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CK Undercover

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 06, 2010 10:16 pm


i'v never been molested or raped but iv been stalked alot and iv just have questions but iv never know if i should ask them or not. iv also wanted to know peoples stories just in case but iv always been scared to ask confused
PostPosted: Sat Mar 06, 2010 10:18 pm


if you have questions ask them, there are alot of people here who can give you answers you are looking for.

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 06, 2010 10:23 pm


Yes. Feel free to ask even if you think you'll sound stupid. You may to some, but there's usually at least 1 person who can relate to you or answer it (or both).
PostPosted: Sat Mar 06, 2010 11:05 pm


thers no stupid questions

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 06, 2010 11:08 pm


Exactly what I'm saying only in a different way. There's no such thing as a stupid question. Just people who don't like the sound of certain questions.
PostPosted: Sat Mar 06, 2010 11:50 pm


ok 1st my friend was raped and shes quiet she dosent talk to anyone she dosent hang out with anyone and shes was a great friend and i was wondering if anyone would have suggestions to get her to talk to people again

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iiKimmy

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PostPosted: Sun Mar 07, 2010 8:08 am


Casey_Face13
ok 1st my friend was raped and shes quiet she dosent talk to anyone she dosent hang out with anyone and shes was a great friend and i was wondering if anyone would have suggestions to get her to talk to people again

idk if this might help but walk up to her and give her a hug. Tell her you understand what has happened and you and your friends are there for her no matter what. Try to make her feel like no matter what happened to her you're still there for her
PostPosted: Sun Mar 07, 2010 8:19 am


i think you should ask if you really
wanna know.
and as for my story if you wanna know
PM me or something.i rather not say it
completly outloud again.

emo skater__gurl2114


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 07, 2010 3:59 pm


Just ask.
But please stay sensitive to people's feelings...
I wouldn't mind telling you anything that has do with the rape,
As long as you ask sincerely.
C:
PostPosted: Sun Mar 07, 2010 4:03 pm


iiKimmy
Casey_Face13
ok 1st my friend was raped and shes quiet she dosent talk to anyone she dosent hang out with anyone and shes was a great friend and i was wondering if anyone would have suggestions to get her to talk to people again

idk if this might help but walk up to her and give her a hug. Tell her you understand what has happened and you and your friends are there for her no matter what. Try to make her feel like no matter what happened to her you're still there for her

That's a very good idea. Let her know that you're there. Don't pressure her, though. She has to recover at her own pace.

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Kiss me im lrish
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 08, 2010 12:51 am


I'll do the best to my ability to answer your questions.
Don't worry about people flaming you, if it comes to that I'll check with the owner and see if I can delete there meaningless post.
Let it rip.
PostPosted: Sat Mar 13, 2010 6:45 am


I have a question too. If you've been hurt, and after a while it's haunting you and people keep talking about it indirectly and it's effecting you worse, is therapy the right thing to handle it? I really think I need some therapy even though I was sexually attacked, molested, and near raped 5 months ago. It's getting worse and I feel like I need help, but I don't know who or what can. So therapy yes? no?

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 13, 2010 7:07 am


considering the neighborhood where i live i'm a little scared..what should i do to avoid any other..miss happes
PostPosted: Sat Mar 13, 2010 2:19 pm


Aimi Ayumu
I have a question too. If you've been hurt, and after a while it's haunting you and people keep talking about it indirectly and it's effecting you worse, is therapy the right thing to handle it? I really think I need some therapy even though I was sexually attacked, molested, and near raped 5 months ago. It's getting worse and I feel like I need help, but I don't know who or what can. So therapy yes? no?

Well, in some situations therapy can make it worse.
I say try it and if it's not working, try something else.

Kiss me im lrish
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 13, 2010 3:11 pm


Kiss me im lrish
Aimi Ayumu
I have a question too. If you've been hurt, and after a while it's haunting you and people keep talking about it indirectly and it's effecting you worse, is therapy the right thing to handle it? I really think I need some therapy even though I was sexually attacked, molested, and near raped 5 months ago. It's getting worse and I feel like I need help, but I don't know who or what can. So therapy yes? no?

Well, in some situations therapy can make it worse.
I say try it and if it's not working, try something else.

It depends on how comfortable you are with talking to others about what's happened to you. Though, I disagree with what Kiss me im Irish said, I feel that sometimes therapy can really be helpful, depending on how comfortable you are, and how the therapist works with you as well. I've just recently stopped going to therapy about two weeks ago, but I loved it while I was attending. Group sessions are always the best too... It's really helpful to hear about other people's struggles and how they overcome things that you're going through yourself. Not to mention, group therapy sessions is a great way to make new friends.
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