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Posted: Fri Jan 29, 2010 12:06 am
After tossing her books on the sofa, she decided to grab a snack and get on-line. She logged on under her screen name ByAngel213.... She checked her Buddy List and saw GoTo123 was on. She sent him an instant message:
ByAngel213: Hi.. I'm glad you are on! I thought someone was following me home today. It was really weird!
GoTo123: LOL You watch too much TV.. Why would someone be following you? Don't you live in a safe neighborhood?
ByAngel213: Of course I do. LOL I guess it was my imagination cuz' I didn't see anybody when I looked out.
GoTo123: Unless you gave your name out on-line.... You haven't done that have you?
ByAngel213: Of course not. I'm not stupid you know.
GoTo123: Did you have a softball game after school today?
ByAngel213: Yes and we won!!
GoTo123: That's great! Who did you play?
ByAngel213: We played the Hornets. LOL. Their uniforms are so gross! They look like bees.. LOL
GoTo123: What is your team called?
ByAngel213: We are the Canton Cats. We have tiger paws on our uniforms. They are really cool.
GoTo1 23: Did you pitch?
ByAngel213: No I play second base. I got to go. My homework has to be done before my parents get home. I don't want them mad at me. Bye!
GoTo123: Catch you later.. Bye
Meanwhile........GoTo123 went to the member menu and began to search for her profile. When it came up, he highlighted it and printed it out. He took out a pen and began to write down what he knew about Angel so far.
Her name: Shannon Birthday: Jan.. 3, 1985 Age: 13 State where she lived: North Carolina
Hobbies: softball, chorus, skating and going to the mall. Besides this information, he knew she lived in Canton because she had just told him. He knew she stayed by herself until 6:30 p.m. every afternoon until her parents came home from work. He knew she played softball on Thursday afternoons on the school team, and the team was named the Canton Cats.. Her favorite number 7 was printed on her jersey. He knew she was in the eighth grade at the Canton Junior High School . She had told him all this in the conversations they had on- line. He had enough information to find her now.
Shannon didn't tell her parents about the incident on the way home from the ballpark that day. She didn't want them to make a scene and stop her from walking home from the softball games. Parents were always overreacting and hers were the worst. It made her wish she was not an only child. Maybe if she had brothers and sisters, her parents wouldn't be so overprotective.
By Thursday, Shannon had forgotten about the footsteps following her.
Her game was in full swing when suddenly she felt someone staring at her. It was then that the memory came back. She glanced up from her second base position to see a man watching her closely.
He was leaning against the fence behind first base and he smiled when she looked at him.. He didn't look scary and she quickly dismissed the sudden fear she had felt.
After the game, he sat on a bleacher while she talked to the coach. She noticed his smile once again as she walked past him. He nodded and she smiled back. He noticed her name on the back of her shirt. He knew he had found her.
Quietly, he walked a safe distance behind her. It was only a few blocks to Shannon 's home, and once he saw where she lived he quickly returned to the park to get his car....
Now he had to wait. He decided to get a bite to eat until the time came to go to Shannon 's house. He drove to a fast food restaurant and sat there until time to make his move.
Shannon was in her room later that evening when she heard voices in the living room.
"Shannon, come here," her father called. He sounded upset and she couldn't imagine why. She went into the room to see the man from the ballpark sitting on the sofa.
"Sit down," her father began, "this man has just told us a most interesting story about you."
Shannon sat back. How could he tell her parents anything? She had never seen him before today!
"Do you know who I am, Shannon ?" the man asked.
"No," Shannon answered.
"I am a police officer and your online friend, GoTo123."
Shannon was stunned. "That's impossible! GoTo is a kid my age! He's 14. And he lives in Michigan !"
The man smiled. "I know I told you all that, but it wasn't true. You see, Shannon , there are people on-line who pretend to be kids; I was one of them. But while others do it to injure kids and hurt them, I belong to a group of parents who do it to protect kids from predators.. I came here to find you to teach you how dangerous it is to talk to people on-line. You told me enough about yourself to make it easy for me to find you.... You named the school you went to, the name of your ball team and the position you played. The number and name on your jersey just made finding you a breeze....."
Shannon was stunned. "You mean you don't live in Michigan ?"
He laughed.. "No, I live in Raleigh . It made you feel safe to think I was so far away, didn't it?"
She nodded.
"I had a friend whose daughter was like you. Only she wasn't as lucky. The guy found her and murdered her while she was home alone. Kids are taught not to tell anyone when they are alone, yet they do it all the time on-line. The wrong people trick you into giving out information a little here and there on-line. Before you know it, you have told them enough for them to find you without even realizing you have done it. I hope you've learned a lesson from this and won't do it again.. Tell others about this so they will be safe too?"
"It's a promise!"
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Posted: Fri Jan 29, 2010 5:17 am
I've noticed how easy it is to get almost anyone's information on those myspace, facebook etc. I just chat with them and they can other slowly or quickly let loose all their info goods. I have more friends I don't know in person than friends I do know.
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Posted: Fri Jan 29, 2010 1:08 pm
Yeah, I know on Facebook I'm constantly haunting my sister's profile to see what she's up to, but I also notice that some of her friends have way too much of their info showing, right down to their cellphone numbers. :/
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Posted: Wed Feb 24, 2010 11:39 pm
Ugh. I know the feeling. Some of my friends have everything posted on their myspace and facebook. I can't get over the fact that they just give out their cellphone numbers to everyone! I would never do that. The most people know about me is my first name,the state I live in,my age, and a picture. Everything else stays with me only.
I wish people would be more responsible with their info.
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Posted: Wed Feb 24, 2010 11:49 pm
Asher2501 Yeah, I know on Facebook I'm constantly haunting my sister's profile to see what she's up to, but I also notice that some of her friends have way too much of their info showing, right down to their cellphone numbers. :/ I stalk my little sister's myspace like no other. I hate what her friends post and I'm worried about them. They are possibly putting my sister's life at risk with all these psychos out now! when I see stupid crap posted on her myspace, I leave a nasty comment about it and I immediately call her and tell her to remove it! My aunt and uncle don't know she has a myspace but our adult cousin does, but I've threatened to tell them. But she's pretty good at keeping herself safe now. I think I've finally gotten her to make it private. Edit: Btw, I think you can report people for having their cell phone numbers listed. I'm not sure, but I do know that if you see it here on Gaia, you should report it immediately! Gaia frowns on that very much, so make sure you report it if you see here. 3nodding You have no idea how much moderators appreciate it.
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Posted: Sat Feb 27, 2010 12:04 am
Preston Trelsly Asher2501 Yeah, I know on Facebook I'm constantly haunting my sister's profile to see what she's up to, but I also notice that some of her friends have way too much of their info showing, right down to their cellphone numbers. :/ I stalk my little sister's myspace like no other. I hate what her friends post and I'm worried about them. They are possibly putting my sister's life at risk with all these psychos out now! when I see stupid crap posted on her myspace, I leave a nasty comment about it and I immediately call her and tell her to remove it! My aunt and uncle don't know she has a myspace but our adult cousin does, but I've threatened to tell them. But she's pretty good at keeping herself safe now. I think I've finally gotten her to make it private. Edit: Btw, I think you can report people for having their cell phone numbers listed. I'm not sure, but I do know that if you see it here on Gaia, you should report it immediately! Gaia frowns on that very much, so make sure you report it if you see here. 3nodding You have no idea how much moderators appreciate it. Having your phone number listed on Facebook isn't against any rules. When you fill out your info section there's a spot to put your phone number, so it's definitely allowed. I have my cell phone listed there, but I'm twenty three and I feel okay about having it there. When I was a teenager though, I would never give out info like that. I only do so now that I'm older. Some of my friends have their addresses listed on Facebook too, which is also perfectly within the rules. I don't think putting an actual address is a very good idea, even at my age I don't feel comfortable with that so I don't fill that part in.
As for Gaia, I have never heard that there is any rule against phone numbers. I find that upsetting because I haven't seen it listed in the rules and I feel like Gaia has all these secret rules that no one knows about (my boyfriend got banned half a year ago for breaking one of these unknown rules) and it's really unfair. I'm in a guild for people who live in my area and we do post information like phone numbers because we actually meet each other in person quite regularly since we're all in the same state. Also most of us who do this are adults, some of the youngest might be in their late teens. So I feel that posting phone numbers in certain situations is okay as long as the person isn't too young or doing it behind parents' backs, etc. If Gaia wants to have a rule about it, that's their decision, but I think it should be clearly listed as a rule, unless I've missed this rule somewhere. neutral But as for the original article, I've read it before a long time ago. And actually, I don't think it was originally about Myspace, because if you look at the age of the girl, and the year she was born, I don't think Myspace was around when she would have been that age. XD I was born in 1986, so I would have been twelve if she was thirteen, and I don't think Myspace existed that long ago. >_> I was nineteen when I joined it. But that aside, it does make a good point, whether it's on Myspace or anywhere else on the internet, too many young people give out too much information. At that age I never gave out phone numbers, addresses, or my full name or the name of my school. I think the most I told people was my age and what state I lived in, and didn't go into further detail than that. I remember at fifteen, when I'd been in a relationship with my boyfriend online for a year, he was going out of the country to visit family and wanted to send me a postcard, so I got permission from my mom to give him my address. I would not have ever done this without permission!
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