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 Posted: Sat Jan 07, 2006 8:46 pm
That you're cute...
Even though your avatar is funny looking and has too much crap on and looks like a satanic debutante.
pirate
Ah love.
My boyfriend is such a brat sometimes. I should sell him to the gypsies.
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Posted: Sat Jan 07, 2006 8:49 pm
Jiggalicious That you're cute...
Even though your avatar is funny looking and has too much crap on and looks like a satanic debutante. Quite a funny image there ... if he thinks you're cute, do not sell him to the gypsies! Keep him!
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Posted: Sat Jan 07, 2006 8:49 pm
This is true, but if you auction him off to an Ebay buyer, you might get more money for him! hehehe
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Posted: Sat Jan 07, 2006 8:55 pm
Orange Blossom This is true, but if you auction him off to an Ebay buyer, you might get more money for him! hehehe Plus, if he escapes, I can sell him to another bidder for even more money! *ponders*
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Posted: Sat Jan 07, 2006 9:04 pm
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Posted: Sat Jan 07, 2006 9:09 pm
*hugs* Great minds, you know... xd
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Posted: Sat Jan 07, 2006 9:12 pm
hehehe... at least you have somebody you can sell to an ebay bidder.
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Posted: Sat Jan 07, 2006 9:15 pm
Heh, Blossom...
Sometimes, it's a toss up as to whether that's a good thing or not!
Take care of you, and good folks will come to you. I suspect that won't be a problem for you, considering you have a big heart.
biggrin
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Posted: Sat Jan 07, 2006 9:17 pm
A lot of the times though, my big heart either brings me to the wrong type of people or brings the wrong kind of people to me. It sucks sometimes, I'm not going to lie.
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Posted: Sat Jan 07, 2006 9:43 pm
Well, you will learn to sort them out...*hugs* and if anyone's mean to you, you can always sick TMO on them. wink
The good thing about life is that it brings us things that are spectacular, along with the bad stuff. I know that life can suck and so can people; however, stuff doesn't always suck all the time. If it did, whoa nelly...we'd all be in trouble. I know there were times I wanted to throw the towel in, but somewhere, someone who had my interests at heart made me smile...or something beautiful or funny was right under my nose. I think those moments are the ones that save us..
But I also know that sometimes words are a comfort, and sometimes they're just words. So I won't babble any more, but just know that with good karma like yours...something good will come your way. Probably when you least expect it.
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Posted: Sun Jan 08, 2006 4:08 am
What Jiggy said.
I, too, have been cursed with picking the wrong kind of man. The type that appeals to me ia not necessarily the type that is good for me. Now, I'm confused about all that, and have just decided to wait and see what happens. This may be easier for me than you for, because I'm older and have kids, but sometimes when you aren't looking is when you find it!
Good luck!
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Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 9:46 pm
I tend to have a pretty good radar for jerks - I've had much better luck than most of my friends in relationships.
Things to avoid in a significant other:
1. Entitlement complex. If, early on in the relationship, he/she expects more than what's decent and reasonable (ie. making the effort to see each other, returning one another's phone calls, etc.) and simply takes it as a given that you'll go beyond that, look out. This includes guys who expect sex because they paid for dinner, girls who automatically expect that they should never have to pay for themselves....and anyone who expects you to call them more than once a day.
2. Double standards. If your significant other expects you to always be right on time but never is, expects expensive and/or extremely thoughtful presents and gives you crappy and thoughtless gifts, expects you to listen to every miniscule problem of theirs and is dismissive whenever you have a problem you want to talk about, RUN. Do not walk out on them, run screaming into the streets.
3. Forgetting important dates. If your significant other forgets your birthday and you've been together for more than a month, consider it a warning sign. Most people will at least try to commit something like that to memory, either by writing it down or just memory.
I could rant about so many other things on this topic, but those are some of the warning signs for a normal jerk, rather than someone that I consider not just a jerk, but a dangerous jerk.
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Posted: Wed Jan 11, 2006 3:50 am
What Lex said! We're so smart here at TLS! Although I get the feeling that for most of us, it's been earned through experience, which begs the question ... if we're so smart, how come we know so much about bad relationships?
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Posted: Wed Jan 11, 2006 4:44 am
Sell him to an Ebay bidder.
I'll take him. 3nodding
Heheh. I don't think my boyfriend has ever heard of gaia.
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Posted: Wed Jan 11, 2006 12:26 pm
Lobster.Pants Sell him to an Ebay bidder.
I'll take him. 3nodding
Heheh. I don't think my boyfriend has ever heard of gaia. I dunno, Lobster Pants... he's mighty naughty. You might just end up selling him to another ebay bidder after he wears you out with his ribald humor and rampant ebil.
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