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 Posted: Thu Apr 29, 2010 5:21 pm
I have been trying to get my best friend to talk to me but all she ever does is ignore me. I have no idea what I did to make her this mad.
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Posted: Mon May 03, 2010 7:10 am
maybe if you remember hard enough the day he or she started ignoring you and
you'll have a chance to
know what's making her mad
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Posted: Mon May 03, 2010 10:50 am
that has got to suck, it happened to me once, my best friend who i'd know since kindergarten just suddenly ignoring me, it's a horrible feeling, turns out a girl he was dating at the time hated and was plugging stuff into his head about me, these were all lies of course but he didn't want to lose her so he believed them, i eventualy resolved it when i convinced him to dump her because she was cheating on him with 4 guys ( i know wierd right? ) and i straightened him up. if this is in any way related to a girlfriend/boyfriend your friend has this could be the problem, but past that i really don't have any advice except for somehow find a way to force the person into talking to you. usually bump into the person at school or however you choose to do so
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Posted: Sun May 23, 2010 2:27 am
princess ai rules I have been trying to get my best friend to talk to me but all she ever does is ignore me. I have no idea what I did to make her this mad. Does your best friend have another friend that she is still talking to? Perhaps you could find out from that friend of your best friend what the issue is. Or perhaps someone else that your best friend may have confided in of any problem(s) she may have with you. If your best friend won't talk to you, then you must look for another source to get the information from. If you are still unsuccessful in determining what the problem is, then maybe you should consider what your relationship with your 'best friend' really is. Maybe she just needs a little time away from you for whatever reason. However if she is truly your friend she will let you know what the problem is. Friends talk things out. You are clearly trying to communicate with her. Give her a little time, and if she still won't talk to you after an extended amount of time then she isn't really your friend afterall. A true friend will talk it out and want you to know why she is mad at you when you clearly have no idea what it is that is bothering her. ninja
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Posted: Wed May 26, 2010 12:23 pm
My friends are driving me crazy. Can anyone help me?
Let's give my friends names, ok? "Sharon," "Grace," "Mari," and "Coral." Coral and Mari are totally different, okay? And it's like Sharon and Grace are sisters, they're hardly ever apart. I've been completely busy with my projects at home, so maybe I haven't spent as much time as I should have with all of them. I'll admit it, many times I consider Coral to be my BFF. However, they are all my friends and I want to end this fight.
Mari has been writing a musical lately. I won't say it's good... cuz I don't really think it is. I support her ideas wholly and I think she is very creative, but she really is getting obsessed with her play. She wants to perform it and post it on YouTube, so we've all been given parts--except for my friend, "Erin," who's on vacation for the beginning of the summer. All she ever does is think of her play. She calls herself by the name of her character in the play.
Coral is helping. She is designing the costume and the stage, while Mari writes the play. Meanwhile, the rest of us have been absorbed in our own projects and haven't been paying much attention to her play.
Now, Mari just won't stop talking abt it. I'm so sick of hearing the play's plot that most of the time I just don't hang around with her and Coral. Sharon and Grace follow this example, and most of the time we let them talk about the play while we discuss other things.
Since then, we have realized that Coral and Mari are our friends, and we should spend more time with them. We've told them we're fine with the play, but Mari's getting obsessed and it's getting a little scary. Sharon and Grace and I have tried to talk to them, but when they're talking abt the play, it's like we don't exist. They ignore us. I realize that Coral has done this to us before when she is absorbed in something, and it's not really her fault, and Mari is just...obsessed. However, both of them are my friends and I want to resolve this peacefully. I kind of wish that Erin were here, and not on vacation. She and I were always the peace-keepers. (And sometimes Sharon.)
I want to finish this without fighting. Help, plz!!!!
(Plz pm me if you have advice.)
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Posted: Sun Jul 04, 2010 5:04 am
Kleopatra Selene My friends are driving me crazy. Can anyone help me? Let's give my friends names, ok? "Sharon," "Grace," "Mari," and "Coral." Coral and Mari are totally different, okay? And it's like Sharon and Grace are sisters, they're hardly ever apart. I've been completely busy with my projects at home, so maybe I haven't spent as much time as I should have with all of them. I'll admit it, many times I consider Coral to be my BFF. However, they are all my friends and I want to end this fight. Mari has been writing a musical lately. I won't say it's good... cuz I don't really think it is. I support her ideas wholly and I think she is very creative, but she really is getting obsessed with her play. She wants to perform it and post it on YouTube, so we've all been given parts--except for my friend, "Erin," who's on vacation for the beginning of the summer. All she ever does is think of her play. She calls herself by the name of her character in the play. Coral is helping. She is designing the costume and the stage, while Mari writes the play. Meanwhile, the rest of us have been absorbed in our own projects and haven't been paying much attention to her play. Now, Mari just won't stop talking abt it. I'm so sick of hearing the play's plot that most of the time I just don't hang around with her and Coral. Sharon and Grace follow this example, and most of the time we let them talk about the play while we discuss other things. Since then, we have realized that Coral and Mari are our friends, and we should spend more time with them. We've told them we're fine with the play, but Mari's getting obsessed and it's getting a little scary. Sharon and Grace and I have tried to talk to them, but when they're talking abt the play, it's like we don't exist. They ignore us. I realize that Coral has done this to us before when she is absorbed in something, and it's not really her fault, and Mari is just...obsessed. However, both of them are my friends and I want to resolve this peacefully. I kind of wish that Erin were here, and not on vacation. She and I were always the peace-keepers. (And sometimes Sharon.) I want to finish this without fighting. Help, plz!!!! (Plz pm me if you have advice.) Wow, sounds like she is really getting into this play of hers. Like one of those people where they put their mind on something and they just keep on it and it becomes their primary focus of thought, or obsession. Depending on what that obsession is can make it a good thing or a bad thing. So she is wanting to make a very successful play, that seems a good thing. Much better than doing an obsession something like drugs or excessive gambling, heh. It sounds to me like you are trying to be a good friend and to be supportive of Mari. However, I think you'd be more supportive if you were honest with her about how you feel about it. (Find a way to make her to listen to you) Maybe tell her what it is about her play that you don't like, and what she could do to make it better, and more fun for all of you. If ur other friends are feeling the same way as you are, as it sounds like they are, then you may want to confront her as a group. You can be supportive of Mari, without crushing her dreams of having the perfect play. Hopefully she will appreciate that you guys care enough to try to help her make it better. If she sees it from your perspective she may realize something she couldn't see by herself. If you could all work together in creating the play, then you could make it so that each of you can have fun and enjoy your part in the show. Shows are a lot more fun and enjoyable to watch when the actors are having fun and enjoying what they are doing and able to really get into their character which they enjoy being and can get into it. If she is someone who doesn't handle criticism well, then you may want to not do what I just said unless the play gets so bad you can't stand it. I mean keep in mind that if you have an audience, even if tis only virtual like on facebook, youtube, etc. someone watching it will likley recognize you and you will be judged by your peers for your acting, the role you play, and the play in general will have a representation upon you whether you like it or not. If it gets to that point, then u will have these choices: 1)confront her with the truth and be prepared for the worst. 2)Just keep enduring and hating it. 3)Stop being around her/being friends with her (hopefully won't come to that) Have you tried contacting Erin? By phone or email, etc? If you could talk to Erin and ask her what she thinks, maybe she would be able to give you some advice too since she knows ur friend a lot better than I do. I hope that what I have said will be of some help to you, and I apologize for not getting to replying to you sooner, I've been terribly busy this past month and haven't had much time to do posting or come online at all for that matter. sweatdrop ---------------- Now playing: Nightwish - Wish I Had an Angelvia FoxyTunes
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Posted: Sun Jul 18, 2010 4:58 pm
Thanks. I will definitely try.
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