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 Posted: Thu Jul 08, 2010 6:58 pm
For the past month or two I have been having a depressing feeling about my boyfriend.I try calling or texting him but he doesnt reply, so I just dont anymore.So far the only time he has cantacted me, all he said (actually it was a text) was 'ok'.Ive never had this sort of feeling before, and I guess it would probably be that im just lovesick.I miss him alot, I feel kinda ridiculous, and maybe this is the reason I havent been sleeping very well.I try to hang out with friends, or doing something fun but he still pops into my head.I at least want to cure myself from this depresing feeling, does anybody have any ways that I could get rid of this love-sickness?
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Posted: Thu Jul 08, 2010 7:31 pm
Sigh.... Im sorry to say but i fear then end is near between you two. *hugs* im sorry but its true... this same thing happened to me and a few weeks later we broke up. Just try and start looking at other guys and/or think about your life without him and pick out the positives.
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Posted: Sat Jul 10, 2010 11:37 am
strawberry_love4 Sigh.... Im sorry to say but i fear then end is near between you two. *hugs* im sorry but its true... this same thing happened to me and a few weeks later we broke up. Just try and start looking at other guys and/or think about your life without him and pick out the positives. this doomsaying isnt always true right now, my best friend Monique is avoiding contact with me: but here's why: she's not feeling good (girl thing) basically he's either busy, internally sick or, it may be the above is true now for a more-related example: my fiancé hasnt contacted me in over 2 weeks without my contacting her first, and the most she sent back was 'okay we'll see' but why: she's busy doing other things things yo ugotta remember abouta relationship: 1 - in highschool or younger DONT ENTER ONE 2 - there's other people than just you two, and you got duties to those people 3 - there'll be times were you drift, in this time if you REALLY love each other, you'll comeback together and bond deeply, strengthening your love 4 - for girls, Dont let your Monthly rule your choices regarding a guy, base your choice of BF on what's best for your future 5 - for guys: if you GF is in said monthly phase, dont push it unless you know you got a good reason those last three are majorly important as the go hand-in-hand, my fiance and i had a fight simply because she was in her monthly and majorly sleep deprived, it was definitely one of out 'drift-aways' but she and are so much closer now thats it's kind a painful fro me to not be physically around her. overall: give him some time, he'll either begin missing you or he'll be stupid and find a new girl, hopefully though it'll be the first option and i know it seems weird but yeah i understand you plight, i kinda went through it in my first few weeks with my fiancé, albeit, gender-reversedly
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Posted: Sun Jul 11, 2010 9:25 am
Aw Heck strawberry_love4 Sigh.... Im sorry to say but i fear then end is near between you two. *hugs* im sorry but its true... this same thing happened to me and a few weeks later we broke up. Just try and start looking at other guys and/or think about your life without him and pick out the positives. this doomsaying isnt always true right now, my best friend Monique is avoiding contact with me: but here's why: she's not feeling good (girl thing) basically he's either busy, internally sick or, it may be the above is true now for a more-related example: my fiancé hasnt contacted me in over 2 weeks without my contacting her first, and the most she sent back was 'okay we'll see' but why: she's busy doing other things things yo ugotta remember abouta relationship: 1 - in highschool or younger DONT ENTER ONE 2 - there's other people than just you two, and you got duties to those people 3 - there'll be times were you drift, in this time if you REALLY love each other, you'll comeback together and bond deeply, strengthening your love 4 - for girls, Dont let your Monthly rule your choices regarding a guy, base your choice of BF on what's best for your future 5 - for guys: if you GF is in said monthly phase, dont push it unless you know you got a good reason those last three are majorly important as the go hand-in-hand, my fiance and i had a fight simply because she was in her monthly and majorly sleep deprived, it was definitely one of out 'drift-aways' but she and are so much closer now thats it's kind a painful fro me to not be physically around her. overall: give him some time, he'll either begin missing you or he'll be stupid and find a new girl, hopefully though it'll be the first option and i know it seems weird but yeah i understand you plight, i kinda went through it in my first few weeks with my fiancé, albeit, gender-reversedly You may be wrong... because i really dont agree with your "no dating till after high school" saying
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Posted: Sun Jul 11, 2010 9:51 pm
strawberry_love4 Aw Heck strawberry_love4 Sigh.... Im sorry to say but i fear then end is near between you two. *hugs* im sorry but its true... this same thing happened to me and a few weeks later we broke up. Just try and start looking at other guys and/or think about your life without him and pick out the positives. this doomsaying isnt always true right now, my best friend Monique is avoiding contact with me: but here's why: she's not feeling good (girl thing) basically he's either busy, internally sick or, it may be the above is true now for a more-related example: my fiancé hasnt contacted me in over 2 weeks without my contacting her first, and the most she sent back was 'okay we'll see' but why: she's busy doing other things things yo ugotta remember abouta relationship: 1 - in highschool or younger DONT ENTER ONE 2 - there's other people than just you two, and you got duties to those people 3 - there'll be times were you drift, in this time if you REALLY love each other, you'll comeback together and bond deeply, strengthening your love 4 - for girls, Dont let your Monthly rule your choices regarding a guy, base your choice of BF on what's best for your future 5 - for guys: if you GF is in said monthly phase, dont push it unless you know you got a good reason those last three are majorly important as the go hand-in-hand, my fiance and i had a fight simply because she was in her monthly and majorly sleep deprived, it was definitely one of out 'drift-aways' but she and are so much closer now thats it's kind a painful fro me to not be physically around her. overall: give him some time, he'll either begin missing you or he'll be stupid and find a new girl, hopefully though it'll be the first option and i know it seems weird but yeah i understand you plight, i kinda went through it in my first few weeks with my fiancé, albeit, gender-reversedly You may be wrong... because i really dont agree with your "no dating till after high school" saying actually it's the -wsiest- advice: okay so you start a relationship, whats your goal? Love. Love includes marriage, marriage includes kids and kids includes you both absolutely gotta have a job which all equals: not workable in highschool, you'll eventually break up ---and this doesnt factor in raging hormones, factor those n and it's really bad chances.... it's plain and simple common sense really now i'm not sayin i'm right, and i ant sayin your wrong, or vice-versa, but my advice s based off of the situations i've seen happen, namely with either myself involved or someone dear to me involved, in this case my advice is based on my relation to the situation and trust me, ever HS BF/GF couple i've ever seen has broken up, e.v.e.r.y. last one, even those whom i graduated with. why: because the real world aint high school anyhow back on subject, i also think it worth a mention that if this guys does/has drop all contact whatsoever for more than a week, go find him and talk to him face-to-face and express how you feel
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Posted: Mon Jul 12, 2010 1:24 pm
*shrugs* my friend also tries to contact him, and he still doesnt reply, one of my other friends says he might just be on vacation, and says he doesnt seem like the type of guy who talks on the phone alot or at all.Another said he probably just didnt want to talk
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Posted: Mon Jul 12, 2010 1:35 pm
Aw Heck strawberry_love4 Aw Heck strawberry_love4 without him and pick out the positives. my fiancé hasnt contacted me in over 2 weeks without my contacting her first, and the most she sent back was 'okay we'll see' but why: she's busy doing other things things yo ugotta remember abouta relationship: 1 - in highschool or younger DONT ENTER ONE 2 - there's other people than just you two, and you got duties to those people 3 - there'll be times were you drift, in this time if you REALLY love each other, you'll comeback together and bond deeply, strengthening your love 4 - for girls, Dont let your Monthly rule your choices regarding a guy, base your choice of BF on what's best for your future 5 - for guys: if you GF is in said monthly phase, dont push it unless you know you got a good reason those last three are majorly important as the go hand-in-hand, my fiance and i had a fight simply because she was in her monthly and majorly sleep deprived, it was definitely one of out 'drift-aways' but she and are so much closer now thats it's kind a painful fro me to not be physically around her. overall: give him some time, he'll either begin missing you or he'll be stupid and find a new girl, hopefully though it'll be the first option and i know it seems weird but yeah i understand you plight, i kinda went through it in my first few weeks with my fiancé, albeit, gender-reversedly You may be wrong... because i really dont agree with your "no dating till after high school" saying actually it's the -wsiest- advice: okay so you start a relationship, whats your goal? Love. Love includes marriage, marriage includes kids and kids includes you both absolutely gotta have a job which all equals: not workable in highschool, you'll eventually break up ---and this doesnt factor in raging hormones, factor those n and it's really bad chances.... it's plain and simple common sense really now i'm not sayin i'm right, and i ant sayin your wrong, or vice-versa, but my advice s based off of the situations i've seen happen, namely with either myself involved or someone dear to me involved, in this case my advice is based on my relation to the situation and trust me, ever HS BF/GF couple i've ever seen has broken up, e.v.e.r.y. last one, even those whom i graduated with. why: because the real world aint high school anyhow back on subject, i also think it worth a mention that if this guys does/has drop all contact whatsoever for more than a week, go find him and talk to him face-to-face and express how you feel Ok yea i know its true that most if not all eventually break up but it gives you experience for when your old and you do find "the one" so you dont mess up with that one and ruin what could of bin a happy life with a childish mistake
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Posted: Mon Jul 12, 2010 2:48 pm
strawberry_love4 Aw Heck strawberry_love4 Aw Heck strawberry_love4 without him and pick out the positives. my fiancé hasnt contacted me in over 2 weeks without my contacting her first, and the most she sent back was 'okay we'll see' but why: she's busy doing other things things yo ugotta remember abouta relationship: 1 - in highschool or younger DONT ENTER ONE 2 - there's other people than just you two, and you got duties to those people 3 - there'll be times were you drift, in this time if you REALLY love each other, you'll comeback together and bond deeply, strengthening your love 4 - for girls, Dont let your Monthly rule your choices regarding a guy, base your choice of BF on what's best for your future 5 - for guys: if you GF is in said monthly phase, dont push it unless you know you got a good reason those last three are majorly important as the go hand-in-hand, my fiance and i had a fight simply because she was in her monthly and majorly sleep deprived, it was definitely one of out 'drift-aways' but she and are so much closer now thats it's kind a painful fro me to not be physically around her. overall: give him some time, he'll either begin missing you or he'll be stupid and find a new girl, hopefully though it'll be the first option and i know it seems weird but yeah i understand you plight, i kinda went through it in my first few weeks with my fiancé, albeit, gender-reversedly You may be wrong... because i really dont agree with your "no dating till after high school" saying actually it's the -wsiest- advice: okay so you start a relationship, whats your goal? Love. Love includes marriage, marriage includes kids and kids includes you both absolutely gotta have a job which all equals: not workable in highschool, you'll eventually break up ---and this doesnt factor in raging hormones, factor those n and it's really bad chances.... it's plain and simple common sense really now i'm not sayin i'm right, and i ant sayin your wrong, or vice-versa, but my advice s based off of the situations i've seen happen, namely with either myself involved or someone dear to me involved, in this case my advice is based on my relation to the situation and trust me, ever HS BF/GF couple i've ever seen has broken up, e.v.e.r.y. last one, even those whom i graduated with. why: because the real world aint high school anyhow back on subject, i also think it worth a mention that if this guys does/has drop all contact whatsoever for more than a week, go find him and talk to him face-to-face and express how you feel Ok yea i know its true that most if not all eventually break up but it gives you experience for when your old and you do find "the one" so you dont mess up with that one and ruin what could of bin a happy life with a childish mistake actually, now i'll say that you're wrong, ask yourself this: how will i know if 'm a good kisser if i only ever kiss my true mate?: answer: it wont matter if say you have fifteen meaningful relationships, each of which ended in break ups, you've gt a lot of painful memories, setting you up to not trust 'the one' as much as you should, again common sense back on subject: in reply to situation of him not talking a lot on the phone: go to him in person and ask him if he'd like to do soemthing, if he says he's busy, express you've felt kinda-left-out but use words that wont upset him ie of a line to use: "You wanna hang-out? we havent done anything together for a bit."
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