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Blondiey26

PostPosted: Fri Mar 05, 2010 10:38 pm


uhhm.i started texting this guy..(code name=bob) almost a year ago and ive been going to school with him since i moved here and i fell for him after a couple months then i stopped talking to bob for about a month and he acted as if i was still in love with him which made me remember y i did and then i stopped again and now i think its happening again...what does it mean?
PostPosted: Fri Mar 05, 2010 10:51 pm


It means you're a teenager. =.

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PostPosted: Sat Mar 06, 2010 9:56 pm


Why did you stop talking to him?
PostPosted: Sun Mar 07, 2010 7:04 am


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Why did you stop talking to him?

because it seemed like he hated me :/ but aparently he doesnt

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 08, 2010 11:37 pm


Hmm. Well, I don't know much about your situation... but from what I can tell, Trey is right. lol

Throughout life you will fall in and out of love many times. If it's meant to be, you'll keep in touch. If not, well... not much you can do.

Wish I had better advice for ya, but unfortunately, I don't.

Good luck!

-Mel-
PostPosted: Mon Mar 15, 2010 8:50 pm


Yeah teenager describes how the emotions is effecting you, but are you asking what emotion it is?

Affection, no not Love, but affection.

Affection is a strong desire for someone or something that can whelp up from time to time, usually like you've described, there and not and there again, and sometimes the second flare and afterward are more intense than their previous ones

Love is you wanna -be- them, good and bad, talents and flaws sins and virtues.

in the case you need info on what to do, i'd say if you must pursue your affections, do so as a casual friend for now

later the feeling may show in him

also, to add to what bloody said, you may lose contact with him, even if he's "the one" but later on you'll find him again, provided it's meant to be...if not, then you two may reunite but what happens then is anyones guess

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PostPosted: Wed Jan 05, 2011 10:33 pm


No one really knows whats love is and i dont really know way all teens my age always say there in love and they cant really define it
i mainly think its there hormones

and my advice to you is concentrate on school no need to concentrate on boys yet you have a ton of things to do wait till you did what what you wanted wanted to do first then settle down (travel the world, sky dive, scuba diving,help the planet,visit exotic places )
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