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My fiance is a Virgin and...well we are both scared about what will happen but she is not affraid of the pain if any, she is scared about not being able to do anything right, and me I'm well, to put it bluntly, i don't know what position is the best to do things with her for the first time is (i know pathetic right sweatdrop ) But im hoping you guys here in the guild can help me and tell me what the best one would be.

I have had sex twice before her but never with a virgin please im really nervous and scared

Most girls will not experience any pain or bleeding as long as they are completely relaxed, in the mood, and very well lubricated. You can get a water-based lubricant at the store to help. Foreplay can help too. And you'll want to make sure you are comfortable with each other and not in danger of being walked in on so that she can relax.

There is no such thing as a "best" position. Because "best" is an opinion! Some girls like to be on bottom the first time so that they don't really have to do anything. Others like to be on top so that they have more control over the process and can decide how slow or gentle to be. Other girls like to hop right into something a bit more kinky! It all depends on the people, what they want, and what they feel comfortable with. You can talk to your partner about it ahead of time and see what she would like to try first. If it doesn't work out, you guys can always switch to another position.

She should not be worried about not doing things right. There isn't a right or wrong way to do anything sexual. We're all different and like different things. If one person doesn't like something she does, for example, that doesn't mean it's "wrong." Because someone else probably would like it! So experienced or not, we all have a communicate and experiment a bit to find out what a new partner likes.

All in all it sounds like you two might be really nervous, both about sexuality and with each other. I'd recommend getting past that a bit before having sex. You should ideally feel comfortable with each other. You should be able to talk about what feels good and what doesn't. You should be able to guide each other. And you shouldn't feel funny about experimenting or be afraid of "messing up." Explore others things (manual sex, oral sex, dry sex, etc.) if you haven't already.

Also make sure she can get to an ob-gyn. Make sure you two have at least one form of birth control that you know how to use. Condoms paired with a hormonal method would be even better.