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 Posted: Sun May 09, 2010 9:29 am
Alright, to start off - this isn't a normal "my ex is bugging me" thing. And i'm 22. So, now that all that's outta the way.
First:
My ex boyfriend who i was with for an astounding month wasn't what i'd wanted. Cool. So i broke up with him about.. ohh.. two or three weeks ago? Ever since he's been talking to me, asking stupid questions, yada yada. Normal harassment there.
Something about him you should know though, is that he's got some HIGH energy. Like insane. He's also pagan and knows all about it, yet he can't control it for some reason and claims he knows reiki healing. He's burnt me before..
So. My problem now is that all that energy is going into hating and/or trying to get me back or... whatever. I'm not sure how his mind is working right now. But, i've been feeling bad things. So has my friend, who i just got back with and we're awesome friends again. Why does it matter? When i was still with the Ex i also got back in good terms with my friend. He was mega jealous. The friend's female, and also very spiritual and all that.
We both got insane bad vibes, among other things. Whole reason i'm posting is: Advice? Spellwork? I'm not looking for a mind-altering "kill him" spell, no worries. I know spells can't fix everything, as i've tried to calm the Ex down and all my efforts have been futile. Including ignoring him. I also think it's silly to get the law involved in such a stupid manner.
I don't want him to just die or even be away from me forever. I just want the insanity to stop, i want him to calm down. I'm also aware that it ... might not stop. So... yeah.
~Candii
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Posted: Sun May 09, 2010 5:20 pm
Well Candii, I do not think anyone on this guild would suggest that you do anything to try and kill the boy. Sounds a little like dark magick to me. And running from your problems solves nothing, but I think that might become part of the solution.
I am also very easily affected by energy, and quite good with manipulating it and the like. If you are at all experienced in the arts I suggest making a shield that is mirror coated. It is very protective. If you do not know how to make a shield there is a great class that has ended now, but has all of the lesson plans in it here. ~I will be happy to help you with the lessons if you get lost~
Now to move toward my theory, running away. Now I am not going to suggest physically running away from him because energy can travel through space very easily, and even time. I was wondering if you noticed that people who are not closely connected to paganism and/or not aware of energy manipulation are less affected by energy than others? I do believe that some people are just naturally soft to energy, but I do believe that there is a part of mental acceptance that is involved. I want you to mentally block his energy. Doctors would call this hypnosis, and others may call this PSI, but everyone can do it.
This is how it works. Close your eyes and visually put yourself in a powerful place, this could be an ancient library, standing atop the ocean, or even a volcano. Go somewhere that you think you could draw massive mental power. This helps you get into the mood, but it is not necessary. Now tell yourself that he is weak. "His power is weak." Repeat this aloud or in your head. Visualize a lever turning from on to off or a bird slowly sinking toward the ground, what ever makes you think of an end. Every time you tell him he is powerless in your mind that lever inches a little more or the bird sinks a little more. Eventually you will have turned off his power on you and ended it all.
This will weaken him. The more you do it, the weaker his powers will be over you. Along with this comes great faith, and if you can believe that you can really overcome, you will. I have faith in you, and you should too.
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Posted: Sun May 09, 2010 5:47 pm
Thanks, Zabazor. I wasn't really implying that people would give me insta-kill spells, that was more of a dark joke XD;
But i haven't thought of actually trying to block his energy, so to speak. I do need to practice at such things more, that's for sure. Not to mention i need to set up more protection around my room, as the old spells i had got worn off. e.e
Either way, thanks for your help. :3 I've been lookin around the library here and i think i can find the help i need now. Oy. One day it'll all end, i know, but getting there will be a long, long road..
Ahh well, hakuna matata.
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