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Rawry The Kid

PostPosted: Sat Apr 17, 2010 7:51 pm


Im 18 year's old and i still cant figure out my own damn problem.

I used to have sex quite alot when i was a 16 (And carried on into 17), but not because i liked it. With the women i dated, it was almost expected of me, therefore i "put out". But in all honesty i hate having sex. Doesnt matter who it's with, or what gender they are, i just plain hate it all around. It could be cause i've never honestly orgasmed before, or maybe because of that, i end up WAY to tired after about 2 hours....Or possibly even the friction burn i end up getting afterward.

Basically what i wanna know is....What the hell IS my sexual orientation, if i dont wanna do it with anyone? I've been scratching my head over it for awhile.
PostPosted: Sat Apr 17, 2010 8:13 pm


If you are not sexually interested in anyone and are not interested in any sexual activities, then I would call you asexual. If you're interested in learning more about different sexualities, look into Fluid.

However, if you are sexually attracted to people and are interested in sexual activities other than intercourse, that's different. In that case I would say you're a guy who just doesn't like intercourse.

Most guys like intercourse, but not all do. Same goes for oral sex. It's ok if you don't like every sexual activity. And of course it's possible that you would like it with different people or in a different situation (if you did orgasm, if you didn't get tired, if you didn't get friction burn, etc.)

LorienLlewellyn

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Asher2501

PostPosted: Sat Apr 17, 2010 9:31 pm


Friction burn? O_o Oh my, oh my, you needs sum KY. >>;
PostPosted: Sat Apr 17, 2010 9:35 pm


If you don't experience a desire to have any sort of partnered sex or sexual attraction, then you may fall under the asexuality umbrella. AVEN's site may help answer your questions.

Like someone else said, though, it may simply be that you don't like that act. Worth a little soul-searching and experimentation (if you are comfortable), IMO.

GLBT


Rawry The Kid

PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 6:26 pm


Thank you, i appreciate all of the advice and supportive answer's. I suppose you could say i just dont enjoy the act (No matter what it may be).
PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 8:04 pm


It might help you to talk to self-identified asexuals. There's a guild on Gaia, and I hear AVEN's forums are filled with wonderful people. There is an asexuality support thread but I've lost track of it. D: Best of luck, mate.

GLBT

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