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My friend has had this fling with a coworker for maybe 4 or 5 months now. He is bi-polar so is always at extremes, but seemed like a nice guy to her. (not to me, i met him like twice and he didn't even try to introduce himself to me.)
Well like a week ago they finally tried to have sex, it didn't last long, she was scared (it's not her first time) and was so tense he couldn't get it in.
Well another coworker who is friends with him ended up telling rianon that he's been doing this other girl and is about to get into a relationship with her. Now Rianon is all "i knew this would happen, i knew he was a d**k in the back of my mind." and "i feel so disgusting like i've got and STD from him and all the girls he's been ********." (she was telling me this while on break, sobbing.

I had told her from the start that he was probably using her and to stop, but it continued. Now i have no idea what to tell her, i haven't been in this situation and it can maybe just barely relate to my past situation with dan.


If this happened to your best friend, what would you do or say to get her on the track to recovery?