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 Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 11:06 am
My mom is a b***h. My sister is a b***h. My brother is a useless piece of s**t. My sister in law is being a little snitch and my fiance is nowhere to be heard from.... My mom and sister gang up on me and start saying I'm lazy and never do anything to help mom. My sister dumps her kids off on my mom every weekend for the entire time then she comes up here, sits on her a**, eats all our food and bitches at me about how I raise my daughter. I live at home with my mom since my fiance is deployed and I help her whenever she asks. I'm sorry, but this is NOT MY HOUSE! Mom is trying to sell, but she has no ******** clue where she's going so I have been packing slowly. I hate my room being so not me... It hate it. My brother has all his s**t here, but lives with his girlfriend. He has two bearded dragons and a snake here. He just recently took the other two. He said that he takes care of his reptiles better than I take care of mine. How the ******** is that possible! He comes around once a month! I ******** make sure they have water and feed them! ******** you Andy! He recently played my fiance's XBox without permission. He has a PS3 in his room! So I told him not to touch my fiance's XBox and he flips out on me! He did not ask for permission!! And today I had a lovely figt with my mom, thanks to ******** facebook. My sister say my status and told mommy about what I had said. It was saying something like "Mowing cause noone else will" Or something like that. Um... That was directed to my ******** lazy brother! GRA!!! I need o ******** move out, but I hve no goddamn money. My paychecks suck a**, the child support goes towards bills and my fiance changed his ******** password because he forgot it! And I knew it! So he didn't ******** ask me what it was, just changed it! So now he forgot the NEW ONE! Before I knew what it was! So I'm ******** for money.... I have nothing, but a psycho mom who wants me to pack up before she even knows where she is moving, a sister who likes to get in to fights with me and a lazy piece of s**t brother..... Oh and my fiance has not called in a week! I know he can because two others guys he is with have been on facebook. He has not been on for a month! I wish I could put a few more holes in my walls, but then I would just have to patch those up along with my old ones.... ******** bullshit. When my sister and brothers moved out they had someone else to help them. Like a girlfriend or boyfriend. I have mine, but he is in the middle of some ocean and I don't have access to his bank account... I'm going to flip s**t next time I get in to a fight with my mom.
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 11:40 am
They really suck. Maybe you should put up you fiance Xbox up somewhere so no one can get to it. Parents are always going to be bitching when it comes to raising children because they just want you to raise them like they did.
Siblings are siblings, they will always be dumb and stupid and annoying.
Things will work themselves out though eventually, just be patience and calm. And if someone tries to start something with you just take a deep breath or just walk away. Don't try to yell or fight back, and just be calm about it.
Just keep working hard.
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 11:49 am
I don't have a TV in my room, my brother does. That's where his PS3 is. No one touches the XBox except for me. My brother in law always asks. Aparantly my brother thinks he is above asking or womething. The whole point is that it is not mine. It is my fiance's. So freaking ask. I know how protective he is of that stupid thing, so, therefore, I am protective of it for him...
My sister is just a b***h. She always will be. She's miserable and so she makes everyone else miserable so she can catch a glimpse of happiness. You should have heard what she told me when I was planning on getting married before my fiance's deployment.
*sighs* My mom wonders why I am in my room the entire time my daughter is napping... It's so I don't flip out on her, but she doesn't understand that. My room in my safehouse and when she comes in and sits down on my bed, univited, it ticks me off. So I act weird cause I don't want her in my room! It's my room. My quiet time. My me time! Go away!
I have been trying to take deep breaths, but whenever my sister comes around I might as well forget that... Or my brother... The brother that would, most likely, defend me lives in Vegas and I'm in MD. And all three of them gang up on me, mom included.
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 12:32 pm
Maybe you should invest in a lock? Or put something in front of the door. Or take the plug for the Xbox and hide that, people tend not to play stuff that don't turn on.
Just remember, when your Fiance's comes back you can sort out the money issue you can finally leave your mom's house and be done with them for good.
And have you try to tell your mom that?
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 7:31 pm
I don't want to have to cart the XBox all the way down stairs and hook it up for just like an hour. It's too much of a hassle. No one bothers it, not even my 2 year old daughter. It just really aggravates me that my brother can't play his own PS3.
And I haven't threatened my mom with that. I guess I should. Not like she has a life right now though... My sister monopolizes her every weekend. She is always babysitting her kids... Guess I'll have to threaten my mom with that next time. hen I'll get the "That's stupid. Don't rush in to anything. Make sure he wants you down there before you go rushing off." I know she will. She's said it countless times before.
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Posted: Sat Jun 19, 2010 8:02 pm
God, that sounds like a ******** load of bullshit to put up with. My main gripes in life have to do with my life and job. Sorry, but I need a rant too after today.
Today started off nice, I went surfing this morning, came home, got on my computer for a little bit. The at a quarter till five I left for work. I work at Dominos and all in all it's not a bad gig. I just have a problem with people who have no clue what the ******** I'm asking them. I ask "What kind of Pizza crust do you want?" and they say "no thank you." or "I want a Hawaiian." or even "The spicy wings." and I can't ********' explain it too them with out peppering the phrase "You jackass." in the sentence. Not to be stereotypical, but they're all freaking Hispanic! If you don't know what the ******** options for a pizza are then don't ******** order and waste time! Then there are the people who ask all the questions: "What are your specials?" "How much is this?" "what kind of crust do you have?" "Do you have anchovies?" "Do you have the stuffed crust?" "Do you have salads?" And all I wanna do is tell them to shut up before I strangle them with the phone cord, especially when it gets stupid busy and the phones are ringing like crazy. I also hate the people with the gigantic orders, I feel like I should be asking if they want anything else to gain weight with, and then when people b***h about the price and I have to explain it to them calmly, Oh that just ******** irritates me. Then tonight when I came home from work there were these jackasses in a car yelling and hollering at me through the window. Yelling "You wanna get ******** run over?!" over and over again. I didn't respond to the first yell and they went to the neighborhood across from mine and ******** waited for me, then they waited till I went to go cross the street before yelling again and following me across, they went on ahead and gave them the finger because, as you can probably guess, I do not like ******** like them. Then they decided to pull into the cul-de-sac near my house and try and scare me by trying to run into me, I see all this coming and decide to maneuver around them, and then they try to ******** back into me before I zoom into my neighbor's yard and they just laugh and drive off. I swear to God if the bastards try it again I'm getting the license plate number and calling the cops, I do not want to put up with that s**t at a quarter till ten. Also earlier I tried to call my parents and see what kind of pizza they wanted from Dominos so they could pick me and the food up after work but they went to a wedding and didn't bother to bring one of their phones, and my dad gripes about my mom not answering hers, so I give up, go home and then they come in with ******** Pizza Hut, which I don't really like, and I ask how they didn't get my message, lo and behold they didn't think to take a phone with them. I give up, they're freaking hopeless, I know they love me and I know they meant well but it was probably cheaper to go with my employee discount at Dominos than get Pizza Hut. Man I just feel like I shouldn't even bother trying anymore, I mean if this is going to happen all the time then I'll just get s**t for me and not share, since I'm like the only one who doesn't really care for Pizza Hut, and we even planned it out before I left for work too and they still went and got Pizza Hut, what's the point of me working at Dominos when they're just going to go to Pizza Hut.
Anyways, sorry to steal the spotlight in your thread, I just needed to vent, good luck with your family.
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Posted: Sun Jun 20, 2010 9:11 am
Oh no I don't mind at all. Everyone needs to rant and scream. I work at fast food so I understand. I am pretty much always in drive thru {my choice. I hate front line} and I get this order for $45 the other day! She got 5 milk shakes! In drive thru! So needless to say we parked her and tried to work on her order and the other peoples' orders who were still in line! And then we run out of chicken and people get all pissy! Well guess what a*****e! Some person just got a 16 piece and another got an 8 piece! WE DO NOT SPECIALIZE IN CHICKEN! Go to KFC if you want chicken! Then they call and b***h at our manager cause we are out of chicken. Thank the gods for Pat! He tells them like it is! He is the best manager ever! He is not afraid to confront people, workers or customers. And he gives us free food XD I love of usuals. They get in and get their stuff and get out, no hassle. But the people who have never been to a Roy Rojers are just freakin morons. All of our stuff is on the board, but we still get "Do you have Mac and Cheese?" "Do you have corn on the cob{WTF!}" "Do you have green beans?" NO! Can't you freakin see! *rips someone's head off* A lot of the people I work with are afraid of me XD Fine by me! They listen to me and don't ******** up my space. I hate when people leave my area looking like a tornado went through!
I just had a good arguement with my mom.... Let's see if I can remember it word for word...
Mom- "Do you trust Matt {My fiance} 100%?"
Me- "Yes. I just don't trust other people."
Mom- "What about the prostitutes at the ports? When he get's off the ship"
Me- "Shut up!"
Mom- "I'm serious."
Me- "Do you know how frickin often I think about that?!"
Mom- "I'm just saying to be careful when he gets back."
Me- "I'm not a ******** moron! He can get crap from the ship!"
Mom- "So you think he's been screwing around on the ship?"
Me- "Shut up."
I seriously think about that A LOT! I try very hard not to because I do not want to think about my FIANCE cheating on me! IF he does, however, he is gone. Once a cheater always a cheater. My father is, my brother-in-law is. I have never cheated and never will. These past months have been driving me nuts, but I lock myself in my room, almost literally, and resist temptation. I have a guy who keeps telling me to come over. I say "No". Flat out. No. I have a life ahead of me, I'm not going to ******** it up. And I would feel like such a hypocritical whore considering my motto since Freshman year is "Semper Fidelis" I took Latin and loved it. And I have always been faithful. It is not my motto just becaue my fiance is a Marine. I started dating him my senior year, so this was 3 prior to dating him. It's just jesus ******** gods! {My mom loves when I curse like that, even though I'm not christian} She pisses me off!
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Posted: Sun Jun 20, 2010 12:07 pm
That is kinda stupid...but if your dad was a cheater than i can see why she would ask that. But she shouldn't had said it like that.
And even if your fiance does cheat than he just lost a cool and honest and hard working woman.
Just keep thinking out your stuff and get your stuff done like always keep working hard. It will all pay off in the long run.
There will be people who will make our lives hard and difficult but it up to us how we handle it. And if you been dealing with it for a long time, then just keep doing it until you can find some better job or something like that.
idk.
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Posted: Sun Jun 20, 2010 5:14 pm
that fails...
In my world I've found telling my brother to get off his lazy a** and work if he ever want to get anywhere with his useless life before he's shoved in the ground, tends to motivate him... You should try it some time. ^_^
I could never work in fast food, I'd end up killing someone by the end of the day, or at least screaming at a crabby customer... I am REALLY not a peoples person.
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Posted: Sun Jun 20, 2010 8:44 pm
I dunno about cool. I lose my temper a good bit. I just can't believe my mom even thought to bring it up. I wanted to throw something at her!
I don't really care about my brother. He can ruin his own life. I am trying to work for something so I'll just let him fail. My family does not mean that much to me. I guess having lost so many friends I am used to having people stab me in the back now and don't think of my family as "forever". It's sad, but I hate how I always get in to fights whenever I try to say something. I'm done.
And so I wrote my fiance a letter telling him how pissed I'm getting and that it is kind of unfair. I understand that he is deployed, but since Rosa and Cennicola have been on then he should be able to. I told him my suspicions and my mom's and how he is going to be one sorry b*****d if he did anything like that. I don't feel that it is right to go easy on him. He barely shows affection for me when he is here, so why should I go easy on him over there? Odd reason, but really. Life does not stop while you're deployed so why should I act like he is a child. No, he needs to toughen up. I said today that I feel like I am 24 and he is 16. He still wants to go out and hang with friends while I am stuck at home with the child, taking on all of the responsibilities. That's pretty much how it is, but we have not lived together so maybe it will be different. Maybe. I have hopes, but Hope can be a b***h. So I have plans that I would like to see happen. And if they don't then I'll keep trying.
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Posted: Mon Jun 21, 2010 10:43 am
Oh and today she come in to my room, attempting to pack up my room. She takes down a shirt from where I had it hanging and knocks off one of my dragon statues, it falls to the floor and breaks... That pissed me off. I really liked it. Then she opens my closet door and the mirror falls off, breaking and cuts her. I said "Does that look like a sign to you?" She gets pissed and says "No, your room is just full of s**t." Yea uh huh... s**t... That you just broke! Don't you think a mirror trying to chop off her toe is more like a sign to GET THE HELL OUT OF MY ROOM! So glad my room agrees with me and tried to help get her out.
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Posted: Mon Jun 21, 2010 3:44 pm
Wow sorry about your statue. And maybe she should have not try to pack up the room.
Wish i had something to say to help crying but i'm out of words to try and help...sorry....
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Posted: Mon Jun 21, 2010 8:10 pm
I'm actually feeling pretty good right now XD Being able to write it out and realize I'm not the only one having stuff like this happen helps. Makes me feel not alone in the world. I had a pretty good day at work too. Except for this dumb kid... We all think he is retarded, literally. So I had the manager's card in my back pocket with the little keychain thingy dangling out. he came over and pulled it out on my back pocket! I know it's not such a big deal to some people, but to me it is! You do not go putting your hands anywhere near my butt! I was just speachless, well, after I told him never to do it again. More like yelled at him though. I was furious. This kid in new and I usually terrify new kids so I was just like *jaw on floor* when he did it. No one does anything like that to me and they know what will happen if they do. I'm still boggled. Do I need to step up my scare tactics? XD
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Posted: Thu Jun 24, 2010 2:46 pm
O___O wow....glad you had such a good day.
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Posted: Thu Jun 24, 2010 6:39 pm
XD Yea..... And mom took the internet modem and hid it today to keep me off the internet... That was stupid. I looked a bunch of places and couldn't find it!
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