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 Posted: Thu May 06, 2010 4:09 am
TMI warning.
Can you believe that everything I'm reading online makes me want to throw the ******** screen through the window and tear out my hair.
c**t - Hit or miss. Sometimes it works, sometimes it refuses. More often it seems to refuse. I sometimes can't orgasm even with toys.
G-Spot - Don't make me ******** laugh. Seriously. I once pissed myself on my ex when he hit my g-spot. Pissed all the ******** over him. (We'd been messing around for a while already I ******** told him i had to pee before sex. He didn't listen and I went along with it like a ******** tard) We though I squirted for a second until we caught the smell or urine. It feels great if I have to pee, but I piss myself. If I pee before hand, I feel nothing from it. N-O-T-H-I-N-G. No burning or discomfort. It's no different than poking me in the arm repeatedly, and about just as useful for getting me off.
Vaginal orgasm - lolnodoens't work, mostly because of G-Spot, somewhat because of the way my c**t lays. You practically have to smash yourself into me to touch it during sex, and it's not enough to stimulate much. Dildos do as much to get me off as the ******** jolly green giant does for stock prices rising.
All the s**t I'm reading are about ******** college girls who are with their first sexual partner, married women who have had 23489 kids and their uterus is deflated causing problems, or women who have no ******** idea how to masturbate.
All the self help s**t I'm reading is like "Learn to ******** you, you stupid ******** cunts. I've been masturbating since I was 13. I know how to do it. I know my ******** v****a inside and out, including what my cervix feels like and the fact that I've always had a tiny bump on the top of it, which I asked my gyno about and it's normal. So now what Miss "Just learn to masturbate and it goes from there!" internet retard gynocology b***h who think she's helping.
It makes Brandon feel bad. I've explained to him so many times it's just the way I'm built, but he still feels bad that I can't always enjoy it as much as him.
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Posted: Thu May 06, 2010 9:02 am
See I've never had a vaginal or g-spot orgasm either. I can get myself off but I never have during sex. -shrug-
My friend though has never had any sort of orgasm in her life. EVER. Maybe that's why she's so curt. sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu May 06, 2010 9:08 am
Teal Ambition!I've had them but they are very far and few between. Apparently our orgasms are supposed to be 2394234923 better than a dude's orgasms, but that's not fair when it's so hard to have them!
I find that trying different types of lubes and stuff have helped. thetealappeal
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Posted: Thu May 06, 2010 10:38 am
Is orgasming during sex rare or something for women?
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Posted: Thu May 06, 2010 10:53 am
For a lot of women, yes. Extremely rare. Some women can easily, some just absolutely cannot. I've never had one based on intercourse alone. I've never even come close to it.
And I really REALLY REALLY ******** hate people who are like "LOL U HAEVN'T FIOUND RIHT PURSUN YET olol *drool*" or guys who are like "I COULD DO IT LOLOL" It's been 13 ******** years and more than enough time and expirience to know it's not possible.
It can be really emotionally damaging. I was in tears about it this morning.
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Posted: Thu May 06, 2010 10:54 am
Uh...I wish I could help you here. I orgasm every time I masturbate and have every time I've had oral or fingering stuff done to me. I wish there was something I could suggest. Do you think maybe it isn't physical but is instead psychological? Something you should maybe talk with a sex therapist about? That's all I can think of.
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Posted: Thu May 06, 2010 11:08 am
I have no ******** clue. I can't really afford therepy. It's just never worked for me, though I will admit with bullets and s**t in the past it was easy, but even that I've been having difficulty with over the past few years.
It's like my sensitivity is decreasing with age. I'll be frigid at 35 at this ******** rate.
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Posted: Thu May 06, 2010 12:25 pm
I second Morde's thought. Maybe it's psychological.
What do you do to get you into the mood?
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Posted: Thu May 06, 2010 12:29 pm
For me (and a lot of women I think), I need direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm. I've never had vaginal sex but fingers do absolutely nothing. It feels good, but there isn't going to be any orgasm. (talking about fingering only, not touching me with fingers) I'm not sure I even believe in vaginal orgasms, I'm convinced they are just a result of indirect clitoral stimulation. I don't think its uncommon that many women can't orgasm from just p***s + v****a. I'd say just make sure he does manual or oral sex on you every time, if that works for you.
Disclaimer: this is just based on my body and my experience.
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Posted: Thu May 06, 2010 1:24 pm
Dee always gets upset because I can't orgasm from oral or fingering, most of the time. It's really really rare.
Even with clitoral stimulation.
I'm the only person that can get myself off. ;[
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Posted: Thu May 06, 2010 1:59 pm
I've only had one vaginal orgasm, and I think that was just because I was so intensively turned on. Other than that, I always need clitoral stimulation, without that, it's a snowballs chance in hell.
Could it be because of stress? Psychological like others have said. Do you take the whole situation as something where you have to perform according to certain measures to accomplish an orgasm. Like you know, you keep saying that it isn't a big thing, but subconsciously you keep telling yourself to have an orgasm, that it's something that should be happening.
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Posted: Thu May 06, 2010 4:46 pm
Sini X I've only had one vaginal orgasm, and I think that was just because I was so intensively turned on. Other than that, I always need clitoral stimulation, without that, it's a snowballs chance in hell.
Could it be because of stress? Psychological like others have said. Do you take the whole situation as something where you have to perform according to certain measures to accomplish an orgasm. Like you know, you keep saying that it isn't a big thing, but subconsciously you keep telling yourself to have an orgasm, that it's something that should be happening. I do get myself up on performance.
I also have about 45 million things running through my head at once. I have ADD so it's impossible to 'clear my mind' so to speak. I was thinking about that.
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Posted: Thu May 06, 2010 5:28 pm
Xiporah I also have about 45 million things running through my head at once. I have ADD so it's impossible to 'clear my mind' so to speak. I was thinking about that. THIS SO THIS. Xiporah And I really REALLY REALLY ******** hate people who are like "LOL U HAEVN'T FIOUND RIHT PURSUN YET olol *drool*" Oh god. I hate these people too. And the ones that say "UR NOT DOIN RITE". I have a really hard time as well. I know a lot of it is psychological trauma stemming from my last (and only) sexual relationship prior to Mario. But half the time, my body just seems to give up if it doesn't happen right away after I start getting turned on. confused
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Posted: Thu May 06, 2010 6:12 pm
What about oral + fingers? I'm going to assume that you've tried that but I thought I'd ask just in case since you didn't mention it.
It used to be really hard for me to orgasm (with someone else that is) until that. Somehow that made it easier for me to in other ways, but that's still the best way to do it for me. -shrug-
Does it at least feel good, even if you're not orgasming? Because when I can't orgasm, I don't actually mind all that much because it still feels ******** good. x3
ALSO I don't remember if you were one of the ones who said you'd done it before or if you thought it was gross, but in my experience the best sex is during your period because of the increased sensitivity.
I think it's hard for anyone to really give you advice though because all anyone has is personal experience, and obviously everyone is different. :c
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Posted: Thu May 06, 2010 6:29 pm
Clitoral pretty much covers oral. I meant any direct clitoral stimulation when I mentioned that ,so it covers rubbing, oral etc etc.
I've never really been a fan of fingering...it's not all that great for me. In fact when I am being fingered, I often want it to stop and go back to the c**t.
During sex, it feels good like a back rub or a foot rub feels good. SO yeah, it feels alright, just not OH GOD AHH
Also, Brandon is like...period phobic. He won't come near me on my p-rod.
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