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allyoopla92

PostPosted: Wed Feb 24, 2010 4:28 pm


So I've been a vegetarian for about 2 months now. My parents were fine with it as long as I ate what they bought. They didn't care that I wouldn't eat meat, though it was sometimes hard to find a restaurant...

But now, basically, my mom's worried about me because my grandma told her I shouldn't be a vegetarian at this age (17).

My dad's girlfriend told him that I was too young to be a vegetarian as I am still growing, and that I should wait til I'm in my THIRTIES to not eat meat. Waiting until it's more because of a health reason and not a choice.

Should I listen to them and eat meat, or stick with my choice and tell them it shouldn't be a concern as long as I'm getting the vital nutrients (which I do have a doctor's appointment to check)?
PostPosted: Wed Feb 24, 2010 5:29 pm


No one is too young to be vegetarian, I believe. If you believe being vegetarian is a good thing, keep on doing it. Don't let them pressure you into doing something that you believe in.

ikeywii


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 24, 2010 5:32 pm


My parents and I are vegetarian, nd my mother has a newborn. You can bet this new born is going to be raised in a vegetarian manner (though eventually she'll have a choice). If your parents are having people through nfo at hem, through info back. Show them its OK. (=
PostPosted: Wed Feb 24, 2010 6:38 pm


Your family members don't know what they are talking about. It's healthy for people to be veg at any age, as long as they do it right and are getting all the nutrients that they need. As Suicidal said, many kids are raised completely vegetarian or vegan.

I'd recommend doing some research if you haven't already. Make sure you're eating a balanced veg diet. Find some information on the health benefits of a veg diet and show it to your family. And talk to your doctor about it since you're going in soon anyway (Just be aware that doctors are not the same as nutritionists. Some doctors don't know much about nutrition and the benefits of a veg diet.) 3nodding

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PostPosted: Thu Feb 25, 2010 8:27 am


LorienLlewellyn
Just be aware that doctors are not the same as nutritionists. Some doctors don't know much about nutrition and the benefits of a veg diet.) 3nodding

Haha, this couldn't be any more true. It's sad how little doctors really know about nutrition.

Everyone here has given great advice. It sounds like your grandmother is old fashioned and gave an excuse for your mother to use, who was probably apprehensive about your decision to begin with.

Show them that you're responsible and that you've done your research on your diet, and not just doing it to rebel or be different or whatever. Show them that it's a real life choice you made and that you're serious about it. Don't lecture them, just tell them why you chose it and why you'll continue to keep on with it, and why your grandmother is incorrect (in an educated, polite manner of course). You might even impress your elders at your grown-upness.
PostPosted: Thu Feb 25, 2010 8:46 am


See a nutritionist or better yet, a dietitian. Make sure you phone in advance and ask if they're veg friendly, some are not. (That's an important step, education on specific issues varies wildly in this profession.)

You're 17, you are *not* too young to be a vegetarian, but everyone is too young (and too old) to not get the proper nutrition. You can push as hard as you can and some parents won't help. My parents refused to help me at all when I was young and I didn't go veg until I got to college. As in I would have been eating potatoes and cheerios with water for four years until I got out of the house.

However my experience isn't yours, if your parents were supportive at first you can sit them down and say 'This is what I believe in, nothing you say or do will be forcing me to eat meat, you can either help me do it so that I am healthy or you can stop me from being able to be healthy in this regard."

Good luck luv,

Tandahda


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PostPosted: Fri Apr 02, 2010 11:12 am


too young to be a vegetarian? its ideal to be a vegetarian at any age.
PostPosted: Sat Apr 03, 2010 9:29 am


Everyone else has given GREAT advice! but here is a good solid stepping stone into doing some research. http://pcrm.org
The Physician's Committee For Responsible Medicine is a GROUP of doctors. When my rents were freaking out over my going VEGAN(a version of vegetarian where one eats NOTHING from an animal at all) and tried to shoot down PCRM, and I went to my next doctor, she RECOMMENDED this organization

My doctor also recommended Vegan.org and veggieteenscookbok.com

(And since my doctor recommended them and they ARE pro-vegan, they are bound to have PLENTY of reliable info. ;P)

Also, when you see your doctor, ask them where you can get some reliable information supporting a vegetarian diet over an omni one at any age.

Parent's are afraid to mess w/doctors, despite how little they actually know. ;P

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