Welcome to Gaia! ::

Wow, this is a really long story.. where do I start... hmm... ok here goes:
It was the second last day of school, and I was home on the computer and I got a forward quiz like dealie, and I sent it back to everyone who recieved it. I ended up adding everyone on that list, including Tommy. I'd seen him at school and I knew him because he was my best friend Lisa's ex (they got along still). Well, anyways, he signed onto MSN, and we started talking. He said he knew who I was and everything, and he asked if I liked Lisa (I don't I'm gay) because I'm always around Lisa, and we sort of flirt alot ^^. And I told him that I didn't, for a big reason, at that moment I had to go, so I said "bye" and he was like, "wait, what's the big reason?" and he really wanted to know, but I said that I'd tell him later and yeah, so I left.
Well, I went to school the next day and there was a bomb threat so I sat next to Lisa in the fieldhouse. I decided to tell her about my conversation with Tommy, she said that he told her and kept asking if I was gay. She of course, told him "no" (she knows that I am, but she's trustworthy). Then, she told me that he was gay for a while or something like that, but I didn't understand what she meant, so I didn't ask.
School was out for the break, and I got to talk to Tommy again on the computer.. I told him I was gay, and he was surprised because I trusted him enough to come out to him, and yeah... he kept flirting with me like for example, we were sort of playing a game, he shouted something and I shouted something that related to it somehow (remember, this is all on MSN xd ). It went a little something like this (our conversation):

Yeah sweatdrop , it was kind of weird, he kept saying things sort of like that, but I didn't know anything about his sexuality and all that so I couldn't really assume anything. Well, I decided to ask him, and he got nervous and told me he was bi. "DON'T TELL LISA!" he said, and I kept his promise... for a while (<--that comes in later).
Flirtations
Now, he kept flirting with me, here are some examples: (M=me T=Tommy)



There are more times where he does things like this, but I can't remember any right now..
Trust issues...
Well, I finally asked Lisa about the whole "Tommy used to be gay" issue that she told me about during the bomb threat. She said that they went out earlier that year, but she heard some rumors (that he was gay) and asked him but he exploded at her and broke up. A few days later he decided to talk to her and told her he was bi (they didn't get back together though). Lisa wasn't too comfortable with this but yeah.. Like a week later he told her that he had some sort of "revelation" and he was no longer bi, but full-out straight. Then Lisa told me that she believes he is straight now (I know otherwise). Right then I knew why Tommy didn't want me to tell Lisa, he didn't really trust her.
*sighs* Me and Lisa tell eachother EVERYTHING, we are really open witheachother.. so one day I kinda accidentally told her that Tommy was bi, and she was all confused as to why he lied to her, and why he kept everything from her, yet told them to me. Lisa told me that Tommy told her that he loved her, but she couldn't really be sure of it anymore..
School is back
Ok... all of what I told you happened over break on MSN, (excepting the first parts). Well, school is back (for three days now). Lisa said she'd formally introduce me to Tommy which is awesome (I can't just walk up to him and be like, "hey tommy what's up?" because I'm not that good at that sort of thing). But we see eachother and sort of walk past eachother.
My issues..
Now here's my real problem.. I kinda like Tommy, and think he may be the one. We've talked a lot on MSN, not yet in real life, but that will change hopefully. I want to tell Lisa, but I'm not sure how she will respond. And I'm not sure if how Tommy would react (I might tell him later, not soon because I don't know him that well personally). I'm not sure if he'd want me as a boyfriend or not (later of course) because he was hitting on me after all..

So yeah... help me out people..

Hmm... maybe.. I'll have to see.. it's kinda complicated sweatdrop Anyone have more specific advice?

gonk c'mon people! Please.. I need more specific advice or maybe I just wanna talk about it.

(This shouldn't be as a seperate post)
In my opinion, if you and Lisa are as trustworthy as i think yous two might be. i'd tell her. Then i'd ask him out and tell Lisa what he said. Although that's just me. It just seems fair to me that everyone is happy. You get this problem off your chest and Lisa trusts you more for telling her this.

Well well Daniel....^^I KNEW ABOUT THIS BEFORE U GUYS DID biggrin