Just so you all know, Kai only makes the official decisions on what the Vizards do. So, as long as you respect her, she won't order you around. Vizards are like family but family's need either mom's(eww), dad's(eww), or a big boss figure, for order. So, Kai's like a big sister. And once your completely accepted feel free to make your own room as a new topic, like I did.
Welcome to the Vizards!!