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 Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 3:47 pm
...when someone touches another person in unwanted places and the person doesnt want it, even if its not vaginal.
someone told me it has to be vaginal to count as rape i want to know if its true
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Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 4:38 pm
That's technically called molestion, but if it was like involving the p***s ( aka : oral/a**l/hands ), that could be considered rape... like oral rape or something.
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Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 5:09 pm
it sounds like molestation or sexual harassment to me.... if you know anyone it's happened to, be a friend and report it. they may be mad at you for betraying their trust at first, but in the end they will probably thank you. here is a link to a place that you can report it or any kind of abuse or harrassment, ect if anyone needs it. i will also make a thread about it. http://www.missingkids.com/missingkids/servlet/PageServlet?LanguageCountry=en_US&PageId=169
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Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 6:04 pm
i'm not telling anyone...it happened to me
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Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 9:29 pm
Rape is when you are forced to have sex. That's just the definition of the word.
What you experienced sounds more like sexual harassment. If you tell a trusted adult such as a school teacher or counsellor then you can make sure the person stops and doesn't do it to anyone else. I experienced verbal sexual harassment when I went to school and I reported it to the police. He got in trouble at school and I know that if he does something to someone in the future they will be able to prosecute him much easier.
It's worth telling someone even if that means you can make it stop.
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Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 11:08 pm
Chalda Rape is when you are forced to have sex. That's just the definition of the word.
What you experienced sounds more like sexual harassment. If you tell a trusted adult such as a school teacher or counsellor then you can make sure the person stops and doesn't do it to anyone else. I experienced verbal sexual harassment when I went to school and I reported it to the police. He got in trouble at school and I know that if he does something to someone in the future they will be able to prosecute him much easier.
It's worth telling someone even if that means you can make it stop. Agreed. heart
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Posted: Fri Jan 06, 2006 11:54 pm
kankainiku i'm not telling anyone...it happened to me It's your choice if you tell people about what happened or not, but the big thing is to make sure to get out of the situation if it is still happening at ALL. Just know that it is NOT your fault, no matter if you're only wearing a bandaid or if you're dressed like a nun. The person who really crossed the line is the molestor, and for that, he/she is lower than dirt. YOU are not at fault here. If you don't want to tell anyone about it, make sure to remove yourself from the situation, and hopefully get some professional councilling to work through your trauma.
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Posted: Sun Jan 08, 2006 10:37 pm
Honestly, it depends. Rape can mean a very wide range of things (including kidnapping without any kind of sexual component). It just depends on what dictionary you are using, what judge you get, etc...
But personally, I could call just touching "molestation." That doesn't make it any more acceptable, though. If someone is raping OR molesting you, you need to get away from them and report them.
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Posted: Thu Jan 26, 2006 11:39 pm
well im not sure if this counts but i kind of put myself in a situation where i was letting him finger me and then he tried to have sex with me and i said no and pushed him back. He then tried again so i grabbed his p***s pulled it and twisted it. I then called my mom to pick me up. I never did tell anyone what happened because i felt like i had provoked it by putting myself in that situation... is that still considered well almost rape??
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Posted: Fri Jan 27, 2006 7:59 am
Ms.Edea well im not sure if this counts but i kind of put myself in a situation where i was letting him finger me and then he tried to have sex with me and i said no and pushed him back. He then tried again so i grabbed his p***s pulled it and twisted it. I then called my mom to pick me up. I never did tell anyone what happened because i felt like i had provoked it by putting myself in that situation... is that still considered well almost rape?? If you said "no" quite clearly, and he heard you, and chose to try again anyways, it might qualify as attempted rape. I don't know if penetration is required for attempted rape or not though.
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Posted: Fri Jan 27, 2006 9:58 am
Nikolita Ms.Edea well im not sure if this counts but i kind of put myself in a situation where i was letting him finger me and then he tried to have sex with me and i said no and pushed him back. He then tried again so i grabbed his p***s pulled it and twisted it. I then called my mom to pick me up. I never did tell anyone what happened because i felt like i had provoked it by putting myself in that situation... is that still considered well almost rape?? If you said "no" quite clearly, and he heard you, and chose to try again anyways, it might qualify as attempted rape. I don't know if penetration is required for attempted rape or not though. none-the-less it was really scary because we were in a room where you had to lift a little square window to reach out into the hall and grab the doorknob... there was no doorknob inside the room. I didnt want to tell my family bacuse i guess he did bad things to my cuz, but i thoght he had changed.... i was wrong he just used me
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Posted: Fri Jan 27, 2006 10:35 am
a p***s does not have to be involved. you can report it and it will be taken seriously. schools, or a workplace can not afford no to take it seriously. so if someone is making you feel uncomforable, then i think you should report it before anything else happens.
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Posted: Mon Jan 30, 2006 4:10 pm
That's considered molestation. Rape is when someone inserts something (p***s, finger, object...) into the woman's v****a. But molestation is still very wrong.
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Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2006 7:47 pm
I think it would be sexual assult of a high level. They wouldn't get rape, but they would probably get the max sentence.
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Posted: Sun Feb 12, 2006 2:27 pm
Laws vary from country to country. Where I live in Canada there are charges like Sexual Assault... this is any form of unwanted sexual touching right up to rape.
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