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 Posted: Thu Dec 29, 2005 12:07 am
My Name is Jonathan I am 15 and Have a New Born Baby Girl. I have given Carolina everything i could of ask in that age and have enought finacial help to support her and her mother and my lover.
But i am afraid for Carolina future cause how would people think of her as when her parents are younger than her friends or how would we expect her not to follow the same paths as her parents.
I am lvin now with two looks torward me. Half of the people see me with the joy i have with home and the other half see me disgrace.
I am asking some counciling cause the one that are i my town dont help as much.
~Jonathan
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Posted: Thu Dec 29, 2005 12:01 pm
While I admit yours is a situation that I would reccomend avoiding, I do not think it is fair for people to look down on you or judge you for having a child at a young age. It is good that you have financial support, since children (especially the first) are expensive. I don't know everyone you know, but in general I would think that after enough time when you are able to prove to everyone that you are a responsible and caring parent people will not judge you so harshly - or at least they should not. Everyone in this guild is here to support one another. That is what the guild is for, so consider us friends.
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Posted: Thu Dec 29, 2005 12:43 pm
Thx im afraid that due to having a child i might fluink school or not go to college so yeah my life is pretty hard but thx for the support
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Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2006 5:35 pm
It's hard to have a child at any age. But the best thing that you can do is love her.
If you have specific questions we'd be happy to help. Welcome to the guild and please make an introductin in the sticky ( http://www.gaiaonline.com/guilds/viewtopic.php?t=1478958 ) as well. Thankies heart
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Posted: Wed Jan 04, 2006 9:53 pm
Is all girls like this or are they quiet like my little gal she just ad normal o0
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Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 5:13 pm
Are all little girls like what? You have to remember that we've never met your little girl so we don't know exactly what she's like.
My daughter who is now two. Is definely all girl--she like having her hair done, she likes jewelery, and shoes and such. She's very good natured, and will often say please and thank you.
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Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 6:11 pm
Ok mine is 5 month and almost 6 and she never cried once only when she bump her head or something i ask other people and they say girls are the loudest. She dont even cried when she poop or something o0
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Posted: Fri Jan 06, 2006 8:02 pm
Ive never heard before that girls cry the loudest, but Ive never had a boy either. Just a little girl that is almost 12 months. But I would say assumptions like that are usually not true. Every baby and every situation is different. Sounds like you are quite lucky though. Enjoy it while it lasts. My little girl has truly found her voice and screams something awful at times! Usually when she is in trouble or doesnt get her way though, I fear we are in trouble as we approach the ever feared second birthday! eek gonk
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Posted: Sat Jan 07, 2006 12:46 am
Pinkee Ive never heard before that girls cry the loudest, but Ive never had a boy either. Just a little girl that is almost 12 months. But I would say assumptions like that are usually not true. Every baby and every situation is different. Sounds like you are quite lucky though. Enjoy it while it lasts. My little girl has truly found her voice and screams something awful at times! Usually when she is in trouble or doesnt get her way though, I fear we are in trouble as we approach the ever feared second birthday! eek gonk Wow thx for the info well my little girl is still quit she just eat and sleep and i been readin to her even if she dont understand......
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Posted: Sat Jan 07, 2006 3:59 pm
[ Message temporarily off-line ]
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Posted: Sun Jan 08, 2006 2:29 am
Well i am doing ok in highschool at the moment and i got all the money i need from family and friends but i am afraid that i leave her to long if i go to college or away cause before she came i was thinking of joining the army.
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Posted: Sun Jan 08, 2006 12:40 pm
KaziJJ Well i am doing ok in highschool at the moment and i got all the money i need from family and friends but i am afraid that i leave her to long if i go to college or away cause before she came i was thinking of joining the army.
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Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2006 4:06 pm
Yeah well thats if i get a scholarship >.< i am honor role but yeah i cant afford college at the moment >.<
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Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2006 7:01 pm
KaziJJ Yeah well thats if i get a scholarship >.< i am honor role but yeah i cant afford college at the moment >.<
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Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 2:49 pm
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