Welcome to Gaia! ::

United Therian Alliance

Back to Guilds

A guild for therians to hang out and discuss therianthropy. 

Tags: Therianthropy, Otherkin, Spirituality, Therian, Werekin 

Reply Therian Discussion
loss of control? Goto Page: 1 2 [>] [»|]

Quick Reply

Enter both words below, separated by a space:

Can't read the text? Click here

Submit

someone jerk purposly bumps into you, you then...
  just shrug it off "it must have been an accident"
  shove them back
  just wither away
  yell "WHAT THE !@#$%%^*%&*#$%u& IS YOUR PROBLEM!
  ignore it
  smack/punch them in the face
  beat the living @#$%$T^#$@% out of them
  smile and say "how are you today!!!"
  plot your revenge over time
  let the beast take over
View Results

Fenrisia
Crew

PostPosted: Fri Apr 09, 2010 11:41 pm


i was just wondering if other therians had temper issues or, i dunno, ever had the feeling where you were about to lose control?
PostPosted: Sun Apr 11, 2010 6:52 am


I'm very even tempered, to the point where a friend has made it her life goal to see me properly mad.

I do however get rather hostile with people, generally over little thing like them not being a close friend and sitting with us in what I class as our territory. Although I suppress the urge to growl at them.

There was an amusing incident after we'd had jabs when I spent an entire maths lesson hissing at my friend every time she got too close to my arm. I didn't even realise I was doing it till she pointed it out.

Skysong the dragon

Distinct Businesswoman

9,950 Points
  • Alchemy Level 10 100
  • Tycoon 200
  • Marathon 300

Fenrisia
Crew

PostPosted: Sun Apr 11, 2010 2:00 pm


i am also very mellow most of the time...with the occasional things to get me excited or mad
i am totally with you about the whole people getting to close thing. i get quite edgy if someone that i dont really approve of gets a little too close.

though only times ive really growled was when seeing someone i REALLY hate or seeing something i strongly disagree with (most of which i manage to suppress as well unless its at home or something). i also snarl when im EXTREAMLY p***ed off or am under extreme physical tension/pain or some sort...but i need to work a little on suppressing those as well neutral

were you embarressed when your friend pointed that out, bout the hissing lol?
PostPosted: Sun Apr 11, 2010 2:16 pm


Not really. Most of the year were giving people evil glares when they got too close so it didn't really stand out to much that day. A bit odd but not overly, plus she's a friend and just found it amusing rather than wierd.

Skysong the dragon

Distinct Businesswoman

9,950 Points
  • Alchemy Level 10 100
  • Tycoon 200
  • Marathon 300

Fumeiyo-chan Norzaar
Captain

7,250 Points
  • Team Jacob 100
  • Generous 100
  • Forum Sophomore 300
PostPosted: Sun Apr 11, 2010 4:06 pm


I show my teeth to people I dislike or have problems with. So if someone purposely bumps into me, they get what looks like an evil grin, which is actually a warning stating: "You touch me again and I will deconstruct you."

When I was younger, when people would bother me (for example, the group of boys that followed me home throwing rocks and sticks and rolled up newspapers at me) they'd get growled at, barked at, and chased. Rarely did they ever attempt to mess with me again, most likely because I had the reputation of being completely off my rocker.

So yes, I guess you could say I have a bit of a temper when it comes to my personal space and territory.
PostPosted: Sun Apr 11, 2010 9:38 pm


Fumeiyo-chan
I show my teeth to people I dislike or have problems with. So if someone purposely bumps into me, they get what looks like an evil grin, which is actually a warning stating: "You touch me again and I will deconstruct you."

When I was younger, when people would bother me (for example, the group of boys that followed me home throwing rocks and sticks and rolled up newspapers at me) they'd get growled at, barked at, and chased. Rarely did they ever attempt to mess with me again, most likely because I had the reputation of being completely off my rocker.

So yes, I guess you could say I have a bit of a temper when it comes to my personal space and territory.


hahahah nice! that is a very good way to respond to some jerk xd
i would hav probably gave him a glare (which ppl say makes you die on the inside and/or is the look of death lol) and done other thinbgs depending on my mood...popably swear at him a bit too

but why on earth would thos nasty children throw stuff at you?!

Fenrisia
Crew


RockstarRaccoon
Vice Captain

PostPosted: Sun Apr 11, 2010 10:06 pm


GASP! A topic which I haven't said something rudely dismissive to! This must be remedied.
Fenrisia
i was just wondering if other therians had temper issues or, i dunno, ever had the feeling where you were about to lose control?

No, you just need better self control. That has nothing to do with being a therian, only needing to mature.
PostPosted: Mon Apr 12, 2010 11:56 am


I have an extreme phobia of being touched, so i tend to avoid poeple most of the time.

L the strawberry lover
Vice Captain


Fumeiyo-chan Norzaar
Captain

7,250 Points
  • Team Jacob 100
  • Generous 100
  • Forum Sophomore 300
PostPosted: Mon Apr 12, 2010 12:25 pm


They threw stuff at me because they thought it was funny, I guess. I come from a small town, and at the time I was the only goth/scene girl around. Ah, middle school, how I absolutely do not miss your petty, pre-adolescent drama and angst. I at one time could go on for hours about those irritating, bleeding rectal warts masquerading as children that I went to school with, but why continue to hold a grudge? That was years and years ago. Just remember: what goes around comes around.

I don't like being touched either, L. Especially my hair, which for some reason is what people tend to go for. If I don't know you well, do not presume to pet me, even if I AM having a fluffy day.

There is nothing wrong with getting angry when some retard goes out of his or her way to try to piss you off. It is what you do about it that matters.
PostPosted: Thu Apr 22, 2010 8:34 pm


I too, extremely hate being touched, or even near people if I don't know or like them.
Someone in particular, whom I am not fond of, oft' tries to hug me, and it's the most disgusting thing to me, I do whatever it takes to get away...it doesn't end well I'm afraid.

However if I do like the person, I don't mind being touched at all, and I'm really affectionate.

Emii Cat


Catharia

PostPosted: Thu Apr 22, 2010 11:28 pm


I tend to growl, hiss and snap (with words ;P) if I'm angry enough, but usually I'm quite a calm person, especially if I know the person beginning to irritate me is doing it to get a rise out of me. I'm told I'm very scary when properly angry, but that's probably just due to the infrequency of true anger.

I bare my teeth at people (makes me wish my canines were more impressive), but they think it's a strange smile. I had to explain to a lecturer the other day that when a chimpanzee or baboon smiles at you, it's not happy, it wants to tear your throat out. With it's teeth.

I'm not overtly fond of touching from people I don't know very well. This didn't apply to a certain celebrity though...which I found a bit unusual.
I'm not good with people invading my personal space either, I have boundary issues.
PostPosted: Sun Apr 25, 2010 10:04 pm


I'm going to say it again: I've never heard any long time members of the therian community relating self-control issues to therianthropy, and I've never seen any real link myself. I think if you have control issues then that's your problem as an individual and you should work on it.
L the strawberry lover
I have an extreme phobia of being touched, so i tend to avoid poeple most of the time.

And.. Are you doing anything to fix this?

RockstarRaccoon
Vice Captain


L the strawberry lover
Vice Captain

PostPosted: Mon Apr 26, 2010 6:43 pm


RockstarRaccoon
I'm going to say it again: I've never heard any long time members of the therian community relating self-control issues to therianthropy, and I've never seen any real link myself. I think if you have control issues then that's your problem as an individual and you should work on it.
L the strawberry lover
I have an extreme phobia of being touched, so i tend to avoid poeple most of the time.

And.. Are you doing anything to fix this?


I am trying to overcome it. Its hard though. When I am touched it feels like I am being burned. Its gettign a little easier, I don't freak out on people anymore, I internalize my pain now for the most part, but it still hurts. I've only ever met 2 people who didn't hurt to be touched by in my life.
PostPosted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 6:07 am


i have lost control over myself and beat the crap out of people but the normal reason for me loseing control is when someone attacks me and i am losing or it's the numbers game(5vs1 i am going to have blood all over me but hey look so are you and it's not all mine). twisted but also me blacking out and attacking people and seeming like an animal has ben labeled sensory inregration. it means either your senses are genetically amplified or dulled and when certain triggers happen you lose control. so i don't know if it's what i am or if it's actually the disorder.

devilsace


devilsace

PostPosted: Tue Apr 27, 2010 6:13 am


RockstarRaccoon
GASP! A topic which I haven't said something rudely dismissive to! This must be remedied.
Fenrisia
i was just wondering if other therians had temper issues or, i dunno, ever had the feeling where you were about to lose control?

No, you just need better self control. That has nothing to do with being a therian, only needing to mature.


i could see certain types of therians being more aggressive or easier to anger like a bull therian. but at the same note i would be half tempted to get a red blanket and yell toro toro in front of them.
Reply
Therian Discussion

Goto Page: 1 2 [>] [»|]
 
Manage Your Items
Other Stuff
Get GCash
Offers
Get Items
More Items
Where Everyone Hangs Out
Other Community Areas
Virtual Spaces
Fun Stuff
Gaia's Games
Mini-Games
Play with GCash
Play with Platinum