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Posted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 9:21 am
Last night, my boyfriend and I slept together. We didn't have sex, but he rubbed his genitals against mine (no condom + no clothes = many worries later crying )
He didn't enter me, but he was pre-cumming very much and made the motions of sex. When I say that, I mean that he pounded against me, but didn't go inside... At one point his tip went in just a little, and I was like, "Wrong hole!" Anyway, we didn't shower afterwards and we did this a few times during the night. I only thought about this when I was washing down south and I stopped and went, "Oh s**t..."
So, can I get pregnant from this? If so, what should I do? And if there's a chance for pregnancy (well, I know there is because it isn't abstinence sweatdrop ), what should I do if I do become pregnant? I know there's no way we could take care of a baby right now (he's 32, I'm 17 (legal in the state of Texas)), with his work and family stress and all...
Are there any natural things that can abort a pregnancy? As much as I would hate to do that...it wouldn't be fair to the baby, in either circumstance...
Please respond in any way that you can. Thank you and have a good day.
P.S.- Happy Valentine's Day! heart
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Posted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 9:47 am
I believe that its very unlikely for you to get pregnant from that. There's a slim chance, but its close to negative. So I'd say you are fine. Don't worry yourself over this, because when you worry you can delay your period which will make you even more worried. Believing you are pregnant can actually give you the symptoms of pregnancy. So all in all, don't stress it :] You're more than likely not pregnant.
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Posted: Sun Feb 14, 2010 10:29 am
Pregnancy is possible from that. Pre-ejaculate can contain sperm. And sperm can swim, so all they need to do is make it to the vaginal entrance.
Whether or not you showered after wouldn't make a difference if the sperm were already in your body. You should never be trying to wash inside your v****a either since that can lead to infections.
Plan B can help to prevent pregnancy if you take it within 72 hours of the incident. You can get Plan B from doctors, clinics, or pharmacies. It's not 100% effective though. So if you miss your period, take a pregnancy test.
If the Plan B failed and you were pregnant, your only options would be keeping the baby, giving the baby up for adoption, or having an abortion.
STDs can be transmitted from that type of fooling around too, so you might want to get tested.
You also might want to get some birth control. Even if you're not actually having sex, at least you'll know you're safe when you fool around like this. And you'll be prepared when you do have sex.
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