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 Posted: Fri May 28, 2010 8:05 pm
And yet another one of my family memebers die (my grandma who i am very close to) and im seriously thinking about resorting to cutting myself again
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Posted: Fri May 28, 2010 9:06 pm
I am sorry for your loss. Cutting isn't going to make things better or easier though. In fact, cutting usually just makes things worse because it denies you the opportunity to deal with things in a healthy way. Maybe a professional can help you learn some better coping strategies?
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Posted: Fri May 28, 2010 9:14 pm
i know me and friend are both keeping each other in check so we dont try to cut ourselves. So far it was going good up until now
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Posted: Fri May 28, 2010 9:55 pm
Now, I want you to think about this.
Cutting your wrists will not bring your grandmother back, no matter what.
And there's nothing you can do about her death, but to respect her wishes, said, or otherwise. If your grandmother knew that you were cutting your wrists over her death, don't you think that it would break her heart? Most people would feel so sad that you are hurting yourself over their death. I'm sure that your grandma-- assmuming that she is a decent, loving person, would want you to move on, and be HAPPY, because everyone dies, and it is YOUR time to live now.
You cannot live life looking behind you. So by all means think about your grandmother. Love her. Remember her. And live your life that way it was meant to be lived. There will be a new opportunity for you, and hopefully her.
"As one door closes, another opens." You just need to look for that door, that's all.
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Posted: Sat May 29, 2010 5:11 am
What if you put together a project or did something to help you remember your Grandma and how much you loved her? Might that help you feel a little better, and then you could keep it in a place where you can see it and remember your love for her?
(I understand that doesn't work for everyone though.)
In addition to talking to a professional, you could also try writing your thoughts in a journal or just getting them out instead of keeping everything inside.
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Posted: Sat May 29, 2010 7:45 am
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Posted: Sat May 29, 2010 6:14 pm
instead of cutting yourself too xp changes happen you need to be ready. if someone you know dies you cant get them back so you try your best to remember them and what they did. (did that help? O.O)
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