inu_fan77777
If your having that much trouble I think you guys need to get soaking wet down there first, or maybe since you have already lost your virginity this is just one solution. You don't have to take it but maybe using something to practice with so you'll be better prepared like a ehem...uhm... fake you know a
d***othe thing with these though: it's easy to ruin whatever sensation a female would receive form actual intercourse using one of these even once
i'm not an expert, and i'm certainly not female, but i did grow up in a housefull of girls so ican give soem advice:
these 'fakes' can be helpful be can be harmful too, i'd say, if you use one, make sure to do three things:
first: okay with your partner
use lubricants even one the fake(to ease it)
and sanitize it before and after each and every use even if it only gets a fraction in, sanitize the whole thing
(i cant begin to explain how easily sex can get you sick, but it can, even one shard of dirt on that component could contain an illness, so be sure to do this step okay?)
again i'll state i'm not a female and i'm not an expert, so dont take me to heart full-timely, but i've at least tried to help