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 Posted: Sat Apr 03, 2010 11:32 am
So for those of you who are out to atleast one person utside of Gaia (hopefully most of you are) I want to know how was coming out for you? How long ago and to whom? Technically I've been out for three and half years and I came out to my best friend Katie. It started with her asking me if I had a crush on her because I was always around and I used to play with her hair. I told her that it was just a phase I was going through and she told me that she didnt' think so. We droped the subject and never spoke of it again. It wasn't until a year later that I came out to everyone else in my sophmore year of high school. It was two and half years ago on October 4, 2007.
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Posted: Wed Apr 07, 2010 2:27 pm
let's see... the first time i came out to ANYONE was eighth grade, so almost three years now, i guess. like, not everyone knows, but most people who actually know me (not just a lil "hey" in the hallway) know. i remember lots of "saw that coming"s but also a lot of those "wtf?!" faces, followed by, "eh, makes sense" and whatnot.
then i remember my parents. now THAT was terrible. but my favorite was my female cousin's. "see, i wasn't sure, and you're brother and i were talking about it, so i told him i would just ask you the next time i saw you." gotta love the bluntness of the younger generations of my fam. (younger than my uncles, that is. she's five years older than me)
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Posted: Sat Apr 17, 2010 5:55 pm
Lets see...the first time i came out i was unaware that i was coming out...i was in first grade, and there was this fine boy named Paris MacDonald, who i just wanted to kiss...but then, I was raised on the factor of boys kissing girls, so I thought that I had did something wrong....so I did what any sensible (maybe insensible) 1st grader would have done...I told my teacher. She immediately called my dad, and lets just say he had me uprooted from that school a week later. I had to reconfirm who I was with my dad my freshman year in high school. But in the end, he got over it...though he is under the implications that im bi because i do not act "stereotypically" gay, (i think my dad is just lost sadly).lol. My mom on the other hand, wouldnt stop asking me questions, she was UBER excited about it. My dad is my dad though, I just think its because Im gay and his first child that he was so reluctant.
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Posted: Sat Apr 17, 2010 8:10 pm
The first time I came out to anyone was in the summer after 6th grade, umm... roughly 2 years from this coming summer, so in June/July 2008. I told it to my 2 bffs at the time. Garrett(Snowball96) was like, 'wtf'. Cassie just said, cool. She is transexual at the moment. =)
It was until February 2009 that I came out to a LOT of people. They still love me. =3 I am so happy that I have many friends that love me for me, even if I am bi. =) One of my guy friends gets a kick out of it because 2 of my girl friends are bi. X3 Ya gotta love my crew. biggrin
My parents know something about my sexuality but they don't know the truth.
EDIT: My mom once asked me if I was lesbian because of the way I dress in just jeans and a t-shirt. rofl
EDIT #2 on November 27th, 2010: I came out to my parents about a month ago after I said I did not want to go to church anymore because of the homophobic priest. My mom said that what ever the priest said was true. I started crying and I ran to my room.
Later, my dad walked in and asked me if I liked girls AND guys. I said yes. And then he proceeded in his father-daughter love speeches and said he will always love me because I am still his daughter and I will be/am the same person as before. 3nodding So touching.
My mom, well, I would say she acts like she doesn't care. ^__^
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Posted: Tue Apr 20, 2010 3:04 pm
the first time i told my mom that i'm bi, we were pulling out of the parkiing lot of a grocery store... she could tell something was bugging me, and i wanted to tell her i'm bi, so i just came out and said, "Mother, I'm bisexual." she just sat there and looked at me for awhile... it was awkward!!! then she said, "Well, i thought u were gonna tell me u were pregnant!!!" we laughed and went home... i'm glad i have an understanding mom!! 4laugh heart
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Posted: Mon Jun 28, 2010 10:27 pm
I only remember the people it may affect
My dad : He was all like he figured it when I bought this hat and did a project on gay ppl but my sis luckie told him... he just said he had to love me anyway
Luckie (my sis) : Said she didn't know where Id go when I died (obviously she AlOT older than me)
My step mom : Said I didnt have a choice cause most of my family was gay
MY MOM, 3 COUSINS, OTHER SISTER, AUNT, AND GOD FAMILY : YAY ME 2
My Grandma : Said I know the lord and he will deliver me... I was brought up a christian so one day I will return, the rest of my family like me will come to christ again
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Posted: Tue Jun 29, 2010 6:15 pm
hmm i think two years ago im in 10th now (when school starts) when i was in 8th there was this cute 7th grade skater boy who i couldnt sit next to without fidgiting (he was in all my classes which was fun) and well 1 day at lunch we had to eat in our classrooms and ofcourse he was in there n i decicided to say i was bi, and a couple other kids asked me who i liked in the class the went around and started naming other boys and when they came to his name i was drinking my chocolate milk and i blushed n the boy i liked was like, "OOH My gosh a guy guy likes me!" im like, "well fawk that was a waste of 15 mins." yea
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Posted: Tue Jun 29, 2010 7:30 pm
It was weird for me to say that i was bi cause i was brought up to believe that there was no such thing. Only my friends know about it though. no way am i ever telling my family. they'd put me in years of therapy. =( but i'm glad that my friends know. it was around this time last year
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Posted: Thu Jul 01, 2010 6:53 pm
Cloud_Murasama hmm i think two years ago im in 10th now (when school starts) when i was in 8th there was this cute 7th grade skater boy who i couldnt sit next to without fidgiting (he was in all my classes which was fun) and well 1 day at lunch we had to eat in our classrooms and ofcourse he was in there n i decicided to say i was bi, and a couple other kids asked me who i liked in the class the went around and started naming other boys and when they came to his name i was drinking my chocolate milk and i blushed n the boy i liked was like, "OOH My gosh a guy guy likes me!" im like, "well fawk that was a waste of 15 mins." yea LAwl
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Posted: Thu Jul 01, 2010 7:01 pm
Well, I remember it was snowing in the eighth grade and I was doing group work with this guy I liked at the time, it was french class. I suck at french... So I leaned over and asked "How do I say 'I think you're really good looking' in french?" and his eyes flew opened and he said "YOU'RE GAY?" loudly and my two best friends flew around and no one else heard. I like whispered; "Well, technically I'm bisexual..." and he started laughing and started teasing me by rubbing my leg under the desk and whispering "You like that, eh?" at which I ended up slapping him in the head with a binder because this other guy I liked turned around. My friends where happy/angry because they figured but I never told them. I got detention for beating him with a binder (which I got out of with the "Good kid" routine...) ^^
Good times <3
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Posted: Sun Jul 04, 2010 10:51 pm
Hmm, everyone I know was all like, yeaa.
My friend who is like a brother to me said he wasnt suprised.
My girlfriend was extatic about itt... she likes being able to talk about guys with me.
But I havent told my family yet, i dont know how to do that,, it was hard enough telling my family Dx
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Posted: Sun Jul 04, 2010 10:58 pm
I actually came out to my friend... this is how the conversation went about. (Playing Left 4 Dead)
"So dude I-Hunter on your left."
"Thank you. You were saying?"
"What if I-zombie on your tail."
"b*****d. Continue-s**t, I shot the gas can."
"Eh, I have a Molotov. Any way so what if I Goddamn it, there's a ********, I'm down... well, now that I'm dead, you may proceed."
"So, what if I-"
"Horde."
"I'm bi."
"What?! Oh s**t! I died again."
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Heavy_m3tal_hippy Vice Captain
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Posted: Mon Jul 05, 2010 3:02 pm
Well, my closest friends knew for a while. There was no problem there.
When I came out to my mom it was by complete accident [because I'm stupid like that] and I asked her a question about gay people [it was a few years ago so I can't remember what it was] and she said "Why do you want to know? Are you gay?" and I meant to say "no" just because I was scared to tell her, and stupid me said "yea..." instead. She started crying so I was like "Oh crap!" but then she sat me down and talked to me and said that she was glad that I told her and she gave the whole "You're my daughter, I'll love you no matter what" lecture...
The problem was with my dad... He had a problem with it... and he would never say it to my face... he always said something to my brothers or my sister... who would go tell me about it... and I've "talked" with my dad a million times over it, and he always denies it... he still does... but it's been a while, and he pretty much seems to have forgotten about it, because he doesn't want to fight anymore...
So I guess I'm kind of lucky it went semi-smoothly...
I still don't EVER talk to my mom about relationship issues though... That's just way too awkward...
Her boyfriend knows too because she told him, which made me mad, but he just embarrases me with it... he's always like "Let's go out and find you a nice girlfriend!"
Urg. Adults are so annoying! XD
Update: Me and my dad are cool now. :]
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Posted: Mon Jul 05, 2010 9:05 pm
My partner and I were fored out of the closet due to anote and before I knew it I had a gun pointed at my head thats when everone found out.
the first person to ever find out was my german teacher.
my dad figured me out and after a small bit of crying on my part he said he accepted me.
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Posted: Mon Jul 05, 2010 9:37 pm
My mom said "I know your gay" and my dad told me I was grounded untill I stopped the "Bull sh!t" so I spend most of my time as a teen stuck in my room.
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