|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
 Posted: Thu Jun 10, 2010 3:49 pm
AND INSTEAD OF DOING SOMETHING ABOUT IT I'M JUST GOING TO COMPLAINNN
UGUGHGHGHGHGHHHH
|
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Jun 10, 2010 5:02 pm
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Jun 10, 2010 6:09 pm
Dude. You're not gross. You're not fat. Even if you GOT fat, you still wouldn't be gross! You gotta learn to love yourself. Your body is awesome! It keeps you alive day after day after day. Give it the props it deserves, and don't tie in some warped aesthetic to your self worth. You're amazing. Seriously.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Jun 10, 2010 6:20 pm
Athens I've told you this a billion times and I'll tell you it again, I think you have a totally hot bod. And a clearly Greek face, and ethnic girls are hot, so, yep; you're a babe.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Jun 10, 2010 7:14 pm
You guys are all super sweet but seriously, I can't help but think I look utterly disgusting.
And I so did gain weight, and its gross. Especially when you're two best friends are the skinniest things around.
Also I'm just not happy about it. And I don't really think I ever will be happy about it, you know?
And I'd do something about it if I didn't have stupid health problems that prevents me from losing weight. Or makes it harder, I shouldn't say prevents. But it makes it way harder.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Jun 10, 2010 7:26 pm
But you don't have to be thin to be hotttt!! crying
You're good at looking good!
Is there anything you can do that might make you feel better about yourself? Even on the occasional day where I feel disgusting, dressing up extra nice makes me feel better.
Seriously, try. You deserve to feel good about yourself!
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Jun 10, 2010 7:31 pm
Around here you do.
... I don't have nice clothes to dress up in because my mother doesn't love me and I can't get a job. ;______;
I HAD two nice outfits. One my mother SHRUNK IN THE WASH [the ONE time she offers to do laundry, usually I always do it.]
The other one I wear often I think its not as good looking now, you know?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Jun 10, 2010 7:37 pm
You gained weight? So what?! You're not a number on a scale or a dress size. You're a wonderfully kind, capable and intelligent person. On top of that, you really are very pretty. I understand that self esteem problems are probably some of the hardest to overcome, but once you do (and you will!!!), your life will seriously be so much more fulfilling. You DO deserve to feel great about yourself.
Everyday, write something down that you like about yourself. At first, it doesn't have to be about your body, but as you go, try and include more and more things about it that you like. Read the list often. It sounds stupid, but that's basically how people learn to hate themselves (beauty ideals get reinforced through repetition, even if it's not a list that's written down) so you can try to reinforce the idea that you are a marvelous lady who is going to love herself, the world be damned.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Jun 10, 2010 7:39 pm
I HOPE YOU DON'T MIND ME POSTING PICS OF YOU.
But I just thought I'd show you some pics where I think you look particularly good so maybe you can get an idea of what other people think? Like obviously you're probably worried about that, so I figure I'd show you what looks good at a glance.
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc1/hs264.snc1/9134_137600653812_604883812_2594132_7911456_n.jpg
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc1/hs026.snc1/2360_52861498812_604883812_1469398_1620_n.jpg NOT FANCY, but you look good!!
http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc1/hs179.snc1/6736_103853028812_604883812_2151511_3859189_n.jpg - THOSE LEGS!! gonk gonk gonk heart
http://hphotos-snc3.fbcdn.net/hs491.snc3/26826_339043293812_604883812_3643670_7661661_n.jpg - this is just cute in every way imaginable. redface heart heart heart
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Jun 10, 2010 7:47 pm
@Faffy: OH MY GOD TYRA MADE SOME ONE DO THAT. YOU'RE TYRA. Honestly, I cannot think of one thing to actually write down that I like about myself.
I'm kind of an awful human being.
Oh god. XD;;
1st one is from last summer.
NO FAIR THE SECOND ONE I'M ALL SWEATY AND GROSS. XDD
I wish I could find that damn dress in the third one.
I'd be so attractive with facial hair.
Funny, I don't find these pictures at all attractive. I can't help but find flaws in all of them. That ruin the whole pic.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Jun 10, 2010 7:52 pm
I don't see any flaws, and I bet nobody else does either ;w;
Everyone is ALWAYS super aware and self-conscious about their own flaws. I bet you don't really notice anybody else's!
You are such a cutie! Treat yourself like one! Even if you have to pretend, it'll make you feel better eventually!
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Jun 10, 2010 8:07 pm
I try but there's always some one around to knock me right down and remind me what I really am, you know?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Jun 10, 2010 8:34 pm
They're not "reminding you what you really are" they are being assholes, whether they mean to or not, and trying to make you out to be less than you are. ):
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Jun 10, 2010 8:38 pm
unfathomable
They're not "reminding you what you really are" they are being assholes, whether they mean to or not, and trying to make you out to be less than you are. ):
qft.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Jun 10, 2010 8:41 pm
marzipancakes unfathomable
They're not "reminding you what you really are" they are being assholes, whether they mean to or not, and trying to make you out to be less than you are. ):
qft. whenever I see qft, I see queef. IDK why.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Reply
