Welcome to Gaia! ::

The Teen Sex, Pregnancy and Puberty Guild

Back to Guilds

A guild for teenagers covering topics centering around teen sex, pregnancy, puberty, and other aspects of teen life. 

Tags: teens, puberty, sexuality, pregnancy, life issues 

Reply Sex Subforum
Open Relationships? Goto Page: 1 2 [>] [»|]

Quick Reply

Enter both words below, separated by a space:

Can't read the text? Click here

Submit

TheRealSSJGokuX4

PostPosted: Sat Apr 17, 2010 10:24 pm


Have you been in one or have been thinking about one? tell me your thoughts on this subject. ninja
PostPosted: Sat Apr 17, 2010 10:42 pm


Not sure what you mean by 'Open Relationships'. Do you mean, making a relationship with someone public?

Valgex


TheRealSSJGokuX4

PostPosted: Sat Apr 17, 2010 10:45 pm


no open relationships are when you and your partner have sex with others and are ok about it.
PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 9:38 am


I have never been in an open relationship. I discussed it with my current partner, but he is not interested.

I think open relationships are fine as long as both people are completely comfortable with the idea and are being very safe.

LorienLlewellyn

Quotable Informer


Nikolita
Captain

PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 9:52 am


LorienLlewellyn
I have never been in an open relationship. I discussed it with my current partner, but he is not interested.

I think open relationships are fine as long as both people are completely comfortable with the idea and are being very safe.



I haven't either. I'm not personally comfortable with being in one, as is my partner. I don't know if he's ever been in one either, I don't think he has, but I know he wouldn't be ok with me being in one if we were together.

I'm ok with the idea too, as long as both people involved are ok with the idea and are being safe. I don't quite understand it, but I'm not against the idea of open relationships.
PostPosted: Tue Apr 20, 2010 12:09 am


I could only handle it if I had hardly any emotional attachment to my partner. Otherwise, I would get too jealous.

!namorata


IceTrey47

Dangerous Sex Symbol

PostPosted: Tue Apr 20, 2010 3:02 pm


Personally I think it's a terrible idea. In my opinion there's no such thing really as an open relationship, I call it 'being single and wanting to have sex with a bunch of people'. I have a friend right now though and she's going out with two guys and a girl. She enjoys it but I really doubt it'll turn into anything serious with any of them. It's long term relationship suicide and in my opinion simply a waste of time.
PostPosted: Tue Apr 20, 2010 3:50 pm


IceTrey47
In my opinion there's no such thing really as an open relationship, I call it 'being single and wanting to have sex with a bunch of people'.

An open relationship is not the same as being single and sleeping with people. People in an open relationship are emotionally committed to one person. They have the freedom to fool around sexually with other people, but they only actually love their partner.

IceTrey47
I have a friend right now though and she's going out with two guys and a girl.

If your friend is dating two guys and a girl, that doesn't necessarily mean she's in an open relationship.

Most people in open relationships only say they are dating one person; they only call that one person their boyfriend or girlfriend. Everyone else is usually a "one night stand", "just a friend", or something else casual.

When a group of people are all in a relationship together, that is something different. That is called polyamory. Some people have open polyamorous relationships, but not all do. Some polyamorous people are both physically and emotionally committed to the people in their relationship and do not fool around with anyone outside the relationship.

There are also relationships where a man is a completely faithful to a woman, but the woman can have as many sexual partners as she wants. That is called cuckolding.

And those are just a few simplified examples of the different types of relationships that people can have.
IceTrey47
She enjoys it but I really doubt it'll turn into anything serious with any of them. It's long term relationship suicide and in my opinion simply a waste of time.

There are many different people and many different relationships. Just because something doesn't interest you, that doesn't make it wrong, bad, or a waste of time. If your friend is happy, healthy, and consenting and everyone else in the relationship is happy, healthy, and consenting, then you should be supportive.

LorienLlewellyn

Quotable Informer


TheRealSSJGokuX4

PostPosted: Tue Apr 20, 2010 5:00 pm


So how do you 2 feel on this Lorien and Nikolita? like your own personal views? Im not getting into one Im just curious about the idea.
PostPosted: Tue Apr 20, 2010 6:15 pm


Kevin Holmes
So how do you 2 feel on this Lorien and Nikolita? like your own personal views? Im not getting into one Im just curious about the idea.

I already posted my opinion. I think open relationships are just another type of relationship that work for some people but not for others. I think they can be fine and healthy as long as everyone is safe, comfortable, and consenting. Not really sure what else to say. It's a fairly broad topic. Do you have a more specific question about open relationships that you want to ask?

LorienLlewellyn

Quotable Informer


TheRealSSJGokuX4

PostPosted: Tue Apr 20, 2010 6:37 pm


ok let me rephrase So you would be ok with your partner/bf having sex with others?
PostPosted: Tue Apr 20, 2010 6:50 pm


I am more into cuckolding. But I would consider an open relationship.

LorienLlewellyn

Quotable Informer


TheRealSSJGokuX4

PostPosted: Tue Apr 20, 2010 7:12 pm


LorienLlewellyn
I am more into cuckolding. But I would consider an open relationship.

so does your current partner let you do that?
PostPosted: Tue Apr 20, 2010 8:47 pm


Kevin Holmes

so does your current partner let you do that?

No. He has no interest in cuckolding, open relationships, polyamory, or anything else other than monogamy!

LorienLlewellyn

Quotable Informer


!namorata

PostPosted: Tue Apr 20, 2010 9:30 pm


LorienLlewellyn
I am more into cuckolding. But I would consider an open relationship.
Me too. Probably because then I could have as much sex as I wanted and not have the fear of being jealous of other women. >_>
Reply
Sex Subforum

Goto Page: 1 2 [>] [»|]
 
Manage Your Items
Other Stuff
Get GCash
Offers
Get Items
More Items
Where Everyone Hangs Out
Other Community Areas
Virtual Spaces
Fun Stuff
Gaia's Games
Mini-Games
Play with GCash
Play with Platinum