/If you haven't all ready done so, it is extremely important to see a doctor asap after a loss as well.
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Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2006 8:59 pm
Thank you all.. i look into going to counseling later on maybe.... right now i just have my xanga..
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Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 7:55 am
GO SEE A DOCTOR! It's extremely important. They need to figure out what happened and why you miscarried. Otherwise you run the risk of doing damage to yourself that you may never recover which could make it impossible for you to ever have kids.
I'm very sorry for your loss. I can only imagine what it must be like to miscarry and I honestly hope that I can never truly know how you feel. Best of luck to you. I hope everything works out.
Also, you mentioned in some other threads that you and your boyfriend recently broke up because of something. Was this it? If so, I am doubly sorry. Being abandoned when you need comfort the most... I'm very deeply sorry sad
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Posted: Sun Jan 22, 2006 9:29 pm
OMG
I'm so sorry sweetheart!
As they said above, please go to the doctor. Let us know how everything goes.
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Posted: Mon Jan 23, 2006 12:33 pm
eh he left me for alot of reasons... just everything messed up... Im still completly in love with him so hes breaking my heart everyday that passes.... *sigh* Also i went to the doctors finally... They didnt say much... just that they could tell it happened but my insides are ok... idk they used more medical terms of course. heh... Yesterday was hard for me though.. it was a month since the miscarriage.. and my ex didnt even talk to me at all. He left me on January 2nd... and he already has a new girlfriend... yet he thought he was so serious and even bought me an engagment ring..... Idk hes so confusing and it makes me so mad...
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Posted: Mon Jan 23, 2006 2:37 pm
I'm glad the doctors said you were alright. heart Good to have that out of the way now, eh? Now you don't have to worry about anything being medically wrong with you.
Have you considered looking into counselling or therapy of some sort? Although talking to us is fine, none of us have a degree in counselling (to my knowledge), and professionals would probably be better able to help you.
If you check on Gaia, there might be a miscarriage support group you could join. Or you could look online and see if there are any local ones in your area, for people who've gone through what you have.
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Posted: Mon Nov 06, 2006 8:51 pm
I am so sorry for your loss and my heart is with you<3 I saw your signature and I almost broke into tears. I have a daughter myself and I couldn't imagine what it would be like to lose a child. If one good thing came of this tragedy however, it's that you didn't have the child of someone who seems to be a pretty uncaring guy. My prayers are with you and I hope you have the strength to make it though this tough time.
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Posted: Sun Nov 12, 2006 6:56 pm
xTragic_Illusionx So um.. i lost my baby on December 22nd, 2005... I had a miscarriage and i didnt even know i was pregnant.. i was just wondering if ne one else in here had one.. and does the feeling of emptiness ever go away? I just wanted to say that I'm really sorry about your loss. And if you ever need me, I'm here. I went through a miscarriage September of last year. I was almost 13 weeks pregnant when it happened... so I kind of know how you must be feeling. The father left me a month after it happened.
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Posted: Fri Mar 30, 2007 12:43 pm
I had a miscarriage on February 14 2006. I was 10 weeks. I just now got my first period sense the miscarriage. And it is a painful reminder.
I want to try again. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. When we found out I was pregnant, we were scared. But after I told my family and his family, we were ready. I went a bought a bunch of cute baby things, and maturity clothes.. now they just sit in my closet. I feel so empty. I want my baby back so bad. I get angry and jealous when I see moms with there babies even though I know it is not their fault...
Good luck to you.
If you need someone to talk to, I will gladly talk to you. Just PM me.
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Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 10:39 pm
I misscarried twice only about three months apart and the pain does not go away, it lingers and it will eventually dull. If you ever plan on having more children just remember to show them as much affection as you would have shown you lost one, you don't have to keep it a secret from them eather.
If you want to talk just PM me. smile
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Posted: Thu Feb 18, 2010 9:42 am
i miscarried sometime in august last year. sometimes i still cry but when i think about it me and my ex boyfriend just decided we weren't ready for a child at the time anyways smile
the empty feeling will go away sooner or later hunny
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Posted: Thu Feb 18, 2010 9:58 am
Locking the thread because it's old. sweatdrop Please don't revive old threads.
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