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 Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 2:10 pm
 Siri finally got a mother-truckin' Gogh Reed... So, I generally don't get along with girls. And I've always had more friends that were guys. I'm the kind of girl who picks up snakes and steps on spiders instead of screaming. But, I've never had a boyfriend either.
Is it because I act more like a boy? And how do I make them notice me more without changing myself completely?
Does anyone have stories about adventures with guy friends you'd like to share? ...Thanks to your help.
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Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 2:19 pm
Siri finally got a mother-truckin' Gogh Reed... So, does anyone else have this problem? ...Thanks to your help.
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Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 2:24 pm
i know where your coming from. being one of the guys has its goods and its bads
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Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 2:26 pm
Siri finally got a mother-truckin' Gogh Reed... Yeah. It can really suck. ...Thanks to your help.
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Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 2:29 pm
realy. its kinda fun you can hang out with guys and joke with them. but it sucks when they see you as a "guy" friend. you almost want to scream 'im a girl and i want a flipen boyfriend'
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Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 2:31 pm
Siri finally got a mother-truckin' Gogh Reed... Yeah. It's great that they feel comfortable with me. And they don't care about watching what they say. But I don't want to be looked at like a guy. ...Thanks to your help.
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Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 2:34 pm
I act like one of the guys and I get along with loads, but I hang out with mostly girls. I do have a boyfriend but that's because I don't hang with guys. To get a boyfriend when hanging with guys is just to act like a girl sometimes, doesnt mean change your clothes or wear makeup, just means don't always be "one of the guys." I dont wear girly clothes or makeup and I do most things like a guy so I dont know how I got a bf but if it worked for me, so it can work for you too. Just stick it out and see what happens.
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Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 2:35 pm
yeah sometime their 'honesty' kinda hits you hard on the heart. im one of those girls that hang out with mostly guys and joke with them and junk so one of the jokes sence in a big group of guy im the only girl is the flirt game. ill pretend to flirt and act like a girlygirl.but that makes it hard for hem to tell if im realy flirting.
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Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 2:36 pm
Siri finally got a mother-truckin' Gogh Reed... @ Born: Well, thank you very much for that advice. : 3
And I hope you and your boyfriend have a long and happy life together. ...Thanks to your help.
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Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 2:38 pm
LibraryFairy11 yeah sometime their 'honesty' kinda hits you hard on the heart. im one of those girls that hang out with mostly guys and joke with them and junk so one of the jokes sence in a big group of guy im the only girl is the flirt game. ill pretend to flirt and act like a girlygirl.but that makes it hard for hem to tell if im realy flirting. Siri finally got a mother-truckin' Gogh Reed... Yeah. They think you don't mind when they're honest, and sometimes it really hurts.
I know how it is. I try to flirt, but I don't think they see it like that. They just see it as me, acting like me. ...Thanks to your help.
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Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 2:39 pm
Your welcome and I hope you find yourself a boyfriend who will treat you with the uttermost respect and stay with you for a very long happy life. biggrin
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Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 2:41 pm
ive got a quetion sence your friend count you as one of the guys.
this boy who ant realy in my group started to hang with usand the other day i was picking up trash and he whistled and told me i had a nice but. some of my friends joke and say things like that but when he said it it ticked me off.was he just acting like us or was he being a jerk or what?
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Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 2:42 pm
i think its awesome being one of the guys
i am one of the guys mostly cuz i like the fact that guys are not so dramtically full of drama
they go with the flow and are chill.
i think maybe your closest guy friend is waiting for the opportune moment to ask you out
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maybe since you hang out with so many guys they think you already have one?
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Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 2:42 pm
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☞ This boy-going-for-the-BF situation happened to a close friend of mine 5 times, and she got pretty frustrated. But she continued looking up, and found a boy who loves her. I myself am a bit of a girly girl, but, believe me, this can have it's cons as well. Just be yourself, and keep your love-options open. ☜
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Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 2:44 pm
Siri finally got a mother-truckin' Gogh Reed... @ Born: Thank you. :3
@ Fairy: Um, I don't really know what his intentions were, but he really shouldn't say things like that if he doesn't know you well. But then again maybe he does like you. As far as I can tell, guys don't really like coming straight out and saying they like a girl. Sometimes they act like a jerk. ...Thanks to your help.
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