Okay, my fiancé just left for basic training....i feel like i'm dying......this hurts so bad, and i wasnt expecting it to hit this fast....I didn't expect to get my breath taken away and be bawling like a baby.......is there something wrong with me? i tried to stop crying but i just can't.....god it hurts so damn badddd...please if anyone can offer support or advice my friends don't get it....