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 Posted: Wed Jan 27, 2010 11:11 pm
Ok so it seems like im like the only guy who posts in the guild. But thats not my question.
Its about women.
Why is it when you tell a women there beautiful. All they say is that "I'm Not" and I'm Fat" When its like there totaley not?
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Posted: Wed Jan 27, 2010 11:18 pm
Self-esteem issues... not being treated as if they were, years of others telling them the opposite.... stuff like that leaves a stain on your psyche. 3nodding
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Posted: Wed Jan 27, 2010 11:20 pm
Dowager Self-esteem issues... not being treated as if they were, years of others telling them the opposite.... stuff like that leaves a stain on your psyche. 3nodding But that doesn't make much sense. Cauze iv been treated like s**t most of my life. And i do not think im ugly or fat or anything. So im sure if i can think like, most of the women in the world can to. It just annoys me when guys tell them that they are not ugly. then there is always an arguement. and you cant take the compliment =_=
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Posted: Wed Jan 27, 2010 11:27 pm
iLohkee Dowager Self-esteem issues... not being treated as if they were, years of others telling them the opposite.... stuff like that leaves a stain on your psyche. 3nodding But that doesn't make much sense. Cauze iv been treated like s**t most of my life. And i do not think im ugly or fat or anything. So im sure if i can think like, most of the women in the world can to. It just annoys me when guys tell them that they are not ugly. then there is always an arguement. and you cant take the compliment =_= Women are more 'delicate'. Where guys can shrug things off, a female will harbor something inside until it festers and grows. And we tend to focus on the negative rather than the good. Maybe it's our way of wanting to self-improve... I mean, by focusing on those things... as ridiculous as that sounds. Someone clarify or add to it if you can... >/// v///<
Also, some females are just falsely modest... o o
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Posted: Wed Jan 27, 2010 11:28 pm
Dowager iLohkee Dowager Self-esteem issues... not being treated as if they were, years of others telling them the opposite.... stuff like that leaves a stain on your psyche. 3nodding But that doesn't make much sense. Cauze iv been treated like s**t most of my life. And i do not think im ugly or fat or anything. So im sure if i can think like, most of the women in the world can to. It just annoys me when guys tell them that they are not ugly. then there is always an arguement. and you cant take the compliment =_= Women are more 'delicate'. Where guys can shrug things off, a female will harbor something inside until it festers and grows. And we tend to focus on the negative rather than the good. Maybe it's our way of wanting to self-improve... I mean, by focusing on those things... as ridiculous as that sounds. Someone clarify or add to it if you can... >/// v///<
Also, some females are just falsely modest... o o *sigh* I still wish you would accept the compliment and not make an argument on it. Like seriously. Have the time it is true on what us guys say. ^.^ We are not the enemy you know : 3
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Posted: Thu Jan 28, 2010 12:29 am
iLohkee Dowager iLohkee Dowager Self-esteem issues... not being treated as if they were, years of others telling them the opposite.... stuff like that leaves a stain on your psyche. 3nodding But that doesn't make much sense. Cauze iv been treated like s**t most of my life. And i do not think im ugly or fat or anything. So im sure if i can think like, most of the women in the world can to. It just annoys me when guys tell them that they are not ugly. then there is always an arguement. and you cant take the compliment =_= Women are more 'delicate'. Where guys can shrug things off, a female will harbor something inside until it festers and grows. And we tend to focus on the negative rather than the good. Maybe it's our way of wanting to self-improve... I mean, by focusing on those things... as ridiculous as that sounds. Someone clarify or add to it if you can... >/// v///<
Also, some females are just falsely modest... o o *sigh* I still wish you would accept the compliment and not make an argument on it. Like seriously. Have the time it is true on what us guys say. ^.^ We are not the enemy you know : 3 But you guys are the one's to give us complexes in the first place o ,O
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Posted: Thu Jan 28, 2010 6:11 am
I'd like to back up Dowager's earlier statements, and add a little more.
We harbor our negative emotions throughout our lives.
On top of that, we have social pressures to look our best. If you aren't "pretty," well, you're not interesting.
Media also plays a role too. We're pressured to look like Hollywood stars, that beautiful person on TV, the covergirl on the magazine. x_x
Women with low self-esteem may look at the cover and ask herself why she isn't as beautiful as that model.
If you ask me, it's too much. I believe in the whole, she's-beautiful-without-the-make-up-and-diets kinda stuff. If someone tells me I'm beautiful, I'll say I'm not, but I'm just really modest.
OH. That reminds me, there's an event going on at Facebook called the Tell Her She's Beautiful Rally.
You should so totally join in on it. ;D
[/shameless plug]
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Posted: Thu Jan 28, 2010 9:46 am
well the female breed is modest for the most part. we don't like to seem full of our slefs. it's not that we don't like hearing it we just think that who we are is on the inside not out but we are kinda shallow sometimes as with every one on earth. it's hard to exsplane... but well even if we don't admit it it's really nice to hear " oh your eyes are so pretty" "your so cute" "your really pretty." it makes it easer to boost our slef a steam once in awhile. and really mean what you say cuz some people are jerks. also if telling her she's pretty dosen't work tell her what a great personality she has ect. she'll thank you. =D zato ish a good boy. lolz
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Posted: Thu Jan 28, 2010 12:59 pm
Well thank you guys : 3 or i should say girls : P
Very much helped.
It's just sometimes it bothers me. No idea why.
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Posted: Thu Jan 28, 2010 8:00 pm
Bothers most men, to be quite honest.
But glad to be of some assistance, deary. :3
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Posted: Thu Jan 28, 2010 8:01 pm
Semproniana Bothers most men, to be quite honest.
But glad to be of some assistance, deary. :3 Im glad to have you guys here ^.^
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Posted: Fri Feb 12, 2010 10:38 am
It's prolly their insecurity talking. I know when I get told that I'm pretty I blush & say no... But I am getting a bit of a muffin top now. crying I need to lay off the cereal...
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Posted: Fri Feb 12, 2010 2:49 pm
My first response was going to be "Because we're stupid" but that would be mean and I don't want to get kicked out. So, I'm going to tweak it a bit so that it is...less rude but honest. We say...wait, other girls say "No, I'm not" and all that jazz because they are either being really modest or are not as comfortable in their bodies as they should be - by now. Oh, why did I separate myself? That has only happened to me once if so much and I have been vain as ever for probably my whole life. When I know I look good, I don't shy away from it. I might still blush though. Obnoxious much, jeez? xd *Renewing her Faith*
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Posted: Fri Feb 12, 2010 5:03 pm
Thank you laddies : 3
Must say its weird being like the only male In the guild Lols xD
But oh wells, i have you to help me understand women, for i do not understand them what so ever..
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